Zarathustra's Worst Break-up #3

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

Relationship#3: (Age 24-28) She was married and I was her chad. She was a complete 10 and the sex was amazing. She left her husband for me and we dated and lived together for 4 years. I got sick near the end and to be honest for the most part she took care of me during my illness when I had no one. She might have even saved my life. But after several stays in the hospital we weren’t having sex because I was run down. She was a real nympho and when I couldn’t perform I knew I was in trouble. I left for a few days to visit family and a few days after returning she ambushed me with an STD scare, i.e. she had one and blamed me for giving it to her. I bought her BS hook line and sinker because earlier that year, on a time out while we were both seeing other people, I slept with a few skanks. Although I used protection I felt guilty because I didn’t tell her and because of this guilt I believed. I was such a naïve fool that when I went for a test and it came back negative I thought they made a mistake and I was retested! Even after a second negative test I had a hard time acknowledging what had happened. We broke up. The worst thing was I had booked a trip, including air fare and hotel, for the two of us to reward her for helping me when sick and when we broke up I was too tired to fight it and I let her go on the trip without me.

This one is a bit unusual in that, amazingly we are still friends. I didn’t talk to her for years and then we reconnected. She apologised, was 100% honest about what happened and took full responsibility. She’s a good friend that I talk to about once a month. I have few friends and I am isolated from family and she sends me a very nice Christmas Present and Birthday present every year and expects nothing in return. I would have nothing on these occasions if it were not for her. She is very intelligent, near genius IQ, and we just talk about movies and books. She is also an executive and has always made far more money than I and paid for everything during our relationship.

Having said that I still dodged a bullet because she is absolutely nuts. Our relationship works, for what it is, because we live 1000’s of miles a part. Otherwise I suspect we would fall into old habits.

Sorry for the long post this one is a little more complicated.

[StealthParticipant 5335]

Fascinating story. Complete with married 10 hotties and dodging bullets . . . just like James Bond.

Seriously, it’s an interesting preview into the fantasies we’ve all once had. And yet, you’re still here. Outside of the blue pill matrix.

“She apologised, was 100% honest about what happened and took full responsibility.”

This is fantastic. With all of the stories we have of women who could never do this.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Anonymous 8]

So was there an actual STD or was it just a s~~~ test?

Either way, glad you didn’t catch it brother, yikes.

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

Wow! Gringo star… 15 years later and I never thought the STD scare could have been a s~~~ test! You know what it might just have been… It was a stressful time and maybe she was just trying to force me out. Never thought of that…

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