A depressing realization.

[JasonParticipant 282]

@Boxingforlife: I suspect she didn’t lie to seem less slutty to you. From what you describe, I think it more likely that she lied to you so that, should you pass the conversation on, you would give a number to other men (and women, I suppose) that she personally found socially acceptable. In other words, she tried to use you as a tool for her personal PR. Doesn’t have a thing to do with friend zones or her considering you a backup beta provider or any of that crap.

To my eyes, anyway. Your mileage may vary.

There lies serenity in Chaos. Seek ye the eye of the hurricane.

[Wandering MGHOWParticipant 551]

Theronius wrote:

Boxing4life wrote:

It was a case of a grown woman being a typically deceptive and immature liar

Yeah, I don’t get the “friend zone” impression. It is different if you have actually had “relations”, a rare occurrence for the friend zone.
I think it’s more like a reflexive action on her part. They will always consider the possibility of a past flame restarting, and may try to see if they can get you to come across. They do not like thinking that they have lost that “touch”. I don’t think they can help it.
It sounds to me like you are out of her control perimeter.
A woman does not put you in the friend zone. You either go there yourself or you take a hike. That was a hard-earned lesson on my part.

This right here. Especially if you and the girl have previously had relations in the past. She must be really trying hard to lure me back in 7 years later to see if she “still has it”. She wants to know if she still has that magic over me or if her golden vagina still can bait me in. She’s trying every tactic in the book, including the good old “low number” count. I suspect all girls do similar things to every guy and I also expect this behavior from more girls/ghosts of my past to happen in the future. Actually come to think of it, it has already begun. Now that I think about it, a lot of past girls have been trying me ever since going full blown MGTOW to see if they haven’t lost their “touch”. Poor things. IT WILL NEVER WORK.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 25019]

I lived in LA for over 25 years and the women there truly are a cut above. I’m a doc and was around 30 so I got a lot of attention. I dated a lot of 8-10’s.

I asked each one that question.

This is what I learned. Firstly, women who are really interested put out by the third date, rare exceptions.

They date acceptable men every few months and like sex so they are having sex with different men about 6 times per year.

I know this sounds like a made up number but I dated a lot and kept track. It could have also been LA where the women are looser.

So by 30, figuring them getting on the c~~~ carousel by age 20 for making the math easier. That gives 10 years times 6 per year or about 60 by age 30.

That sounds like a likely number based on my research and experience.

But these were hot women trying to find a rich beta in LaLa land.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I’d be willing to suggest that the typical good looking “single” chick has two “boyfriends” a year and gets f~~~ed by players and one night stands four or five times a year so the numbers are probably similar.

I f~~~ed 10 different women this year without really even trying and I’m neither good looking nor a player… so I’m of the opinion that any girl who lives in a major metropolitan area and wants sex, and even most of the ones who don’t, are going to have so many options to get laid that it’s inconceivable they wouldn’t be getting hit by at least six different guys a year.

[Wandering MGHOWParticipant 551]

I suppose in a way this proves what I always suspected from her. I always had a feeling she viewed me as more than a “friend” and had bigger plans for me. The fact that she told me a fake number to make herself seem more “wholesome” is proof that she cared about my perception of her. Men and women cannot be friends. PERIOD.

[AFTParticipant 2726]

Wandering MGHOW wrote:

Men and women cannot be friends. PERIOD.

That’s what I was getting at earlier,

AFT wrote:

I think the problem starts and ends with

Boxing4life wrote:
I have a female “friend”

This girl I had been with for years went to England after we broke up. Going to England to work for a while was common back then. She rang me up one night to tell me what she’s been up to and asked if we could still be “friends”, I said sure, no big deal.

After a month, she rings again, this time questioning why I haven’t rang her? Did I ever really love her?

What the f~~~? You are in England, I’m here in Australia, we are broken up, I don’t think you can handle being just friends, I think it’s better being separate.

My ex-wife used to ring me up a year after the divorce to hang s~~~ and make demands, I love the “block this number” feature on my i-phone 🙂

Women have their uses but “friendship” is not one. F~~~ them all, that’s all they’re good for, I only have male friends, females are incapable of those qualities that make friendship work : truth, honor, reliability and any sense of compassion.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[Anonymous 5]

C~~~s always lie. I just take their number and multiply it by 10 to get the true number.

[cnmcdeeParticipant 125]

Scandinavian wrote:

I recall ONE woman I met who I actually believe was truthful about this topic. She replied “I don’t know, I lost count somewhere between 40 and 50, but I’m pretty sure I’m still in the two-digit area.”

Give her a kudos at least she was vaguely honest..

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Stargazer wrote:

I’d be willing to suggest that the typical good looking “single” chick has two “boyfriends” a year and gets f~~~ed by players and one night stands four or five times a year so the numbers are probably similar.

This was my perception I’ve had over the years as well. Most girls seem to average 6 month “relationships” with a couple flings or pump and dumps in between. Even if they average 3-4 a year from 18-30 when they want to get married, they still end up with a pretty high number.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

The likelihood that you’re going to encounter a physically attractive female who has relatively few sexual hang-ups and is game enough to get with you but who has only had four or five lovers in the past is pretty much zero.

Finding an attractive virgin over the age of 16 in this country is virtually impossible.

Just get used to the idea that any decent looking female you come across is going to have a few hundred dick-miles on the odometer.

[MalfunctionNeedInputParticipant 257]

Guys this is the rationalization hamster doing its thing. It’s nothing to do with maturity, it’s a woman thing. They lie to their own benefit and then change their mind or story as it is there prerogative to do so. Women are solipsistic.

Although yeah it is depressing to know that women will just like with the drop of a hat like that, but that is life.

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity. --Einstein

[DethklokParticipant 153]

Obviously you know that 26 number was also a lie. Sure as good friends, she may have been “more truthful” but no girl ever tells her true number. Even if only 10% are shaved off, it’s never accurate.

I always dread the question. Because you ALWAYS find out they are both liars AND cum dumpsters.

The absolutely WORST part is when you hear the “truth” and they mention that is their past, and that is not them anymore. So not only is she used and abused, she did a ton of s~~~ you will never get to do.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

If a woman is talking to you, she:

A. Wants something

B. Is lying

C. Both A + B

The. End.

Fuck this planet.

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