1 year 8 months and 18 days of growing as a MGTOW huge improvements!

Hello again.

Since joining in 2016 I have been lurking the forums regularly. Made the introduction post /forums/topic/young-mgtow-a-loser-going-his-own-way-or-taking-responsibility/ but didn’t participate that much. I am not really used to using forums to talk and engage in conversation. I took a break from lurking around here due to a lot of standard negative responses and posts about women. even when women weren’t involved and the post was about self improvement someone felt the need to fall back to the standard women are bad response. instead of ignoring them and focus on the goal of the post: self improvement or a good thought provoking question. I just like to leave trash where it belongs out of mind and out of sight at the dump and move on. And that is what I did, this post is about personal growth using mgtow wisdom. (If it fits into another category please move this post)

I found out about MGTOW when I was climbing out of a deep depression and evaluating and defining who I was. I have watched many mgtow channels TFM, raging golden eagle, mgtow money, Howard dare, Sandman, Replicant fish and Sunrise hoodie etc. Aaron Clarey who isn’t a MGTOW but has a lot of valuable thoughts and ideas is a channel I follow closely. I also try to regularly listen to interviews with succesful business people and soak up their wisdom about life. A strong and healthy foundation is the key to building a sturdy structure.

I have always been a lone wolf doing my own thing. And since I consciously know about the MGTOW philosophy I achieved a lot of things I wouldn’t think were possible. I have gone through A period of redpill rage. Almost became blue pill when the rage settled down. lost the v card during that time which isn’t too bad. You have to experience some things so you can make up your mind about them. It’s meh, but changes your brain in a nasty way. Not worth it although the primal brain says otherwise.

I went back to being redpill and doing my own thing after this short relapse. I was focussed on earning a steady income and having a better job with more hours and pay. Within 2 weeks of pushing towards this goal I found myself employed working 60 plus hours a week for an employment agency. I still held on to my part time job which didn’t offer a lot of hours at that time. Within a month I found myself working for 3 different employers. I used the advice of Aaron Clarey’s video “why work has to suck” and made it a part of my reality. I took the jobs that were offered to me without complaining and have worked my ass off for a few months. With some of the money I made I got a nice car which I enjoy driving and looking at. But it also opens up more opportunities for work and personal freedom.

I have slowed down the pace to 40+ hours a week so I am able to spend my free time pursuing a secondary income stream and studying a skill with the potential of more pay. I make more than the average college grad my age by doing unskilled work at 40 hours a week. I enjoy what I do to make money but I will not let it take over my life. I work to live and enjoy life.

I tried to stop focussing on the negative things in life. And when something is draining energy I try to remove it from my life. I let go of my part time job which drained me and filled me with stress. I used to worry about society, women and politics. But I am learning to let go of all those things and it is liberating. I don’t care anymore it’s a blissfull state of not giving a f~~~ and enjoying life my way. Nowadays I just try to push forward and improve. I am 23 the world is opening up for me. And I am ready to go for it. But I will not let anything stand in my way of achieving the lifestyle I wish to live.

I wanted to use MGTOW wisdom the way it was meant to be as soon as I discovered it. And I am getting close. Enrich your life. Stop bitching about bitches, move on and become a better man than you have ever been or dreamed of. That is your goal and why you are here!