I tried one more time, just to be sure. It has been proven to me over and over that kindness equates to weakness in the mind of a modern woman. Once you give, she begins to take. What is yours becomes theirs as soon as you give it. I think this is more of a cultural trend though. I believe all behavior is learned. This trend can change. I do not buy into the hard-wired philosophy of most of my fellow MGTOWs. Until stereotypical gender roles are taken out of the mix, and we stop training our daughters to be princess's and our boys play with toy versions of what they will later be doing for a living, there's no hope. I'm done. Because I know this rare bird cannot be found and I'm too jaded. The rest of my life will be lived for me, by me. This mule has towed the cart for 20 years, now it's time for some discovery! :D