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Fascinating comments – seems even Doctors are not good enough for the modern cupcakes…
Welcome. I’m a physician also. Similar story, workout, etc.
Women ae deceivers. Terrible pill to swallow. I know. I experienced the final blow few months ago, you can read my intro “a bit broken” if you wish.
You have done well. You eliminated them quickly with red flags. I wasn’t like you in that regards. You need to protect yourself at this point. Build wealth, make a 10-yr plan for where you want to be financially, and put women at the least of priority. You have everything to lose (your career, your emotional wellbeing, your freedom) if you don’t take precaution with these vile sluts of today’s social media created demons. Protect yourself, my friend. I know exactly where you come from.
God bless peace and freedom.
Anonymous0Thank you for the welcome.
As Chir writes, I didn’t become a doc to get women, but on some level, the consideration of a vague future plan as a husband and dad has always been guiding my life and efforts. Reading philosophy, trying to answer the question, “What is the good life?” I’ve always pictured my grandfather in the days of my childhood summer vacations, sitting on the beach surrounded by extended family and telling stories and teaching me how to fish, how to use a pocketknife, how to fix things. On some level, I’ve lived my life striving towards a goal of sufficient ability and stability where I could provide for a family like he did. Although it is a nebulous, poorly defined dream, it’s something I always assumed would start taking shape and clarifying as I grew up. I just needed a good, righteous woman to work with me towards that goal of a good, happy life, with love and family at the center. These women I wrote about above, they initially seemed like good people who might have shared that journey. I didn’t go into those relationships lightly or merely for superficial or lustful reasons. It’s scary to contemplate how easily I’ve been led to misjudge. Perhaps scarier to consider how much I overestimated my own ability to judge whether someone is an honest, upright, loveable person. And it is very unsettling to contemplate a future without the goal, however vague, of settling down and living a loving life and providing for loved ones.
Heheh. Seems like you’re attracted to the drama queens. At least that way, you catch them out at their tricks early on (before marrying them) when they pull some dim-witted drama-queen rip-off.
In my case, I was attracted to the solid, reliable types. But after 5-8 years of marriage contempt would begin to creep into the marriage (in the sense of “familiarity breeds contempt”) and the wives would increasingly go nuts and agitate for better. I would either have to fall into a permanent “enabler” role to keep them happy, or fight them tooth and nail. And when I fought them, we divorced and they ended up with half of everything. Two marriages for 10 years each, two divorces.
Anyway, don’t look back to your grandfather’s day. Those days are gone. Women have too many choices, too many way to take the money and run. So they simply aren’t going to stick around for a lifetime playing the dutiful homemaker. Just not going to happen anymore.
You can still interact with women. Just don’t marry them, and don’t make them the centerpiece of your life. And when they become more trouble than they’re worth, send them packing and move on to another one. It’s the modern way.
Anyway, welcome!
Offered my ex (an RN who chooses to work 16 hours per week and earns about 10% of my salary) 90% of our joint assets and half of my superannuation. She wanted me to continue paying the mortgage on ‘her’ house for another 7 years so she could “get back on her feet”. Needless to say I told her to GTFO.
90% of assets??!! Why?!! Christ Jesus! I see you have a real strong, independent woman on your hands.
90% of assets??!! Why?!! Christ Jesus! I see you have a real strong, independent woman on your hands.
Being relatively asset-poor but income-rich, and my strong desire to sever all financial commitments once and for all, this was always going to be my strategy. I’ve been paying ‘her’ mortgage for over 5 years after our separation up until this point, which I consider more than long enough for her to “get back on her feet”.
NGE
90% of our joint assets and half of my superannuation.
NGE;
We both forgot the cardinal rule –
“Women don’t like being married to a doctor, but divorced from one.”
- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein
All the c~~~s will be p~~~ed when they hear such a “catch” has taken himself off the market. Glad you made it, man.
Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.
You’ve had quite the experiences over the years, welcome to the site.
A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!
Im floored!
Never lose sight of what brought you here.
NGE;
We both forgot the cardinal rule –
“Women don’t like being married to a doctor, but divorced from one.”
I wish I knew about that rule beforehand, although I suspect I was too c~~~struck at the time to have heeded it anyway.
Both of my teenaged sons want to be doctors; I am already priming them for MGTOW.
NGE
Thank you for the welcome.
It’s scary to contemplate how easily I’ve been led to misjudge. Perhaps scarier to consider how much I overestimated my own ability to judge whether someone is an honest, upright, loveable person. And it is very unsettling to contemplate a future without the goal, however vague, of settling down and living a loving life and providing for loved ones.Even if you judge them correctly THEN, in a society that reward women to betray their husband and the media constant brainwashing, they will change into someone you do not recognize.
That is the sad truth of western society. If you still want kids of your genetic material, there is the rented womb service. Having kids through marriage is like playing the Russian roulette. More often then not, your kids will be taken away from you and taught to hate you because the monster wanted child support.
There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.
Gnostic says it so well:
“More often then not, your kids will be taken away from you and taught to hate you because the monster wanted child support.”
Great statement to tape up to the mirror so you read it every morning when starting your day.
NGE;
We both forgot the cardinal rule –
“Women don’t like being married to a doctor, but divorced from one.”
I wish I knew about that rule beforehand, although I suspect I was too c~~~struck at the time to have heeded it anyway.
Both of my teenaged sons want to be doctors; I am already priming them for MGTOW.
NGE
Lol; c~~~struck.
I know what you mean. I had to get burned once to realize the stove is hot. Teach your boys well. Hopefully they don’t think the cardinal rule does not apply to them.
- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein
Lol; c~~~struck.
[/quote]Yeah, I can’t claim credit for that one, it’s been used widely in Australia for a while. Some union rep said it on national TV once, which caused a FUROR in the feminazi media.
NGE
Welcome to the site.
Even having a surrogate is scary. How do ensure the egg (donor) is as sane as you can possibly get it. If you have a daughter, it’s all good till Jr. high then there is the risk of raising a daughter that is no better than the women you’re trying to avoid. Can you choose the sex of a child in that scenario? If it was me I would want to make sure it was a son. As shallow as all that sounds, it would be one of my concerns; having had 3 daughters myself and 2 of them are still very EMO even as adults.If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.
Welcome Lingo. I joined here recently and the people here are great. I’m 37, never married and no kids. When I was younger I was told “there is someone for everyone,”you’ll meet someone one day” and all the cliches. Now as my thirties wind down I’m losing that hope every month and year. You’re not alone in your frustration and disappointment. I’m glad I found this site because I know I’m not alone in solitude and that it is possible to walk away from a broken dream and be happy.
Much respect to you and your dedication for medical school. We can never have enough good doctors.
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