A sign of myself being MGTOW: Why ask a woman from church for coffee?

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

So, I have to ponder a bit my being single again. I found out a woman I knew overseas got married, and I find out from a Facebook post on her wall. She didn’t even tell me in IM chats. I had known her for years. She was looking for someone, and that is behind me. It was a nice place to verify what has been said about women and marrying around MGTOW. With that, I had begun to think about exactly when I ran into a man, talking to a man, who said how great marriage is, and all I can think of is women saying this. I can’t even think of a single man, unless he is talking to a woman, talking about how great it is. He will guilt and “man up”, and it is a lot of pain avoidance, but I don’t see anything positive.

That is a bit of context to this. Now I think further to myself trying to get church settled in. I am into a new area, and trying to get my mind on where to go to Church. I mention to correspondence to a priest I know that I find that women are a distraction. Yes, I notice physical attraction there, which bothers me, and I don’t see it being appropriate to go to a church because of the women. It is a matter of other things. In short, it is a distraction. The priest says, via email, why I don’t just ask one out for coffee (plug in another event there instead also)? And I am thinking, “Why?”. If my only reaction is to the looks, why would I ask a woman out? I do about everything alone. I don’t know them, and I don’t know if they would be an interesting enough conversation. So, I take this as myself being so used to walking MGTOW, that I don’t see it. I had done plenty of date things, and they end up really, really boring.

Oh, another thing, there is a singles group in the area I go to, to play boardgames. I go and play stuff, and that works. But to find a woman? I find women post-wall there. That really doesn’t work for me. My mind ISN”T on that at all.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[RoyDalParticipant]

The best advice I ever got about dating was “do not fish in the office pool.” I assert this applies to your church congregation too. (The pun on “fish” and the Greek spelling of “Christ” is unintentional, I assure you.)

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

You can feel the “mgtow-ness” (not a word but whatevs) in you when you start wondering why and not how you should date women, and I think we guys here all know the answer all too well.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[shadowParticipant 156]

IGMOW (I Go My Own Way) wrote:

<p abp=”252″> With that, I had begun to think about exactly when I ran into a man, talking to a man, who said how great marriage is, and all I can think of is women saying this. I can’t even think of a single man, unless he is talking to a woman, talking about how great it is. He will guilt and “man up”, and it is a lot of pain avoidance, but I don’t see anything positive.

Sounds like they in the honeymoon phase still where they putting out and still acting fake. Wait a couple years maybe when the woman stops having sex with the husband, gets bored, complications arise, then we will see how great marriage is. The fact is odds are not great for a man, maybe you get to be the lucky one and swing out okay, live a happy life no problems, make a little bit of money, kids grow up all is good. But the odds for a man getting screwed over are higher than a woman and the satisfaction of what is now will only continue to lesson. So if you are aiming for kids then that is probably what will make you happy.

[narwhalParticipant]

RoyDal wrote:

The best advice I ever got about dating was “do not fish in the office pool.” I assert this applies to your church congregation too. (The pun on “fish” and the Greek spelling of “Christ” is unintentional, I assure you.)

I’ve found church and work to be quite different. Then again, I work in IT about 20 years now, and I can probably count on 1 hand the number of attractive women I’ve seen in my department. Anyways, with church folk, I’ve found that there is little need to blindly date someone. You will be around them in social settings to know some basics about them before you go for one on one time. As well, church is about forgiveness and understanding, so I think people move on after it’s over better. And unlike work, if you don’t want to be there you don’t have to.

One drawback I’ve seen is that if you are a nice guy and converse with everyone regardless of how they look, etc…the women who never get attention from men with think you’re in to them. I used to have plenty of women tell me they felt like I lead them on. Whatever.

However, if you’re looking to get laid, or other things Churches don’t typically support, well, Church would not be a good place to date women. Not at all saying the church folk aren’t fooling around behind close doors, just that I wouldn’t go in with that plan.

Ok. Then do it.

[Anonymous 42]

Believe it or not, I was in a quire, yea I went to church, same thing inside as outside, In fact, the reason I split was because of one particular woman (c~~~) she scolded me at the alter with furious anger after I went to kneel with a woman that lost her child in a fire, a fire that I was in, and couldn’t do anything to save her child.
Any way, I’ve received more spiritual slaps in the face (in church) by embolden WESTERN F~~~+KING women and their gynocentic bulls~~~!
And all the men could do? NOTHING!
The spirit of woman has corrupted the church the same way they corrupt EVERYTHING ELSE!
They can have it all, I’m truly a ghost….

[goadsaidParticipant 100]

I tried to comment a second ago but I believe I was logged out for some reason. This doesn’t appear duplication but if it is I apologize.

Anonymous wrote:

The spirit of woman has corrupted the church the same way they corrupt EVERYTHING ELSE!
They can have it all,

Tell me about. I went grocery shopping yesterday in a crowded supermarket only to spend the whole time trying to not get run over by fat women with fat kids in packed and weighted shopping carts. Needless to say, I survived unscathed – but just barely. USUALLY I am able to mostly avoid these women since I eat healthy but they do sometimes spear me in the cereal aisle since fiber bars and shredded wheat are next to Count Chocula and fat momma flakes. Also, diet red bull is next to Dr. Pepper. This is an apparent conflict of interests for the less robust male.

[Anonymous 42]

My son, have you considered that maybe the Lord wants you to get sperm-jacked? His ways are a mystery.

Hey Survivor, my God wants me to “MANEUVER” I don’t argue with “HIM“, long ago I saw this world as a shooting gallery, and we’re the DUCKS, like it or not!

goadsaid wrote:

USUALLY I am able to mostly avoid these women since I eat healthy but they do sometimes spear me in the cereal aisle since fiber bars and shredded wheat are next to Count Chocula and fat momma flakes.

@goadsaid, here’s how I see it…
Isle #1. Fruits and vegetables, MG-Tower….
Isle #3. Bread, cereal, MG-Tower….
Isle #6. Deli, meats and fish in the rear, MG-Tower….

Isle #2. FROZEN FOOD.
Isle #4, SODA.
Isle #5 CANDY.
MG-Tower; MAN THE HARPOONS!

[TiredofbsParticipant 485]

Anonymous wrote:

Believe it or not, I was in a quire, yea I went to church, same thing inside as outside, In fact, the reason I split was because of one particular woman (c~~~) she scolded me at the alter with furious anger after I went to kneel with a woman that lost her child in a fire, a fire that I was in, and couldn’t do anything to save her child.
Any way, I’ve received more spiritual slaps in the face (in church) by embolden WESTERN F~~~+KING women and their gynocentic bulls~~~!
And all the men could do? NOTHING!
The spirit of woman has corrupted the church the same way they corrupt EVERYTHING ELSE!
They can have it all, I’m truly a ghost….

The reality is this, and I’ve been in church since I was born. Churches today are so feminized that I’m surprised any male pastors are left in the pulpit. The vast majority of pastors/priests are complete mangina’s, and I clarify, not all of them, but most. The one’s that aren’t are considered fringe preachers and outside of accepted Christianity or whatever faith you believe. The pastor I grew up under was for sure a Red Pill guy, and hated feminism with a passion. He didn’t give a s~~~ who he offended but he did have compassion for people. He was a WWII veteran and a good teacher as well as a friend and mentor. He counseled me during my early adult years and told me to avoid sluts, liars, and never be fooled by a woman’s charm. I didn’t listen to him and paid the price years later. Anyway, it’s depressing to see that many if not most churches today have become hotbeds of hardcore feminism. Personally, I think it offends God himself. Just my opinion.

[Anonymous 11]

It seems most churches ostracize singles into singles groups like there’s something wrong with being single. I’ll get to pick from a bunch of washed out post wall land whales at the church singles group.

I’d rather stalk tourist bars and meet women way younger than me who’ll f~~~ and then be gone.

[CaliParticipant 753]

I know I’ve said this before, but your priest is not following the Bible. 1 Corinthians chapter 7 clearly states that it is better for a man to stay single if he can control himself.

I think that your problem is that you need to build your self-control a little (that is, if you want to adhere to the Bible’s teaching).

Tell your priest to go read 1 Corinthians chapter 7, and then come back to with advice that reflects sound Christian doctrine. Next, you can try reducing your physical attraction. It really is quite simple: all you need to do is train yourself to see beyond a woman’s outward beauty and understand what they are really like. Just imagine the top 5 most unpleasant Christian women you have ever met, and imagine that the cute girl which is causing you to stumble stands a decent chance of becoming that woman.

Good job going to a priest for advice, but you really do need to be careful. He has just given you doctrinally incorrect advice. I wouldn’t say to stop being a member of his congregation, but you should be more careful to accept his words of advice with a grain of salt henceforth.

Just a misogynist virgin hiding away in his mother's basement. Nothing to see here...

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

I’m sorry, but that priest was a real mangina.

You were just saying how you found women a distraction, and his first impulse was to tell you to ask one out? He wasn’t even listening. You should have slammed down your e-mail receiver on his ass after screaming “You ask her out, oh wait you made vows against that sort of thing, but Im supposed to man up and marry these post wall hags? F~~~ you and f~~~ jesus.” slam.

The women I was distracted to aren’t the women in the singles group, I attend because I play games, and that is it. They are younger. I was told they have a number of single moms. The priest didn’t quite get the context, and while I have known him for years, he doesn’t know this area, or the context.

I am also in the Orthodox Christian Church. In this church, the priest marry, and he is married. This isn’t Roman Catholic. The advice was one of just being social. For myself, that is WAY too early personally. It is just physical attraction being REALLY distracting.

Mango Ingaway wrote:

You can feel the “mgtow-ness” (not a word but whatevs) in you when you start wondering why and not how you should date women, and I think we guys here all know the answer all too well.

At my age, and being unmarried all these years, I am now left with wondering why to bother. I would love to see some sort of really good date and know what the big deal is about that, or what is sought. The way my mind is, I seek to DO things of interest, not just BE around anyone for the sake of being around them. I don’t feel a need at all to end up just being social for its own sake. I see the Blue Pill way as being social above everything else, and settling just so you aren’t alone. I really don’t have use for that. Like with the Single Support group that I wrote about, my only interest is the game nights, and will depend on what is played. If it ends up pushing Yatzee 7 players, I won’t go.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[Anonymous 42]

Tiredofbs wrote:

I think it offends God himself. Just my opinion.

“OUR” opinion, I agree,,, the church has become pussified, isn’t that where a man gets married to the STATE? You know, “governmental matrimony”, where the woman is granted all sorts of unjust and unholy powers and dominion over a man,,,, The church is the henchmen for State! It’s said; “these are times like no other”. Armageddon? The END?

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

Tiredofbs wrote:

Churches today are so feminized that I’m surprised any male pastors are left in the pulpit. The vast majority of pastors/priests are complete mangina’s, and I clarify, not all of them, but most. The one’s that aren’t are considered fringe preachers and outside of accepted Christianity or whatever faith you believe.

Tiredofbs wrote:

Anyway, it’s depressing to see that many if not most churches today have become hotbeds of hardcore feminism. Personally, I think it offends God himself.

I’m basically done with Christianity at this point. I’ve yet to find a church that really follows the gospels, let alone the Bible itself. They’ve all become such politically correct, pussified and feminized organizations. The Baptist and Pentecostal ones aren’t really any better – tradcon mixed with a feminist world is still quite feminist, and their protection of women who do not, at all, deserve it, is pretty awful.

I haven’t met a priest or pastor in quite some time who wasn’t just one more feminized twit.

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

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