30 birthday/family pressure

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  • 2018-02-19 at 7:30 PM#743444
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    IAM
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    I just turned 30 years old last Friday and the pressure from my family was kicked into another gear. My older brother who is married has never mention relationship to me or tried to set me up until now. I was not in the best mindset and I have to admit, I do like her a bit. I have been single my whole live and have never interacted with any women besides the usual hookup. She is the first girl I am talking to. I know I need to snap out of this and end communication with her. One thing that got me thinking normally for a bit was when she said, ” I did not work my ass off just to be a mom? NOOO” She works full time and has one year left of college. She is 26. I am such a moron.

    2018-02-19 at 7:40 PM#743449
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    Russky
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    IAM wrote:

    ” I did not work my ass off just to be a mom? NOOO”

    that tune will change diametrically in 10 years, but it will be too late

    proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

    2018-02-19 at 7:43 PM#743450
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    Secret Agent MGTOW
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    Awalt. I repeat, awalt.

    You are awake, don’t go back to sleep. Its just a thin veneer. If you don’t think the women in your family filled her in on stuff about you, and how to act to sucker you in, you are nuts.

    You need to hip-check (or high stick) your family now and end this crap.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

    2018-02-19 at 7:43 PM#743451
    IAM
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    Russky wrote:
    IAM wrote:

    ” I did not work my ass off just to be a mom? NOOO”

    that tune will change diametrically in 10 years, but it will be too late

    That line right there got me thinking straight back to MGTOW. We all have heard that before. The thing is, she is closed with my sister in law so I can’t just ignore her like that. Got to do it slowly. She knows my whole family. I am such a dumb ass for allowing the pressure to get to me. All my fault.

    2018-02-19 at 7:50 PM#743453
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    Russky
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    f~~~ her
    and then ghost
    tell the rest of your family she had crabs

    proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

    2018-02-19 at 8:03 PM#743455
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    Russky
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    but seriously? you make me worry. this sounds like a cry for help.
    you sound like you’re one bj away from embracing the plantation.
    nothing good can come out of family-arranged hook-ups – too much pressure, expectations and gossip. You’ll feel like ghosting from everyone involved when it falls apart

    proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

    2018-02-19 at 8:06 PM#743458
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    Cataphract
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    IAM wrote:

    ”I did not work my ass off just to be a mom? NOOO”

    That will last until either career-fatigue or the baby rabies kicks in.

    Marriage: About as appealing as wood-chipper diving.

    2018-02-19 at 8:09 PM#743460
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    Rogue
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    Russky wrote:

    F~~~ her
    and then ghost
    tell the rest of your family she had crabs

    LOL That is classic..

    Get out NOW.. after you F~~~ her..

    Crabs LOL

    2018-02-19 at 8:20 PM#743463
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    SH3LLZ
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    Dude dont even BOTHER to F~~~ her! I would advise EVERY young man here to get a vasectomy. Never risk having a vagina attached to your wallet for ANY reason. ANY REASON.

    When youre horny you dont think straight. Seriously kid. Rub one out on your own time, then think about your life, ALL YOU HAVE, ALL YOU WANT and all you STAND TO LOSE.

    #PEACEoverPUSSY!
    #MANOUT!
    #ICETHEMOUT!

    #ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

    2018-02-19 at 8:26 PM#743466
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    Russky said:
    tell the rest of your family she had crabs

    THAT…IS…A…RIOT! I’m STILL laughing. Well done, Sir.

    2018-02-19 at 11:08 PM#743581
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    IAM wrote:

    ” I did not work my ass off just to be a mom?

    ^^^^BIG RED FLAG!

    2018-02-19 at 11:09 PM#743582
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    Grumpy
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    The thing is, she is closed with my sister in law so I can’t just ignore her like that. Got to do it slowly. She knows my whole family.

    AAAANNND
    This pertains to you how?
    Of course you can ignore her, or you can be civil or not, that’s your decision.

    What right does your sister in law have to infringe upon YOUR life?
    She brought in a stray parasite and offered you up as a host, with your brothers blessing?. Would she endanger her own brother first with the same parasite?
    Have you told them about your boundaries?
    If so, they have just shown blatant disrespect and very little regard for you as a human being, and are no longer worthy of your concern.

    There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

    2018-02-19 at 11:11 PM#743584
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    Monk
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    IAM wrote:

    One thing that got me thinking normally for a bit was when she said, ” I did not work my ass off just to be a mom? NOOO” She works full time and has one year left of college. She is 26.

    RED FLAGS.

    Wants a ‘career’.

    What is her subject? College debts? What is her so-called ‘job’?

    She’s 26 – the wall is approaching. She’s ridden the CC for at least 10 years.

    The thing is, she is closed with my sister in law so I can’t just ignore her like that. Got to do it slowly.

    Get some b~~~~. You can do what you like.

    The fact that this is clearly a co-ordinated hive operation to snag a sucker means you should get your s~~~ together NOW.

    She knows my whole family. I am such a dumb ass for allowing the pressure to get to me. All my fault.

    For Chrissakes, you are 30, not 13.

    Pull yourself together and tell them where to get off.

    2018-02-19 at 11:18 PM#743591
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    IMickey503
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    We all feel at one time we might have something. It’s not true bro. My sister tried to do this with me with some woman who works at a bank. Last time she tried to talk to me, I was “HASHTAG MEETOO!”

    A week later she moved out from being across my sisters house. Does that tell you something?

    She looked great. Nothing wrong with her. SHe even looked young for 35. Don’t do it. She has just been dumped by her Chad, and she was looking to climb the c~~~ ladder of her work, but got stuck.

    So now. She works right? She is trying to find men at work, and as soon as you get with her, she will be able to get the confidence to tackle bigger fish.

    DO NOT FALL FOR IT. When women talk like that, they are STRAIGHT UP LIARS.

    Take a look at her facebook if you want, you will see all sorts of Thumbs up on her feminist views, and her wanting to have a family.

    Fact is, women always have 3-4 men in waiting. They are looking to see who will bite.

    If you are looking for a relationship, go overseas. STAY THERE. Any relationship with a woman here in the western world is SUICIDE. The only thing she has in common with you is her need for you man gravy. Besides, isn’t just KIND of WEIRD that these people know that you are going to have SEX with this chick?

    That should be a RED RED FLAG by itself.

    Besides. The only reason why she is even looking at you is that you are successful. She wants help to pay the bills since she knows her work career is winding down.

    But hey, you already know all this. Do what’s best for you. We are not here to judge man. But we care, so I hope you do what’s best for you.

    You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

    2018-02-19 at 11:26 PM#743597
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    Sjt1975
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    I keep getting hinted-at every now-and-then, i.e. to get a woman in my life, especially when I had turned 30 years old, then 40 years old. Blue Pillers do not like to see a free man, since they chose to imprison themselves and are regretting it, no matter what they may do/say. If you get similarly hinted-at or questioned, just give some bull-s~~~ response (e.g. “I just haven’t found the right woman yet”), since Blue Pillers will not be able to handle the truth; obviously, set-ups are a no-no, since it is your choice. When you look at women beyond 25 years old, it is enough to put you off them anyway.

    2018-02-20 at 3:04 AM#743744
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    Nerevar
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    SH3LLZ wrote:

    Dude dont even BOTHER to F~~~ her! I would advise EVERY young man here to get a vasectomy. Never risk having a vagina attached to your wallet for ANY reason. ANY REASON.

    When youre horny you dont think straight. Seriously kid. Rub one out on your own time, then think about your life, ALL YOU HAVE, ALL YOU WANT and all you STAND TO LOSE.

    #PEACEoverPUSSY!
    #MANOUT!
    #ICETHEMOUT!

    This! DO NOT F~~~ HER!

    "One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

    2018-02-20 at 4:58 AM#743775
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    Knights Templar Rising
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    AWALT…watch what happens when she turns 35 and gets baby rabies…hey, but your the exception and not the rule right?…riiight.

    Sovereignty above all else.

    2018-02-20 at 5:13 AM#743782
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    Awakened
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    GHOST her Sweet lil Ass, and FAST !!

    They have a way of gettin their cute lil hooks into your thinking, and will f~~~ up your head. It already began, that’s why you are here trying to sort it out.

    Rule #1 about Women Is THEY LIE ALL THE TIME ABOUT ALL TYPES OF THINGS.

    RULE #2 about Women is THEY CHANGE, AND THE LONGER THAT YOU ARE WITH THEM THE MORE THEY CHANGE, AND THEY NEVER CHANGE FOR THE BETTER.

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    2018-02-20 at 5:45 AM#743799
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    TheSpice
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    The men in this thread are trying to help you dodge a bullet, son. Dodge it. A woman will do and say ANYTHING to get you to bite. That is their game. I don’t give a f~~~ about your sister-in-law and neither should you. Stay strong and go your own way!

    "I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
    "You know it's too late for that."

    2018-02-20 at 5:57 AM#743806
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    WPL
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    This is truth… somewhere, probably between ages 32 and 36, she’ll want a child and she’ll want to trap a wallet to pay for this child. Don’t be in the middle of that s~~~storm when it happens.

    Cataphract wrote:
    IAM wrote:

    ”I did not work my ass off just to be a mom? NOOO”

    That will last until either career-fatigue or the baby rabies kicks in.

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