A delightful meal

[OldBillParticipant]

Hopefully, I managed to nudge a young man towards MGTOW last night.

I like to treat myself every so often and go out for nice meal. There’s great restaurant near me. The owner/chef is from Lombardy so it features real Italian food and not the drowned-in-tomato-sauce or smothered-in-parmesan swill that too many think is Italian cuisine.

The hostess greeted my by name and took me to my table. I ordered a Glenlivet neat, perused the specials, opened my book (Blink by Malcolm Gladwell, check it out), and waited for the waitress to return. It was just about then I realized there might be a problem.

The table next to me held a party of six; three couples. They’d been waiting to be seated about the time I arrived. As I’d chatted with the hostess and owner, I noticed one of the women staring daggers at me. I’d called ahead and made a reservation so I was being seated immediately, while her group had simply walked in thinking they could be seated immediately as if it were a fast food joint. The little girl staring at me apparently thought I’d been seated more quickly than her group because I was a friend of the owner and hostess. The fact that I was a party of one and had made a reservation never crossed her mind.

The party of six initially fussed over their seats, menus, and drink choices but what passed for a conversation soon began. The three women dominated the conversation entirely. The three men tried to join in, only to be shut out. When the men tried to talk among themselves, the women quickly butted in taking over and redirecting the conversation. As the meal wore on, the men fiddled with their silverware and drinks eating more quickly than the women because the women were too busy talking. One of the women even complained that her man “always ate too quickly”.

Treating their men like s~~~ apparently wasn’t enough, so my presence as a solitary diner was added to their “conversation”. Comments were made about how sad it would be to be old and alone with only a book for company, about how lonely some old people must be, and about how they’d never go to a restaurant alone. Their faux sympathy quickly turned to contempt with comments along the lines of about how some people deserve to be alone and about how there is something wrong with someone who can’t get a date on a Saturday night.

It all I could do not to smirk or laugh out loud. Their conversation was so noticeable that my waitress asked me a few times if I were “comfortable”; which is waiter code for “Do you want to move?”

I enjoyed my meal – a duck confit with risotto, brussels sprouts, and a nice pinot grigio – and enjoyed my book but my biggest joy that evening was listening to those women prove every Red Pill precept our brotherhood holds.

After finishing my coffee and Drambuie, I was leaving when the woman who started the shenanigans spoke to me:

“Did you enjoy the book?” she asked with false sympathy.

I didn’t answer her and instead locked eyes with the embarrassed man sitting beside her.

“Did you enjoy your evening?” I asked. He stumbled over his answer, so I cut him off.

“Sometimes no company is better than any company.”, I said looking directly at the woman in question.

I then turned back to him and said, “You can do better than this.”

And with that, I was gone.

I do hope those three young men took their first step towards MGTOW that night. Because every men must walk his own path to MGTOW, we can’t preach, we can’t debate, we can’t stand on soap boxes, and we can’t bang tambourines on street corners. What we can do, however, is live our lives as an example. I hope I was some small example to those three lost men.

Live well, brothers.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[505vikingoParticipant 521]

Eloquently spoken Brother. Possibly, by being docile sheep at the dinner table those manginas were served an order of worn out wizard sleeve by the Mrs. for dessert. Yuck, no thanks, I will pass, and continue on the MGTOW path forever.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Bravo brother, bravo. Well done! Those men will never forget that.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Nice, I often take a book to the bar.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[OldBillParticipant]

Is it wrong of me to now enjoy magina being mangina?

You’re not wrong to enjoy it. In fact, you’re altogether human to enjoy it.

It’s human nature to want to delight in the misfortune of others, but it’s the mark of a man not to revel in it.

505vikingo wrote:

Possibly, by being docile sheep at the dinner table those manginas were served an order of worn out wizard sleeve by the Mrs. for dessert.

Considering the looks on the faces of the three women, I doubt any pussy was on the dessert menu that night. Because none of the men in question jumped to the “defense” of those nattering harpies, they were undoubtedly marked down for punishment.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 7]

Great story

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Amen. Assholes will be assholes, and although it can be tempting to give into an emotional reaction, we can use those opportunities to be a beacon for others. Mgtow are the ones that are criticized as bitter and angry, but as we disprove such assumptions, perhaps the men around us will see the hope and if not go their own way, at least have growing respect for those that do. I am under no misguided assumption that we are going to change the world or anything like that, but if I can help even one man go his own way, that is enough of a reason for me.

[Bestieboy666Participant 2358]

I’m glad you had a good evening.
I find it amazing how women feel insulted by a man quietly minding his own business, enjoying a meal and some book reading, to the point they have to shame a belittle him to make themselves feel better.
I hope those guys truly noticed that your evening alone was a better experience than their dates.
Steve

Women are so bad, if they changed the law so I kept the house, I still wouldn't marry one. I'd rather be homeless.

[experiencedParticipant]

Gosh dang Old Bill,

You dealt that out as a true artist.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10917]

I know you’ve been back awhile but I always look forward to reading your posts and this one was certainly a good one. Great story.
Women seem to forget that we men aren’t like them. We don’t need to be validated by being surrounded by people who will potentially garnish us with attention. A lot of times men like being alone. This aspect baffles women which is why they take to shaming someone who is by themselves. They cannot imagine being by oneself on purpose.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

He shoots, he scores!

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Mr. Spock wrote:

I know you’ve been back awhile but I always look forward to reading your posts and this one was certainly a good one. Great story.
Women seem to forget that we men aren’t like them. We don’t need to be validated by being surrounded by people who will potentially garnish us with attention. A lot of times men like being alone. This aspect baffles women which is why they take to shaming someone who is by themselves. They cannot imagine being by oneself on purpose.

Exactly. When women are alone for any lengthy amount of time, they are miserable. When men are alone, we feel awesome. They can’t stand that fact.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[experiencedParticipant]

A man, without a ring, alone, happy, enjoying himself, is viewed as a threat by laydeez.
It’s not that he’s actively ignoring you, it’s that he doesn’t give a s~~~.
A threat to their fortress built of s~~~.
“All out hatred or contempt” for that solitary man.
He represents their downfall. Their demise. It scares them so much that ….

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[OldBillParticipant]

Bestieboy666 wrote:

I find it amazing how women feel insulted by a man quietly minding his own business, enjoying a meal and some book reading…

It is amazing and, try as I may, I cannot quite grasp the thinking behind it. I do believe that it’s linked somehow to to their all-to-usual meddling in other peoples’ lives.

I’m sure you’ve seen it. Once they’ve a boyfriend, fiance, or husband they simply must make sure everyone else is paired up too because they “just want other people be as happy as they are”. Trouble is, they aren’t happy. They just need everyone else to make the same mistakes they have so they can pretend they’re happy.

It’s both laughable and sickening.

… to the point they have to shame a belittle him to make themselves feel better.

That’s just not a female behavior, it’s a human behavior.

I hope those guys truly noticed that your evening alone was a better experience than their dates.

So do I. I hope my example was enough to start them on their journey.

Mr. Spock wrote:

We don’t need to be validated by being surrounded by people who will potentially garnish us with attention.

Too true. Women, for the most part, need external validation while men, for the most part, validate themselves.

This aspect baffles women which is why they take to shaming someone who is by themselves. They cannot imagine being by oneself on purpose.

Mob mentality I suppose and as good an explanation as I’ve heard.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 11]

I tip my hat to you OldBill.

I often go out to eat alone too though I’ve never gotten that treatment. C~~~s will be c~~~s.

[experiencedParticipant]

Ayn Rand would have strangled those bitches verbally:
“This is pity,” he thought, and then he lifted his head in wonder. He thought that there must be something terribly wrong with a world in which this monstrous feeling is called a virtue.”

Their arrogance to compassion ratio was probably 100 to 0.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[OldBillParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I often go out to eat alone too though I’ve never gotten that treatment.

I travel for a living, not as much as I did in the 90s and 00s, but still at least once a month. I’ve got stories about eating alone that would curl your hair but all of them won’t stop me from dining alone.

C~~~s will be c~~~s.

Too true, sadly.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[RoyDalParticipant]

You did him a big favor, whether he was receptive to it or not. I hope he was receptive and got that sudden crystallization of belief that will turn his life around.

OldBill wrote:

The owner/chef is from Lombardy so it features real Italian food and not the drowned-in-tomato-sauce or smothered-in-parmesan swill that too many think is Italian cuisine.

Slightly off topic, it was once explained to me by a man from Venice. Southern Italy is where the tomato-themed dishes are prevalent. The northerners never adopted it.

He called it a ‘weed’ and claimed the southerners took to it because it is easy to grow and so many of them were forced to grow their own food due to poverty.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[OldBillParticipant]

RoyDal wrote:

He called it a ‘weed’ and claimed the southerners took to it because it is easy to grow and so many of them were forced to grow their own food due to poverty.

Going further off topic, the cultural gulf between northern and southern Italy was and still is huge. Northern Italy with it’s city states sparked the Renaissance and set the foundations for Europe’s centuries of economic dominance while southern Italy was little more than a collection of peons ruled by a succession of foreign autocrats.

After the 1866 reunification, The Kingdom of Piedmont and Sardinia which had led the reunification sent teachers to southern Italy as part of a national education effort. The northern Italians behaved so differently from their southern Italian “brothers” and spoke such a different Italian dialect that the southerners thought they were English.

Even now there’s a strong antipathy between the north and south with the north viewing the south as little more than economic leeches and with good reason. There’s even an autonomous movement in the north called which wants either separation from Italy or a looser federal system.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[GrumpyParticipant]

I used to enjoy going out and treating myself to a nice meal in quiet locales alone.
In recent years, for a variety of reasons, I find I do not enjoy the experience anymore. Sadly I know I am probably missing out on some fabulous dining.
I wish I could lay the blame on my finances or the economy, however it is neither of those reasons.
Episodes like what OldBill described is all too common today.
What should be a perfectly relaxing evening and meal can be ruined by inconsiderate people, noise saturation due to excessively loud and inappropriate “ambient music”. Ignorant and self important people destroying a decent meal and tolerable atmosphere with their insistence of being the loudest conversation in the room, the constant noise of cell phones going off, or the allowing of their asshole offspring running around unsupervised and undisciplined.
Add into that, being judged due to dining alone, or what level of attire I happen to be wearing at the time.
I absolutely love it when some f~~~ing harpy thinks I have been stood up for a “date”, and vocalizes her opinion of my “status” with her company. sometimes it can be rather entertaining.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

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