Just an average man who is just now getting back on my feet after my divorce became final over 5 years ago. No children and got out better than most in my divorce. Kept my pension and pretty much lost everything else. Glad I did it though and wished I would have had the guts to do it earlier than I did.
"Thank you for this. To be able to relate is a godsend. I'm not alone. I did "get-it"! My ears were open. I "was" listening to my Wife when manipulated into believing I wasn't trying & it was all my fault. What I loved, cherished & built for the last 15 yrs is being vaporized. To all the Men that have experienced their wife's selfishness, soul-raping betrayal and who have paid the consequences for "I love you but I'm not in love with you" and "I need to find myself"..... Thank you for sharing your words, your stories, thank you for everything. Sincerely."