A proper introduction…

[ToadParticipant 271]

So i finally found the proper place to make my introduction

I am a man from Spain so please forgive me for my poor english i will try to do the best that i can

I have 38 years old and i was raised by a single mother and an older sister. Because of that , i suppose, i believed all the lies about her beautiful personalities and how i must respect them in order to make a proper couple for my own good future.

I never had a girlfriend , I never got a kiss and, of course, i never did sex with anyone. So i must to made it first with a whore in order to make the things well with “real girls”…

And that experience was awful: problems with the erection, nervous all the time, and the though that this was a bad idea because: if i was good guy, the perfect lady will be waiting for me in some place, right?

Nah… i know the truth now… but too late, i guess…

Now that i have my own house, my job, my money, my travels and my body trained and fit, now i got chances with women from my age, and even less, but i’m not interested anymore, even in terms of just casual sex… I just can’t do it: maybe for frustration , anger, or fear of make the things wrong and get laughs or something due my inexperience … My actual pride of myself will no tolerate it…

So, this is my history: when i wanted, i never got it, and now that i can…i don’t want it…

Only say hi to everyone and thanks for all your work, at least i have the truth in front of me, and the suffering is gone forever due to the media lies about family and relationships…

Keep the work for the future… it will be necesary to save many lives…literaly… and spread the word to make impact in countries like mine where still don’t know how is MGTOW and how it can make life a better place to stay…

Greetings

Toad

[FreeGhostSpectator 318]

You missed the suffering I endured, consider yourself lucky. You are smart enough to see through female lies, good for you. Be proud of yourself, you achieved financial nirvana. Well done sir and welcome.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Greetings, Toad, what part of Spain are you from? I’ve been to Spain twice and it’s an awesome country with a lot of culture, identity and beautiful nature. It’s too bad that now it got ran over by EU globalists
I’ve always empathised with Spanish people for their siesta and laid-back outlook on life and work. It’s nearly the only nation that culturally celebrates procrastination.

for those who don’t know: they sell beer at McDonald’s in Spain. How cool is that?

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[ToadParticipant 271]

Thanks , bro, it means a lot for me, for real..

I was lucky just because the last one that hurts me , wasn’t enough smart to keep with the lies and get from me “my things” and not only my remaining innocence…maybe because she was too young to realize that the play will get more benefits to her than a simple ego boost…

That was my trigger for MGTOW with no turning back… Now i am surrounded by “the normal people” who laughs at me because they think that i am a loser…

Maybe in the future will realize that i was the smart one…

I can’t turn my head back anymore, so… the path is clear..

 

Greetings

 

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[ToadParticipant 271]

RuskyKGB. I’m from the north of Spain: the Basque country… a place where even they do jokes about the difficulty of get laid… it is famous around the country that the girls here are rude and brutally spoiled… in the Canarias Islands (they said) the proportion is reverse…

 

i just had bad luck, i guess…

 

If a MGTOW, one day, finally emerges in my country, the majority of guys will be from this place…but i don’t know…too many white knights and manginas united nowadays…

[FreeGhostSpectator 318]

trust me, you are the smart one. I want the dress and jewelry fund back in my hands. Nope, forever into the money pit.

[ToadParticipant 271]

I lost a lot on money being a “Gentleman” too and every time, when i think about it, my chest hurts and for a moment i can’t breath… literally…

The anger is real, i’m broken forever…now i have a young girl who claim that she want to know me better and i just can’t even talk with her for whatsapp when in the past i would be the luckiest man in the world for think that i found a NAWALT…

How naive…

[QcummerParticipant 652]

yes, like @freeghost mentioned…you could have been in a much worse situation if you were to have had ‘normal’ sex and got wrapped up in a contract for life with kids taken from you and paying for it all.

If you are not into the sex, then it’s not a bad thing at all. You get to use your brain for other things.

If you are frustrated with not having any satisfying sex..just don’t give up and find a good hooker. There are all types of hookers, and once you pay them, they can be more nurturing than your own mother.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Society is usually wrong. You do not need a family to be happy, it can be a stressful. Listen to Tom Leykis on blowmeuptom.com and you will see what I mean.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[ToadParticipant 271]

Yes, that’s precisely my relief when i get a low phase and need to get over it…

i think about how bad will be if that girl would tell me that she wants have kids with me… i would accept with hesitation, even when i don’t like kids…

i dodge the bullet and ,the only time when i feel bad is when, sometimes, i go to a party with people that i don’t know and they try to bother telling me that some girl (usually the fat ones) want to meet me, but that i have to work on it because they are shy…

They just can’t understand that due to my age i don’t have much times when i found friends to enjoy my free time with them and i don’t want change this feeling for an average woman who wants to met me, and  still i have to do all the work… not thanks… they look at me like if i would be a monster or something and i feel unconfortable for the situation…

 

And sometimes, when a friend gets laid, even with a girls that i don’t like it, i feel a little envy because i still think that i’m the weirdest one, and the other people lives without suffering getting laid without worries and i ‘m damaged, or sick, or something…

 

I just don’t know… i think that the time will transform me much more and finally i will get full peace…

 

And yes… i will go to hookers eventually, only now i don’t have friends to go with and going alone scares me a little… But i have in mind very clear that this is my only choice in order to get laid so…i will do it for sure even with my bad remember about it from the past…

 

[leobez84Participant 124]

Thank you for sharing your story Toad. You sir were a smart one to go that long without dealing with the bulls~~~. Heck unlike many in the community, you’ve achieved red pill status without ending up in as Terrence Popp would say “Baby jail”. Welcome to the MGTOW community.

[Anonymous 18]

I was in NYC last year for school, and went there again for convocation few days back. Driving through Manhattan, you see these pretty, fit, fashionable girls that I felt somewhat intimidated by last year. Perhaps there is still some hesitation if I were to be dared to ask one of these high maintenance chicks out.

But trotting through the city I saw the young ones followed by the ones post-wall years. And somewhere I felt the intimidated me receding without much conscious effort on my part and the carefree guy who is slowly learning he’s not missing much not having a pretty girl in life for sex or arm candy.

It just feels like a relief. The attention I can now pay to so many other things in life. My rule of life: by the time you can afford that thing, it ain’t worth it.

Keep doing what you are doing brother. You amongst many here could one day be the pioneers of salvation for the mankind.

[ToadParticipant 271]

 

Thanks leobez84 and ilearn too for your support …the last time that i tried to find answers in a forum i was humiliated by people who call me a fool for not see the reality of women’s behavior before… it was hurtful…

 

Your words, by the contrary, are a relief for me

 

I really appreciate that

And, by the way…i was in NY once, and the girls there are in my  personal top 5 of places with the very best in the world… until now… so i understand well your words… i’m glad the things will change little by little…

 

A pleasure to stay here

 

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I was on a trip in northern Spain where we visited tho monasteries on the same mountain top. one mountain was male monastery and another was female monastery. They told us the only time male monastery meets female monastery – is during a yearly friendly soccer match  I don’t know why, but this experience left me with a weird feeling in my mouth

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[avillaxParticipant 280]

I feel you, the thing that has hurt me the most when dealing with these animals is that I’ve always considered myself to be a good person: handsome, good-hearted,  from a good wealthy family, educated, spiritual. But I’ve always been last for being a good guy and see women always digging jerks, putting me on waiting lists, etc.

Just one example out of hundreds: a girl I liked in high school and whom I would chat often, started dating a super bully who was also my bully, and this one was an evil sunavabitch in any way. I remember one day, he beat up a 5 year younger kid in the cafeteria to take his place and said “this is the jungle law”.

The fact that they dig this lack of respect, lack of values is just humiliating. I feel I’m such a good guy that I can’t cope with being put on a secondary place while they give themselves to garbage people, that’s just not right. Never trust them!

[experiencedParticipant]

Hi Toad. Hang in and read all you can here. Also, please keep contributing as even this, your first “topic” has been enlightening.

@RuskyKGB,” yearly friendly soccer match ”  so this is held at a severely unlit field from 8pm til 8am and the confessional lines become quite long? Who gets to assigned designated soccer sounds source?   Also beer at mcdonalds – –  is that at the drive through as well?  good stuff!

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome Toad! I’m glad you made it without any worse damage.

Toad wrote:

ow i am surrounded by “the normal people” who laughs at me because they think that i am a loser…

If they want to stay on the sinking ship, that’s their choice, their problem. Stay on your own course.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[ToadParticipant 271]

“RusskyKGB” i’m from the north but i didn’t know anything about that soccer match in particular. In fact, i didn’t know much about  anything around here because i don’t like living here.  Every time i have holidays i take my baggage and travel around the world. Maybe i just have the illusion that the things would be different in others countries and i enjoy much more with this fantasy in my head. Thanks to this i already know a huge amount of countries and cities around the globe and i pretend to keep in that way as long as i can.

And “the road warrior” i know exactly that feeling, in fact, the last time, when i stop fooling myself were when the girl tell me the horrible things that her boyfriend make to her and i thought “if i make things different than her boyfriend she will appreciate me, right?

And the truth was clear but i can’t saw until this moment: If he “were” her boyfriend is because she like it in that way… period.

I was shocked when finally get that conclusion and understand everything in one shot… Unfortunately, my way of thinking don’t allow me to switch off and on everytime i want and use this information to manipulate them in order to get sex easily, and i chose instead, the way of retire myself from the game and “competition” gaining nothing but losing anything aswell…

Experience D: i will keep contributing, but as you can understand, i make a huge effort writing in english because i’m not very good at it, but if you can forgive me my mistakes it would be a pleasure keep doing it… And don’t worry i have been almost 5 years reading and watching videos and understanding all this situation…i almost become an addict of MGTOW filosofy and i will keep it in that way… it helps me a lot with my emotional stability vs the “real facebook life” of happy couples everywhere but myself

Thanks to you roydal aswell for you support

Unexpected kind welcome

You can count on me in your “army”

thanks!

[Anonymous 42]

Toad wrote:

So, this is my history: when i wanted, i never got it, and now that i can…i don’t want it…

My life’s dilemma, but that’s a good thing; like the time I wanted to get married, and now I don’t, I don’t waste a breath on women, it could lead to your last breath….

Welcome to MGTOW Toad, there’s nothing wrong with you, you’re more normal than all the people you mentioned. Stck to your guns! Keep your personality intact, make no concessions whatsoever for any female EVER! You will only loose pieces of your spirit as each one of them will tear your heart to shreds!

I think you’re pretty cool and intelligent to have things sorted out the way you do. Your attitude is definitely MGHOW, no doubt about it, so start feeling normal and realize it’s the others that are abnormal!

[ToadParticipant 271]

i appreciate your words and maybe i’m the smart one choosing the MGTOW but i’m not normal at all because even in the MGTOW community there is no one that never got laid if he can…

i mean, is not normal that someone with my age only have 2 traumatic experiences in sexual terms in his entire life and all of them paying for it… plus when after all this years of loneliness finally got chances and refuse to accept it because my trauma…

i never read another human being with my situation… i’m sure they are exist but if you see me you’ll never know it because i’m very muscular, fit, and i think that i’m not a Brad pitt type but i’m not ugly at all, so there is no external signals that make you think that i have this problems and a life so much empty of sexual experiences… it’s just amazingly unfair…

but, this it’s me… i can’t change my circumstances …but i can enjoy the advantages: i’m free, i’m alive, i’m independent, i’m healthy, and too rare for the situation of crisis of my country, i have a job with an incredible salary…so i have more things to be grateful than to be a crying baby…

i must “man up” in the good way i think…

thanks again

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