30 birthday/family pressure

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  • 2018-02-20 at 6:28 AM#743833
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    Virgil
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    Russky wrote:

    nothing good can come out of family-arranged hook-ups – too much pressure, expectations and gossip. You’ll feel like ghosting from everyone involved when it falls apart

    Can attest to this. Had a similar unfortunate situation tried on me. My younger dumbass self dated her. Best advice is ghost. No good can come from this type of setup.

    This may make you question loyalty to family. Do they really have your best interests in mind when trying to set you up? Or what do they gain at your loss?

    *edited for typo

    Hope that someday I may lead others the path I have learned. As Virgil led Dante through Hell.

    2018-02-20 at 8:48 AM#743900
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    Lone Wolf83
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    What is so hard from telling them (girl and rude family) to f~~~ off about your personal life? I do it all the time and I’m 34.

    If it has tits or tires, you know you're going to have problems.

    2018-02-20 at 9:03 AM#743907
    Ranger One
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    IAM wrote:

    I was not in the best mindset and I have to admit, I do like her a bit. I have been single my whole live and have never interacted with any women besides the usual hookup. She is the first girl I am talking to.

    In other words, you are vulnerable to being mind-f~~~ed by vagina. Most likely, you don’t like HER — you like the false image of herself that she is projecting in order to trap a wallet and sperm bank.

    IAM wrote:

    I know I need to snap out of this and end communication with her.

    Ding! Ding! Yes, you do need to end it with her.

    IAM wrote:

    One thing that got me thinking normally for a bit was when she said, ” I did not work my ass off just to be a mom? NOOO” She works full time and has one year left of college. She is 26. I am such a moron.

    Not a moron, so long as you don’t bite.

    Men need women, like a fish needs a hook.

    All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

    2018-02-20 at 9:55 AM#743933
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    Narwhal
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    When you have a moment when you’re clear headed, right down all the things that are important to you in your life. Whenever you are pushed to make a decision, go back on these values and pick the decision that lines up best with what you said mattered to you in your life.

    Women can only fill you up with lies and deceit when you are empty…plenty of room for them to tell you what should be important to you.

    Ok. Then do it.

    2018-02-20 at 11:38 AM#743983
    Secret Agent MGTOW
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    WPL wrote:

    This is truth… somewhere, probably between ages 32 and 36, she’ll want a child and she’ll want to trap a wallet to pay for this child. Don’t be in the middle of that s~~~storm when it happens.

    Cataphract wrote:
    IAM wrote:

    ”I did not work my ass off just to be a mom? NOOO”

    That will last until either career-fatigue or the baby rabies kicks in.

    And if its not a kid during that time, it’s going to be pets instead. The baby rabies manifests itself tangibly one way or another.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

    2018-02-20 at 1:28 PM#744074
    IAM
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    The one issue I still have is wanting to have a child. This is the reason why I allowed them to pressure me and for this reason alone I was not thinking clear. I work hard and in the next few years is on track to make even more money. Why bother to make so much money when I have nothing to use it for. Not too sure at the moment. I just know marriage is not what I want but being a father is something I can’t escape yet.

    2018-02-20 at 1:31 PM#744077
    IAM
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    @narwhal I will definitely take a moment and do what you have suggested when I am thinking clearly. I don’t plan to contact her again so that is a good thing.

    2018-02-20 at 1:32 PM#744078
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    TheSpice
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    IAM wrote:

    The one issue I still have is wanting to have a child.

    Good luck to you. That’s all I have to say.

    "I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
    "You know it's too late for that."

    2018-02-20 at 2:22 PM#744118
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    If you really want to have a child, then you should do it without getting married but, and this is crucial, you should be with a woman for several years first to make sure she isn’t a c~~~.

    If you’re considering having a child with a woman you barely know, you’re nuts!

    2018-02-20 at 6:49 PM#744322
    IAM
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    Anonymous wrote:

    If you really want to have a child, then you should do it without getting married but, and this is crucial, you should be with a woman for several years first to make sure she isn’t a c~~~.

    If you’re considering having a child with a woman you barely know, you’re nuts!

    I am not planning to have a child with a girl I barely know. I thought about getting to know this current one for a couple of years and see what happen. I never even consider marriage with her or anyone. Just would love the chance to be a father someday.

    2018-02-20 at 6:56 PM#744329
    IAM
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    Thank you all for taking the time to reply to my post. After all of these years I thought fatherhood was also out of the question for me. I guess I was wrong. It is something I still think about. Thank you.

    2018-02-23 at 5:51 AM#746156
    Meister
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    IAM wrote:
    Russky wrote:
    IAM wrote:

    ” I did not work my ass off just to be a mom? NOOO”

    that tune will change diametrically in 10 years, but it will be too late

    That line right there got me thinking straight back to MGTOW. We all have heard that before. The thing is, she is closed with my sister in law so I can’t just ignore her like that. Got to do it slowly. She knows my whole family. I am such a dumb ass for allowing the pressure to get to me. All my fault.

    You are right. It is your fault.
    Kudos for admiting that.

    Now grow some b~~~~ and tell your family to f~~~ off.

    You’re a grown-ass man for f~~~ sake!

    Monk

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