GREETINGS; I was once an unaware BP man, navigating the stormy seas around Cupcake Land. I was enticed by a sweet piece of pie into an eight year relationship that I BELIEVED was the right thing to do. I took care of her, traveled the world with her, changed careers for her, moved across the country for her and always put her needs & happiness ahead of my own... NOW, I'm a GHOST who lives as he wants. I don't date, impregnate or cohabitate. My life gets better everyday.