"A thank you letter to the men who didn't have the b~~~~ to claim me"

[ClintParticipant 331]

Here is a real gem I saw on my facebook wall today. Another article about a “strong and independent woman” who also can’t stand being alone. More female shaming tactics about not having the b~~~~.

The article is so vague and ambiguous that it’s hard to even tell what she is saying, but I’m sure it’s on purpose to cover up her lack of substance.

http://www.elephantjournal.com/2015/06/a-thank-you-letter-to-the-men-who-didnt-have-the-b~~~~-to-claim-me/

But here is the kicker – after reading that stupid article, her Bio at the bottom is priceless:

“Kate Rose is an artist, free thinker, lover, writer, passionate yogi, teacher, mother, rule breaker, and rebel. … [more ambiguous gibberish] … She lives for adventure and wakes each morning with the excitement of a new day waiting to unfold at her feet.”

More like she wastes her time pretending to be some mysterious artist because she gets a nice alimony/child support check from the father of her kid. And spends her time wishing she could’ve kept a man around with NO B~~~~ to pay for her stuff and tell what to do.

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you into something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

[RoyDalParticipant]

Well said!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Lord VatsParticipant 379]

She’s just an attention whore, who’s backhandedly complimenting men.
Just look at the comments, women are going “Thanks, I needed this” as if to convince themselves of their own delusions of being a strong woman. While Manginas are commenting how they could “handle” a strong woman.
Also, she replied to each and every of the men’s comments. Only goes on to show how desperate she really is.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Clint wrote:

…. mother…..

Ah yes. The plot thickens.

Clint wrote:

…. I am a strong and independent woman…..

Why don’t they ever say “independent and strong”? It’s always “strong and independent”. Like she read it it a magazine.

Clint wrote:

…. don’t have the b~~~~ to claim me…..

Oh honey, we wouldn’t DREAM of *claiming* a “strong and independent” single mother, — erm. I mean, “woman”. Wouldn’t want to be accused of “oppressing” her and “claiming” her like a possession, or assume ownership of a piece of property. No way! are you KIDDING? We have (what did you call it? Oh yes…) the B~~~~ to let you remain “strong and independent” because that’s exactly where you deserve to be. Preferably forever.

Thank you for showing me everything that I don’t want, so that when I finally come face-to-face with what I do want—I’ll have the courage to go after it.

Are you openly admitting that you can’t even figure out “what you want” until a MAN points it out to you? Careful there. That doesn’t sound very “strong and independent” when you can’t even make up your own mind about “what you want”. That doesn’t even take any skill or introspection. But that’s how we know you “strong and independent” types figure out “what you want”. Because you shop for men using ELIMINATION – using the American Idol method. It’s not actually the BEST you will end up with. It’ just… the last of the eliminated.

When a man seeks a girlfriend or a wife – or a mobile phone – he compares and contrasts all the POSITIVE features, and makes a purchase decision based on that – before having the b~~~~ to “claim” it for himself. A *strong and independent* woman smashes every iPhone (and man) on the ground, and whichever one doesn’t break (and puts up with her s~~~ tests) … thats the one she ends up with. Then she will convince herself “he’s THE ONE”.

You need to be shown what you DON’T want, just to figure out what you DO want.

There are only two words for that:

IN.

SANE.

Thank you for helping make me into the strong confident woman that I am today.

Well since you can’t even confidently make up your own mind unless a man makes it FOR you, then you’re not as strong and confident as you pretend. But it sure SOUNDS good, doesn’t it sweetie?

In looking at what emotions the behaviors of the others were triggering in me I had the ability to look at myself and make the choice on how I wanted to feel. It was only through this experience that I learned no one can make me feel a certain way unless I give them permission to do so.

You just can’t make this s~~~ up!

Come on. How many fingers did you insert into your vagina while you wrote that sentence.
It was 3, wasn’t it. At least 2 in the pink, and one in the stink. For sure.

I am simply so grateful that you never loved me enough.

Says only a crazy person.

Thank you for showing me that I don’t want someone to be only half in love with me, or to merely appreciate me—but to leave them breathless.

You’re welcome. I’m getting there.

Thank you for teaching me that the love I seek is the one that is extraordinary.

Smashing every one on the ground doesn’t make the one that doesn’t shatter “extraordinary”. It’s just the one that didn’t break. You already admitted you wouldn’t know “extraordinary” if you were holding it in your hand. You couldn’t even know what “extraordinary” means unless a MAN pointed it out to you.

I will never fit into any sort of box or label.

AW come on, don’t be that way. You’re label is “strong and independent”. Like Louis Vuitton. On crack.

I was not put here to make others feel comfortable, but instead to make them feel alive.

Wow you’re good. I burned my hand on a red hot element once. It sure reminded me that I was alive. But I would never want to repeat it thankyouverymuch.

Thank you for never appreciating me for my individuality and spirit, because it taught me how important it is to stay true to myself.

LOLZ!

Although being alone was tinged in isolation at times, I realize now that it was in those moments that I was able to take root and bloom into myself.

Like you had a choice. Could throw you in solitary confinement and you would still “take root and bloom into yourself”.

Thank you for leaving me with my loneliness so I could find my way back to myself.

Don’t mention it. It was nothing really.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[peterfaParticipant 833]

On one hand, she could just have BPD and this is another outworking of that. Maybe she really did learn a few things, that she actually doesn’t need a man, that she should figure herself out first. However, she never indicated that.

I was hanging out with a female friend a few days ago. She was… well… fat. She was getting messages on her personal she put up. I even tried to coach her about eliminating men. She rejected all of them, one after another. She should message them back and try to dig into them to see who they really are. No… rejected… rejected… This really fat girl rejected them all. She didn’t give a damn who they are because there was something wrong with their approach. She had this idea of how she wanted to be approached. Like a guy is supposed to just know her preferences. It’s like she expects him to be born just for her, and not to learn, but to just magically know her preferences. A man isn’t to learn and try to figure out the system, but to just know. The other women and what worked with them be damned… rejected… rejected…

[Anonymous 13]

mother

All hail the matriarchy and its many surrogate mothers.  These women are beautiful flowers, liberated so they can bloom into the unique snowflakes that they are.

 

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

My answer:

You’re welcome …. anytime 😆

[Anonymous 42]

Hitchhiker’s Guide to Narcissism….. She’s a real woman, a modern woman, an empowered woman! Just a tiny bug in my scheme of things… Squish!

[ScandinavianParticipant 590]

I highly doubt truth is her only drug…

After reading what she wrote several times, what I compressed it all down to was; “I’m looking for someone I can abuse that won’t run when they see who I really am”.

[GrumpyParticipant]

You’re welcome,

I seem to have left my claim check at the court house almost 20 years ago and haven’t gotten around to retrieving it.  You’re an “INDEPENDENT” woman, find the right guy/girl/dildo/animal yourself.  Independence means having the ability and fortitude to do things for oneself, strength is a part of it, not a separate category. As for the “mother” badge of honour. Big f~~~ing deal, giving birth is like taking a dump. Its a part of natural life and is reasonably easy and painless in the western world. Get over yourself cupcake.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Klaus WindamierParticipant 543]

She bring the strong and independent?

Did she not know what is the meaning of strong and independent are?

It means someone is ready to do things alone if it must and not relying on other person but still having a morale and helping others in need.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

What I may claim is something that belongs to me, like luggage at an airport.  The only luggage I would claim would be that which is mine, and fits me.  Anything else is judge baggage and I have enough baggage in my life I don’t need more.

My b~~~~ aren’t for claiming special snowflakes also.  For me, snowflakes come out during snowstorms, and for me to expose my b~~~~ in a snowstorm is risking frostbite in my crotch, and I am not interested in that.

I also had visions she might enjoy a bunch of men claiming her.  But anytime a group of anyone attempt to claim anything, the end results are usually it ends up in the court of law over who actually should have title to the object in question.

Wait, what was the original article about?  I was supposed to pay more attention to her and claim her?  Sorry, I just had too much fun doing philosophy on the fly as I wrote this.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[RennieParticipant]

No, no the pleasure is all ours and mine especially since you didn’t get to suck the soul out of some poor guy.

[BufordParticipant 935]

I should write a letter thanking her for so readily letting the men of the world see exactly what she is upfront.

"This happens every time one of these floozies starts poontangin' around with those show folk fags. - Sheriff Buford T. Justice"

[flightspaceSpectator 207]

“those who know don’t tell, those who tell don’t know, and i don’t need to say how great i am, it already is so, and by spouting off accomplishments i see you lack the surety. talking s~~~ on everyone, because you always worry”

[Anonymous 1]

Article: “A thank you letter to the men who didn’t have the b~~~~ to claim me”
Me: You are welcome.

No need to read more than the tittle.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Anonymous wrote:

No need to read more than the tittle.

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

Didn’t read her bulls~~~, opened a book and read some poetry by Thomas Hardy instead.
Who gives a s~~~ what she has to say, we’ve heard it all before anyway.
Not gonna waste my eyes reading her stupid garbage.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[StandUpGuyParticipant 334]

When a woman uses the phrase “strong and independent” what they really mean is that they are “insecure and want some one to subsidize them on their terms”. She really wants to have a man as an accessory to her deluded view of herself.  No takers but for a night or two until they are done hearing how cool she thinks she is.

[StandUpGuyParticipant 334]

Anonymous wrote:

Marriage is for gays, lesbians, transvestites, and women. For heterosexual men it has become the unholy institution of death to destroy a his spirit, rendering him a sacrifice to the alter of feminism… I don’t do “that” religion… MGTOW, not a religion, it’s only a way….

I have been thinking this for a long time. It is time to start saying it more!

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