A Sighting of "Happily Ever After"

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  • #908168
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    Awakened
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    I Just came in from a lil drive, and had a cute lil sighting in my rearview mirror along the way.

    Behind me was a nice looking Porsche ragtop with the top down on this pleasant Summer evening.

    The driver was an older gentleman, and sitting next to him was an old lady.

    The one thing that they shared in common was that they both looked equally miserable.

    So, here we have a Beautiful Summer evening and a Beautiful Porsche Ragtop driving along in a wealthier suburb, but the driver and his passenger looked like they would have looked the same had they been driving a 1985 Chevrolet Cavalier in downtown Chicago during the middle of a blizzard.

    Yeah, I can really see how marriage can extend a man’s life. LOL LOL LOL LOL

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #908173
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    Gravel Pit
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    He is just her chauffeur bro!

    #908185
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    SpiderHerder
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    Muhahahaha !

    Bitch ! Get your foot off my fu.cking car !

    #908189
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    SweetDaddyDom420
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    Hey gents. Havent posted in awhile. Still happy with my nawalt unicorn. Bout to have our 1 year anniversary. Still getting poon whenever I want. Fried chicken. Waits on me hand and foot. Was a little rough at first. But now she does what I want because she knows I know whats best. I support her and take care of her, and she does the same. She respects me…. tells me she loves me 100 times a day, and treats me great as hell. Guys…. this is my 5th marriage. I know what its like to be cheated on, lied to, and totally unappreciated. She appreciates everything. If I take her to Wendys and spend $10, she will literally thank me 3 times. She was raised by her grandmother, which probably explains her old school mentality at 22 years old
    Will keep you posted. I know they can change. But now. Its f~~~ing great.
    My advice…. only date poor country girls. They actually appreciate an alpha male provider. But to get this kind of treatment, you need to actually be an alpha male provider. Maybe I will get f~~~ed over. But I doubt it. This girl actually realizes how great her life is with me, and how s~~~ty it was before me. Will keep you posted. But guys. Decent women exist. You just need to raise your standards and stop pandering to s~~~ty women just to get laid. Take care.

    #908191
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    IMickey503
    iMickey503
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    If only he had a Minivan. This would have never happened. 🙂

    All these people looking at this golden life in the burbs, thinking they are all happy. What a joke. The only reason why people feel happy in a nice car is when other people notice.

    And I got to say, as women age, they simply don’t like their hair messed up from the top being down. They don’t like being thrown around in a car taking curves, and they sure as hell don’t like it when you show off that you can do burn outs.

    Like it or not, I don’t think wealthy people are all that happy. I can confirm this with members of my own family and people that I know. But you know who always seems happy? When the car is full of people. Women like it or not will complain about the grandkids, but they sure don’t look sad that’s for sure! Neither does Grandpa.

    This also seems to be growing as people have less kids playing around to notice them. The point to living in a nice place is community. Something that has broken down a LONG time ago. So what’s the point?

    The nice car is nice, but as you get older, the charm of it of just buying a nice car does not fix anything for to long. People do get bored. But as time goes by, I think more of these couples simply came to terms that their lives are pretty much meaningless. Even their relationships are pretty dead at this point.

    You will see women for example going shopping. And I don’t think they care about what they buy. But simply to be able to see others is the joy. I don’t think they get that when you buy a new car, it’s just for you. There is not really any joy in it for women.

    There is the rare expectation of course. I’ve seen women simply in joy driving around their old cars and a few that love their Miata’s. But it’s more from people seeing them then the car itself.

    And just between you and me, I don’t know what it is, but when I had my ex in my car, it was hard to not have my hands on her body. Play with her hair, or simply have her massage my shoulder or neck while I was driving. Overtime, these things just simply go away. And it sucks.

    There was a stupid little meme that was posted a while ago that keeps making me wonder about something.

    There is truth in this. Like it or not, can anyone one of you men say that like it or not, women are the gate keepers of a happy marriage? And if you want to keep that going, women due to them having nothing more they can get simply get in a rut. I mean, as sad as it is, when there is no where left to climb or branch to, women simply stop being happy as they get older. While men don’t see it that way.

    So if you want to stay happy as a couple as a man, you can never really retire. Even if you have all the money that you need, women simply stop seeing any need to keep her interest in you if there is nothing more to be gained. Women need Drama in their lives. And without it, they simply stop to function properly. Hence why women have to monkey branch being the only thing that gives their lives meaning. So what happens when you get as high as you can get? Well, relationships break down.

    As sad as it is, the marriage thing only works out when you have a large family to take care or watch over as you get older Children are a BIG part of this. And as more couples are childless, or end up having their own kids not have families of their own, this is simply the result.

    A women use to be rewarded for her large family she helped make. Well, that kind of went out the window with Feminism. Even more so with the laws being what they are. And since their is no danger not any lack of security for these people, there is simply nothing to give each other motivation to still have any interest in each other.

    And like it or not, since people no longer enjoy things like b~~~~, ballroom dancing, or simply bother to go to events like that anymore or even throw parties? It all comes falling down. And this was the thing that women use to love doing. But for what reason would you do so today?

    At least in war times you had something to be thankful for. LIFE. But this is no longer the case. There was a Twitter post about some old couples having sex in a park a few days ago. I can’t help but smile at that one. GOOD FOR THEM!

    Like it or not, we are all just people. And if you take the joy out of life, this is what comes. I know old age brings some bad things that come with it. But the problem is not growing old together, its this idea that chasing after material wealth is going to get you anywhere. Like it or not, this really is not men’s fault. Women thought that they were happy by getting a divorce and starting all over again. Problem is? This destroys almost all of the connections with people a women or a man has in life with others. And lets not get into the fact that since women have zero upfront consequences for their actions, there is nothing of value but to pilfer wealth from men. Men see this. It’s no longer about company or sex. Its about wealth transfer. Not fun. Not joy. But simply using each other. And not in the way that makes you sticky and sweaty.

    I talk about this often as one of the casualties of women being in control of a mans en devours, and the taming of his masculinity is simply a recipe for ruin. Men share their wealth and success. Women on the other hand just build fences around it and simply don’t care to pay for parties or events. Men have previously done this just for the hell of it. Why? It’s fun to share your wealth and throw parties, b~~~~, events, what have you. Women use to be the one’s in charge of this sort of thing, but instead of having fun with it, they started to see it as a burden. Even roosting about the money that was being spent. Or even angry that the party was not all about her.

    This joy in life has been declining for years. And as it has become more of a danger to have these sorts of parties, and other people being jelly they don’t get invited, its just more of a down hill stroll from there.

    I hate to break it to many people out there, but it seems that MGTOW men are the only ones that are going to be having any fun in their old age. And really, with women being ever more demanding and cunning in trying to do the only thing they have been taught to do, they simply are not going to be invited to these gatherings

    Like it not folks, when women no longer see value in long term commitments or even see the value of true friendships that last over time with both men and women, you can see where this is all going. I think swimcat posted about this that he was constantly being lured in by other women not for the joy of a good time. But to simply secure another paycheck.

    Well, it might have never dawned on these women that the reason why men loved women was simply due to their nature of being people who simply did not have an ulterior motive. They let the cat out of the bag. And kept using sex as a way to get things. Like it or not, women brought this to themselves. You and I both know that if it was no so dangerous to interact with women; and the fact they now openly project their hypergamy, is it any wonder why our civilization and relationships with each other is dying?

    That old couple in the car is simply a by-product of this. When you forget that MEN matter and their feelings also are important, this is the end result. No one ever thought it would get to the point where men simply have had enough of women walking all over men. They stayed quiet when they took their children away. Their wealth, their reputations. All of it. What did they expect? That is was going to last forever? The idea that men would say NO to women never occurred to them. They think a sucker is born every day. Sure. But you are no longer have anything anyone want’s to buy. And like it or not, there is a better deal around the corner. If all women are all doing the same thing, then what is the point? They made it impossible to see women having anything of value over the other. And the thing that was their one trump card, they tossed in the fire. Never to be seen again.

    When women openly started treating men as nothing but objects, using their desire for love and companionship against them. And then using that to clean them out with help from the state? Did it ever occur to them that this was going to happen?

    Nope. They simply thought that the MAGIC of Daddy Government would keep providing new recruits every year for their conquests. And MEN are not innocent in this either as they rigged the game to be able to make money of a mans misery. So what else is left? Everyone is miserable. Women are left on the wayside, and in the end, men are simply going to choose to be single. Alone? Maybe. But what other option do men have?

    You can either pretend, or simply accept that women are just no longer worth the risks. Let them be. They chose what they wanted and they have it in full force. Like it or not, the great trick that has been played is that men that do have money and security simply go about their lives as normal men. They have no problem with company, and with the women they choose to interact with, that Breakfast at Denny’s is just as good as the one that sits on the lake.

    You still go on trips. Travel. Etc. It’s not like their is any shortage of older single women out there. And like it or not, the one that makes her living on Social Security sure seems to be a lot more pleasant to be around then the one that just got done divorcing her husband of 20 years living in some nice home.

    The thing is, as far as she knows? You are simply just another blue collar lonely man. She has nothing to gain from you but some company and some good times. There really are no expectations. Nor are there any real pressure to move in, or change her own secure lifestyle.

    The more that you SHOW YOU have, the less happy you tend being when dealing with others that simply see you as battery to drain.

    To bring this point home, I spoke about this ex navy seal. He looked NO WHERE like he was 90. Spitting image of the bald version of Walter White. He was slumming it up at the trailer park with a 25 year old. So why was he always smiling? Being 89 years old, he figured out the game. Act poor, don’t be poor. And the rest just falls into place. Once you get that women are happy just having a guy around? you will be amazed at how happy your life gets when you are banging a 22 year old at almost 90. Renting a room at a trailer park you happen to own, while having women pay their rent in ass and house cleaning when they “Always are short on rent money to pay the landlord”.. MY SIDES!!!

    You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

    #908192
    SweetDaddyDom420
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    She doodles on paper…. writing our names together like a smitten school girl. Guys…. love exists. You just have to have realistic expectations, a means to support a woman, and good common sense. Protect yourself financially, and stop putting up with s~~~ty behavior from women. Its that simple.

    #908194
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    IMickey503
    iMickey503
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    Decent women exist.

    Sort of. We would not have got with them if they were not at first. But just like how hot women marry these fat guys that live in small towns, they really don’t have any better options. And the poor aspect does help. But its not simply that, the environment plays a big part.

    Wishing you well! And glad to hear things are working out. It’s about time we have some good news for a change.

    Just don’t let your guard down. Just like with anything, you have to protect what you other people value or envy for. And be aware, that you come first. You do that, and you should be able to enjoy some fine years.

    Really is nice to hear from people who have a firm grasp that in order to get what you want, you must have control over the variables. Chris rock I think mentioned this once in his comedy skit about African women going to the USA and then being soured by other women. And it holds true with women from other countries. Poor women don’t really see anyway to monkey branch or have the notion of it that works in their head. I would however be very weary of her friends and people she comes in contact with. Like it or not, it has always been the state of the surrounding community and family that enforced long term and stable relationships. Sadly, that just not a possibility for the rest of us.

    Can you, yes. But like it or not, its a war. Nothing is more of a threat to people then a happy working family. It takes power away from the state. Its self sustaining. And other women can’t WAIT to destroy what they can’t have of their own. Hell, even other men here would like to see nothing better then to see it all fall apart.

    YOU protect your family at all costs. Its not a easy gig. But damn man, I’m really happy things are going well. I don’t know if you plan on having kids, but if you do, enjoy every second you can with them. Christmas, the holidays. All of it. And get them power wheels! Man those things are fun to mess around with!

    Enjoy brother. Be happy!

    You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

    #908195
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    CPT Obvious
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    2729

    Summarized: Unicorns exist!

    Don’t expect a warm welcome here with your blue-pilled nirvana fairy tales.

    So….

    Your “fifth” marriage and you haven’t learned? Your profile says you have been used and cast aside by women. You are either one of this member’s exes who got ahold of his old laptop with this sites’s password saved and are now trolling this site…

    …or you are so desperate to have a woman in your life you are viewing your relationship with such heavily tinted rose-colored glasses you are legally blind.

    We are supposed to believe that the unicorn farm is poor country girls? What is this an advertisement for farmersonly.com ??

    She doodles on paper…. writing our names together like a smitten school girl.

    Jeeezus, high school BS. Guess what? My little unicorn did the same. She even made matching T-Shirts with our names combined into one. Chicks like that turn into possessive, endlessly needy emotional parasites.

    You just have to have realistic expectations, a means to support a woman, and good common sense.

    After my unicorn finally revealed herself as an ordinary crazy-ass nagging mare, I kicked her to the curb. Now I have realistic expectations.

    As for “means to support” and your other comments about being a provider, I can only assume you are tossing wads of money at her. So of course you are getting lots of “poon”.

    Keep on feeding that $5 slot machine and pulling the handle — the casino boss will be happy to let you keep playing.

    As for “common sense”, there are tens of thousands of posts here from intelligent men who make more sense than your recommendation which amounts to this:

    Here is a box of 100 hand grenades and they all look about the same. The first four I pulled the pin from all blew up in my face, but the fifth appears to be a dud. So guys give it a try!

    No thanks.

    "You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."
    #908196
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    Anonymous
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    You just have to have realistic expectations, a means to support a woman, and good common sense. Protect yourself financially, and stop putting up with s~~~ty behavior from women. Its that simple.

    Let me see – no expectations? Check.
    – High means of support? Check.
    – Common sense? Check.
    – Financially protected? Dont care!
    – putting up with s~~~ty behaviour? Nope.

    It simply doesnt work. At least for me and EVERYBODY I KNOW!

    Unicorns DO NOT EXIST!

    #908199
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    SpiderHerder
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    It’s a horse with a funnel on her face ! lol

    #908213
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    Awakened
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    Your “fifth” marriage and you haven’t learned?

    MOST NEVER WILL….The OP comes on here every few months to tell how wonderful his 5th marriage is, and how this is the one blah, blah, blah.

    I truly wish him and his 22 year old newlywed the best. SEE YA !!

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #908214
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    Branched off
    Branched off
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    She doodles on paper…. writing our names together like a smitten school girl. Guys…. love exists. You just have to have realistic expectations, a means to support a woman, and good common sense. Protect yourself financially, and stop putting up with s~~~ty behavior from women. Its that simple.

    Try to stay lucky mate.

    The challenge comes (as I expect you know having been married 5 times) when your interests and hers diverge. Here I do not mean that you like fishing but she begins to prefer knitting, I mean when what you want in life begins to diverge. Right now you want a home with her and she wants one with you, maybe you will have some children and that will keep her focused on family and you on providing for them. While she needs you to get what she wants, why would she not be good? Its when she has secured what she wants from you a little while ago and you are a just useless dull old man to whose wealth she is already entitled, who has no deep background connection to her and who thinks of her as a domestic appliance, then things get more interesting…

    I am glad you are happy now and I hope you continue to be happy. It is possible to have as successful marriage these days but it is unlikely and a marriage is a very high risk strategy in this day and age. You bought when you could have rented. You are no stranger to break ups and you will be Ok mentally I am sure if unhappy circumstance should arrive. However, my advice is keep looking over your shoulder. There may be no present danger but you will never be safe while a marriage certificate binds you. Section off your wealth from her, act poorer than you are (I know it lowers you in her eyes but it may save you one day) and get your wealth as far from her reach as possible. Never disclose assets. Purchase some small movable and easy to cash in assets. Move money out of your country and so on, You can’t be too young if she is number 5. You need to be thinking about how to protect your wealth and have a hot girlfriend in your retirement not pay for her lifestyle if it all goes t~~~ up. I am happy to hear of your success but you would be wise to take my advice too and keep looking over your shoulder. You have nothing to lose from it and much to gain.

    A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

    #908215
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    CPT Obvious
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    The OP comes on here every few months to tell how wonderful his 5th marriage is, and how this is the one blah, blah, blah.

    Well that is obviously retarded — kinda like a drunk dropping by an AA meeting periodically to brag about a new moonshine brew, claiming no hangovers or addiction with this recipe!

    "You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."
    #908220
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    Twist
    Twist
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    Guys…. love exists.

    Anyone know how to rig a ballyhoo? Hands down the best trolling bait in the world.

    Tuna love ballyhoo.

    Try one way way way back.

    #908236
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    Awakened
    Awakened
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    35201

    The OP comes on here every few months to tell how wonderful his 5th marriage is, and how this is the one blah, blah, blah.

    Well that is obviously retarded — kinda like a drunk dropping by an AA meeting periodically to brag about a new moonshine brew, claiming no hangovers or addiction with this recipe!

    Yeah, now that you mention it.

    It’s kinda like an active addict telling sober addicts that NOW he has it all figured out as how he can still ENJOY HIS DRUG(S) and/or ALCOHOL, but NOT be an addict.

    MAYBE, the OP has it all figured out.???????

    TIME will tell, as it ALWAYS DOES…..One year in with a 22 year old is probably a long time for HER, and considering that the OP is on #5 maybe it’s a long time for him too.

    Unfortunately, in the “real world” a year into a marriage really should still be the “Honeymoon Period”, but you still have many more years to get through “together”.

    As WE ALL KNOW, considering it’s his 5th marriage and she’s only 22 the odds are about 99% against them, but hey I hope he enjoys his fantasy for however long it lasts as there is always #6 to try if this one falls through.

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #908237
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    Awakened
    Awakened
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    35201

    The OP comes on here every few months to tell how wonderful his 5th marriage is, and how this is the one blah, blah, blah.

    Well that is obviously retarded — kinda like a drunk dropping by an AA meeting periodically to brag about a new moonshine brew, claiming no hangovers or addiction with this recipe!

    Yeah, now that you mention it.
    It’s kinda like an active addict telling sober addicts that NOW he has it all figured out as how he can still ENJOY HIS DRUG(S) and/or ALCOHOL, but NOT be an addict.
    MAYBE, the OP has it all figured out.???????
    TIME will tell, as it ALWAYS DOES…..One year in with a 22 year old is probably a long time for HER, and considering that the OP is on #5 maybe it’s a long time for him too.
    Unfortunately, in the “real world” a year into a marriage really should still be the “Honeymoon Period”, but you still have many more years to get through “together”.
    As WE ALL KNOW, considering it’s his 5th marriage and she’s only 22 the odds are about 99% against them, but hey I hope he enjoys his fantasy for however long it lasts as there is always #6 to try if this one falls through.

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #908244
    +6
    Monk
    Monk
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    16988

    This girl actually realizes how great her life is with me, and how s~~~ty it was before me.

    You think that she is a country bumpkin, but it isn’t her who is naive – it’s you. Your ego and sex desire blinds you to the truth.

    You just need to raise your standards and stop pandering to s~~~ty women just to get laid.

    You have completely missed the point – we are MGTOW, not incel.

    Unlike you, we don’t want or need them.

    #908260
    +3
    Stealth
    Stealth
    Participant
    5335

    I’m going to “raise my standards” and shack up with a toothless Appalachian country girl!
    I do get the point that truly impoverished people get entitlement beaten out of them by poverty…
    While women practice “hypergamy,” I’ve heard that a crafty pussy-chaser will practice “hypogamy”—going for the bottom of the barrel so that everything for them is up!

    "Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

    #908267
    +5
    Wally
    Wally
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    Best of luck Dom, I really hope it goes well, but not taking advice on marriage from someone married 5 times unless the advice is “don’t.”

    "what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

    #908270
    +1
    IMickey503
    iMickey503
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    12465

    She doodles on paper…. writing our names together like a smitten school girl. Guys…. love exists. You just have to have realistic expectations, a means to support a woman, and good common sense. Protect yourself financially, and stop putting up with s~~~ty behavior from women. Its that simple.

    Try to stay lucky mate.
    The challenge comes (as I expect you know having been married 5 times) when your interests and hers diverge. Here I do not mean that you like fishing but she begins to prefer knitting, I mean when what you want in life begins to diverge. Right now you want a home with her and she wants one with you, maybe you will have some children and that will keep her focused on family and you on providing for them. While she needs you to get what she wants, why would she not be good? Its when she has secured what she wants from you a little while ago and you are a just useless dull old man to whose wealth she is already entitled, who has no deep background connection to her and who thinks of her as a domestic appliance, then things get more interesting…
    I am glad you are happy now and I hope you continue to be happy. It is possible to have as successful marriage these days but it is unlikely and a marriage is a very high risk strategy in this day and age. You bought when you could have rented. You are no stranger to break ups and you will be Ok mentally I am sure if unhappy circumstance should arrive. However, my advice is keep looking over your shoulder. There may be no present danger but you will never be safe while a marriage certificate binds you. Section off your wealth from her, act poorer than you are (I know it lowers you in her eyes but it may save you one day) and get your wealth as far from her reach as possible. Never disclose assets. Purchase some small movable and easy to cash in assets. Move money out of your country and so on, You can’t be too young if she is number 5. You need to be thinking about how to protect your wealth and have a hot girlfriend in your retirement not pay for her lifestyle if it all goes t~~~ up. I am happy to hear of your success but you would be wise to take my advice too and keep looking over your shoulder. You have nothing to lose from it and much to gain.

    She doodles on paper…. writing our names together like a smitten school girl. Guys…. love exists. You just have to have realistic expectations, a means to support a woman, and good common sense. Protect yourself financially, and stop putting up with s~~~ty behavior from women. Its that simple.

    Try to stay lucky mate.
    The challenge comes (as I expect you know having been married 5 times) when your interests and hers diverge. Here I do not mean that you like fishing but she begins to prefer knitting, I mean when what you want in life begins to diverge. Right now you want a home with her and she wants one with you, maybe you will have some children and that will keep her focused on family and you on providing for them. While she needs you to get what she wants, why would she not be good? Its when she has secured what she wants from you a little while ago and you are a just useless dull old man to whose wealth she is already entitled, who has no deep background connection to her and who thinks of her as a domestic appliance, then things get more interesting…
    I am glad you are happy now and I hope you continue to be happy. It is possible to have as successful marriage these days but it is unlikely and a marriage is a very high risk strategy in this day and age. You bought when you could have rented. You are no stranger to break ups and you will be Ok mentally I am sure if unhappy circumstance should arrive. However, my advice is keep looking over your shoulder. There may be no present danger but you will never be safe while a marriage certificate binds you. Section off your wealth from her, act poorer than you are (I know it lowers you in her eyes but it may save you one day) and get your wealth as far from her reach as possible. Never disclose assets. Purchase some small movable and easy to cash in assets. Move money out of your country and so on, You can’t be too young if she is number 5. You need to be thinking about how to protect your wealth and have a hot girlfriend in your retirement not pay for her lifestyle if it all goes t~~~ up. I am happy to hear of your success but you would be wise to take my advice too and keep looking over your shoulder. You have nothing to lose from it and much to gain.

    This post right here is the reason why you see other men attack MGTOW or other men. While the other side of the coin tries to blame and point the finger to everybody else, tries to shovel the lion’s share of pushing the mystery of relationships with women to be some kind of conspiracy ; The follow through action is to take these broken people and shove them to one “-ISM” , ideal or another get dicked quick skeem.

    Men that have a rational and logical approach to the very real problems that face men, women , and children, from of all walks of life that finally get sane and practical real world advice that simply defies all other Bulls~~~ excuses simply don’t take it. It;s human nature.

    The advice given above by “Mr. Branch” solves no puzzles, but gives solid & practical countermeasures to avoid catastrophic events in your life that you as a husband will inevitably face.

    This applies to men of all walks of life. Wu-Hite, brack, joo, gentile, even if you happen to be an Alien from Spain. WE as a civilization are facing the breakdown of the family, our culture, even the very way of life and genetic and cultural diversity that in past decades & centuries has shown evidence of entire sects of people being erased from this very earth; explained in a way that simply puts the subject (you-B.T.W.) in Black and White for anyone to see clearly.

    BUT WHAT IS THE RESULT? What ends up being what most people walk away with?

    I sure wish those sects of people with all their own prejudices that can’t help but to keep pushing their own version of cookie cutter solutions & the BS their own personal brand of Bull Sh-it about everything else they THINK THEY KNOW; could grasp the infallible truth Branched off states above.

    You are as a man the sole person responsible for whatever you choose to invest in. No one is going to hold our hand in this affair.
    Just like with any other thing in life, a Marriage or a relationship that YOU choose to partake in, as a man, YOU better know what you are getting yourself into!
    Prepare for the hazards that come along, and never lose sight that whatever you value, can be stolen, or taken. Even killed or destroyed.

    It’s not about Unicorns.
    – It’s not about how much money you make,
    – Its not if or what you can provide.
    – There is no SIMPLE about it.

    THERE IS NO SIMPLE BEHIND IT. PERIOD!
    -There is no plan to follow.
    -No protections
    -No laundry list that is going to secure success.

    THERE IS NO SIMPLE ABOUT IT. PERIOD.

    Anyone Brash enough to even concoct such a stupid notion of simplicity with human affairs between a man and a woman in union is obviously oblivious to the true nature of marriage or relationships. A fool in love perhaps, but a fool none the less.

    Maybe I’m not making myself clear enough or Branched off. Success in life, just like in any endeavor is riddled with landmines.

    Like it or not, you have something you are creating that is of value to others. It will be taken if the chance arrives. And sad as it is, people relish in your misery upon failure and do PROFIT from your FAILURE.

    Just like a bank giving out a risky loan to people who could not possibly pay it back, you are taking a risk in life that has no bankruptcy law to protect you.

    A man’s family, his values, and yes, even your progeny are all up for grabs by others. Like it or not, they are goods to be taken or stolen if you do not guard against them. The very minds of your children and wife are up for grabs each day. You already see this everywhere, but often dismiss them as they are so prevalent in our way of life in the west and elsewhere.

    -There is no magic formula to follow.
    -There is not a place where you can move too that will secure it.
    -You are simply on your own to protect, and watch over this group investment in life.
    -There is risk in all that you choose to partake in.
    -And all you can do is plan for those pitfalls the best you can.

    The idea that one size fits all? This notion is never going to work when you apply it to life. Men that choose to protect themselves and their investments get bashed on the daily that care to protect what they have. Even voicing opinions that seem to be common sense comes under attack. While the other side simply tells you to keep going on with GLEE and abandon.

    Their idea is to simply put FAITH and TRUST in a good outcome. THIS is the single biggest BULLS~~~ LIE they feed you to keep thinking that you don’t need to have an insurance plan if things go wrong. It’s like not driving without insurance, and hoping that the odds are good that you won’t need to use it, and just put faith in your driving skills. If your own bank uses armed guards to transfer money, why would they do that? There are police after all right? It’s simply a contingency plan. A show of force. A simple deterrent to avoid peril.

    MGTOW and the men that have taken the Red Pill are not running away from something. They are and have been evaluating the risks vs the rewards to them and only them. Not what anyone else wants, but what HE wants to be his outcome of his life.

    And let me tell ya, Maybe I want what I want for once? Maybe I don’t want to work for someone else for once. Maybe a MAN wants what he is striving to accomplish that sits outside of getting hitched.

    All the goodwill in the world is not going to change the fact that we are still human. Things are going to happen. Mistakes will be made. Casualty & consequence will result. Its inevitable. Just like DEATH and Taxes.

    If your car has a spare tire, it does not mean that you have to use it. But the peace of mind you get from being prepared for this contingency far outweighs not having one. The cost of not having one can lead to disastrous consequences. Even death in some cases as it is quite well documented. Even simply changing the tire can lead to disastrous consequences. Risk is always there. To say you have a “Simple” plan is beyond DERPINA. FULL RETARD MODE ENGAGED!

    PLAN AHEAD. Use your head.

    This idea that men don’t want other men to enjoy and live happy lives, and that includes families… is the biggest pile of horse manure that ever got the ticket to launch that somehow seems to be associated with MGTOW and the Manosphere.

    Almost every sack of eyes that hears any news of men conversing as they do about their own observations of women being witnessed in the negative light, simply jumps on the bandwagon of associating those observations of one’s own life with the tenants of misogyny.
    It’s like going to a buffet. Getting food poisoning. Then swearing off eating food anymore in favor of intervenes nutrition.

    It never seems to dawn on these men (and some women) that our views and observations are always going to be misconstrued solely to the outside persons with bias that is built in to humans not only on:
    1. Social
    2. Biological
    3. Emotional
    4. parental
    5. Cultural
    6. Religious grounds
    7. Social and economic expectations.

    Furthermore this bias is inherent to greater than 95% of the “general” population.
    E.G. , you got your rose colored glasses on.
    i.e. , A blind man in an entire world that has never been exposed to light.

    Bystanders and even the very same men inside the philosophy of the Manosphere are not spared by the biases. All of us are susceptible. And we all too often attribute all of male observations and negative feedback to certainly a few examples that I can think of being unsuccessful access to women of certain males.

    This results in many people just passing our banter off as misogyny. Being a poor sport. Or a Beta male. Take your pick. This ain’t the Draft for Kickball. It’s your life we are talking about here folks. And the life of others. Not something you want to haze a person for not playing the game. And a competitive but cooperative game at that.

    Others see it as a point of attack, and go in to push their brand of MGTOW that usually is just their old habits warped in a thin veil or disguise. Those preaching the sermon of common sense get called cucks. Worse still, those that conduct themselves in a militant fashion get the bulk of the approval as this is the natural response to to protect your own ego.

    Emotional manipulation often follows to men and women in most cases. The very occurrence gives rise to others for the opportunity to gain and profit from their emotional turmoil.

    —–Often there is a 3rd or other suitors or parties that see an opportunity for something to gain from the destruction of a relationship.
    This goes without saying as we all have heard the Chad Tyrone, her boss, her slut coworker, etc etc. being a person who simply wants company for their misery. Let alone drug/ alcohol/ addiction, bad habits etc.
    Even if the gain is simply a following of people that agree with each other. Even with no financial incentive, these people feel social superiority to their peers.
    These outside sources relish this destruction as it helps them cope with their fragile states and broken lives that have come as a result to people who wish nothing more than to see what you have built come crashing to the ground.
    I.E. , we still laugh when men get kicked in the b~~~~.

    As a man, you have to step out of the box, and get a real world no bias source. And that is in fact almost impossible to do. We have the male dominance instinct, economic factors, and a plethora of things that simply are too numerous to list here.

    My summary is, be cautious of people who dispense advice, and be grateful for those that give it.

    There is no simple formula for success. Just as there is no assurance that a country or nation has built up enough weapons for defense. A war can be won without a single weapon being fired.

    But what does our advice and insight usually get hashed into? Ism’s, ideology, and whatever serves another entity’s needs.

    So you either get people on one side that are thinking that it’s a conspiracy of some kind, or people on the other side that thinking that it’s a trap.

    Sometimes, if walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, IT’S A DUCK.. A spade a spade. Or in this instance, a person that wishes to either share his good times, or could be a Trojan horse.

    In summary, if it sounds too good to be true, it might be.
    But when it comes to women, family and love? Like it or not, we are all going to be suspect. Just like in Advertising, it’s not what you pay upfront. Its the long term costs that your investment or purchase needs to be accounted for BEFORE throwing down your cash. In this case, its your entire life that is at stake.

    I.E., you can buy a Corvette, but can you afford the insurance? No one ever seems to get this old sayings anymore.

    An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. Etc. etc.

    Take the good advice. Like it or not, it may feel like an attack, and it very well may be by some. You have to account for that. But to be so confident in offering a solution that is a one size fits all is simply a marketing tactic. And serves no real data point in another mans. life. E.G., it works for him, it may be disastrous for you.

    Like it or not, very few men are going to admit that they did things wrong. And when they do, they ALSO get attacked for it. Well, the more I live, the more I see my mistakes.

    Take that for what you will. But sometimes, it’s better to simply keep it to yourself.

    And with that, I bid you Adieu’ my brothers. Happy trails as always.

    You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

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