7 Reasons Why Millennial Men Are Reinventing Masculinity

ghost wrote:

Gargamel wrote:

I am a lot like the men described in the article.

This is why you are doing so much better in life now than a lot of other people. You adapted along the way. You were able to see around the corner instead of looking in the rearview mirror.

I already talk too much about what I do but to copy it takes decades of a learning curve.

Nothing special, just be very good at what you do and then every profession can become a golden goose.

I watched as my mother and grandmother ran the hairdressing salon. As clumsy and inefficient as you can imagine…

We f~~~in’ had nothing to eat. That’s the truth.

In 1980, my mother taught me to color/dye her hair like she always did… And it did not take long for me to do this fast and perfect. She was amazed at my short learning curve, compared to her female apprentices that used to do it.

She says – now 37 years later – that no one can do this like I can.

I never forgot one spot and it never looked crappy.

And I always joke that if you can paint cars and hand wind tiny electrical coils, you can also do hair.

And I also painted my girlfriend’s “claws” like a car paint job without messing up. They were amazed at the precision and that I did not make a mess.

I would have run the beauty shop in a way to attract the “demanding” money-c~~~s and serve them well, fast and expensive.

In my job I also had to deal with rich c~~~s… So this would not have been the limiting factor.

Working fast, efficient and flawless is what gets you into the profit zone.

Regardless of what you do.

I agree that men need to be more sensitive and more in touch with their emotions, but that’s not being masculine. That’s being human.

ghost wrote:

Morlock wrote:

It was of course all built around what women said they wanted.

They have shot themselves in the foot. I am reading that Pajama Boy doesn’t even want anything to do with women. He’s too busy playing Xbox and trading Bitcoin. He could care less about marriage or any of that nonsense.

Yes, so many CONFUSING demands by the c~~~s that the full blown electronics man installed the bed right in the stereo triangle of the 20+ component system in the bedroom.

Never caring if the man tall speakers would annoy the nesting instinct of the average culture-less and non-music loving woman.

We were raised to run a race to please the mighty c~~~. And we always lost that race in every day life… Smart men then go home and give up racing if they can’t compete with the Hollywood fantasy world women are raised to demand from THEIR local middle class MAN.

I cut off “what women want” completely and did what I enjoyed. I knew I could never win the consumerism race and I never WANTED to play that game.

While other boys went out with girls to spend all of their money on proving something to them, I only cared about electronics, antennas, stereo components and music…

I am taking about me at age 13 – 1980 on.

I never served women’s wishes. I always saw the futility in that and that they replace you at the first sign of disenchantment.

In Germany we have a saying:

You can carry an ungrateful person to Rome and back without a pause and if you just take one short break “it is all for nothing”…

That describes women in a nutshell.

You can pump all of your money and time in their asses and if you just make the smallest mistake or say one false word, they are gone.

And “thank you” is a foreign word to women.

And then they move on to the new BMW of the Turkish drug dealer in the schoolyard. To exploit him. They move to the car, not the man.

If they cared about the man, they would admire the guy who fixes radios, builds antennas and listens to the world more than someone who makes his living by destroying other lives.

My disgust for these materialistic bitches was so tightly “installed” that it was fun as hell to send them their way when they “finally wanted me” after my business showed fruit.

It is my own “scientific psychological experiment” as this all happened in the same environment and was not distorted by moving away. It was the same local c~~~s that used to ignore or s~~~ on me, that now “gave me the eye” and wanted me to talk to them. Or they showered me with praise. Yuck!

That’s why I consider my observations about women as “founded”.

I later – since the mid-1990’s – enjoyed carrying stacks of bills in my wallet just so they would see it and get p~~~ed about having ignored me when I was younger.

It was a constant feeling of victory, better than having sex with them and taking their fake bulls~~~, fake praise and time wasting habits.

Rejecting women makes you feel like a king.

Because IT MAKES YOU THE KING OF YOUR LIFE!