13 Lies Men Tell Themselves to Stay in Bad Relationships

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6. Sex and affection aren’t important.
There’s an enormous difference between “sex” and “affection”.
Sex, well, we know women have a lesser sex drive, so that should be take in account from the beginning: a long-lasting relations~~~ is NOT meant for having a lot of sex. Okay, I can even deal with that (not really, but let’s pretend I can 😀 ).
But if the bitch withholds showing affection, then we have an ENORMOUS problem. Withholding affection on a regular basis, she deserve WAR not understanding.
My ex-wife tried to control me withholding sex, using sex as reward and withholding sex as punishment.
I replied withholding, even more, sex: she tried controlling me granting sex just only 4-5 times in a month, I reduced it to 1-2 times in a month ACCURATELY AVOIDING the days around the ovulation (the very few days in a month when the woman is really aroused) – it worked fine, she had even to masturbate, sometimes 😀
Then she replied withholding almost every sign of affection. At such point I beginned to hide cash money, preparing for a split.

I think in some relationships wherever they may apply, if you tell yourself these things then more than likely you will end up in a lower spot than you would have otherwise thought. Some are either too young to realize it and too broken with self esteem issues to even fathom ever getting out of relationships. It sucks when someone doesn’t have the hindsight to get out of some of the f~~~ed up and broken relationships that exist today. I think one of the biggest problems now is that society is accepting of the abuse. The most common is mental abuse and that is the hardest to combat. Its hard to fight because its up to a person to take their power back and sometimes that never happens and they end up stuck for life with bad relationship after bad relationship. Is their fault not entirely. Choices like “But the sex is good” just makes a man wonder sometimes how narrow minded some individuals are. Trust I was there and I am still going through it and I am getting over it. Most the things that affect people with Self Esteem issues stem from them not believing that they can do better, and leave, also feelings of loneliness.

I think its the RED PILLS that make me angry everyday. I sometimes wonder if its a good idea to just breakaway from the forums to get a breather, in the end that might cost me. Who knows.

I’ve only ever used one of these… Number 7

As long as the good sex outweighs the crazy and or stupid, I’ll stick it out. Once the sex starts becoming mundane, I bail or I just disengage.

My last ex managed to survive 16 rounds in a long entertaining day, which bought some leeway. I tolerated the smoking outside but once I was stuck in a car with it; I was basically done.