Your cost of a woman

[Nags4CashParticipant 1163]

One of my biggest problems with women, like most people here I imagine, is how just plain expensive they are. I work hard and I like to save money. So many tiny stupid things they find absolutely necessary bleed money out of a home and debt into it. Even if they work, your money ends up feeding their expenses too. I’m curious what kinds of things you ex blue pillers have had to suffer paying through. I’ll start with my list of obviously annoying s~~~ I’ve observed from family and friends.

Hard to overstate the shoe problem. Seriously. I thought it was a bad tv joke until I learned how real it is.

Same for one use dresses.

Competitive cars, car has to be an overreach on status and budget or else you won’t keep her.

Ever get a designer type, I have seen them endlessly cycle through a house spending thousands replacing every detail down to expensive fancy window dressings and a 4000$ marble dinner table. Does anyone really care what a window is covered by. Really?

Lady hobbies. You know, a painting room, or starting a flower “business” or something.

Does anyone really like pedicured nails? Do you guys like that? Would you pay for shiny nails?

Skinnybitch brand fancy food. It costs twice as much, but has 3% less calories.

“saving money” by going to sales and spending tons of money. Literally every business marks up junk, and then claims 50% off to get ladies in the door now, and it still works.

Plastic surgery. The amount of money that goes into delaying the wall is staggering. Some guys may appreciate that I guess, I’d rather just not be there to begin with.

Cosmetic products. Did a commercial just come for a new wrinkle reducing cream made from exotic kangaroo ball skin. Guess what, shes already trying to remember your credit card number.

Houses. House look good enough, amazing price, decent location? Too bad, the living room doesn’t “feel” right. It’ll probably feel right if it’s about 25-35% over budget.

What am I missing?

Murph ~ There is nothing brave or manly about entering into a contract with somebody which allows them to take your money, assets, children, and decades of your future income on a mere whim.

[MorpheusParticipant 2177]

Even more astonishing is the excuses they come up with.

I need this handbag because I have to maintain my social status.
All the people in our neighbourhood have 80G car, so we need one too.
I need a luxury vacation because I work so hard.

[MACHOParticipant]

Nags4Cash wrote:

One of my biggest problems with women, like most people here I imagine, is how just plain expensive they are.

I Sum it up like this…

Virtue vs Vice

Women have gotten so corrupted that they have accumulated all kinds of vices… Lust for carnal pleasures, money, power. gluttony.

But I hear that their worst vice is Pride! It’s the mother of all their vices… therefore the endless longing for luxuries… pleasures, vanity and all kinds of decadence!

Welcome to the emancipated
strong Modern women.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Popp did a vid somewhat related to this a while ago:

Single bloke can live off about $23k.

Married bloke needs a salary of about $75k to pay for all the s~~~.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Absolutely.

Cupcake loved to shop, party and show-off.

She also ‘required‘ 2 hot holidays per year.

‘Our’ favourite thing to waste money on EVERY WEEKEND was ‘brunch’.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[Nags4CashParticipant 1163]

Brunch that’s a good one 🤣

Murph ~ There is nothing brave or manly about entering into a contract with somebody which allows them to take your money, assets, children, and decades of your future income on a mere whim.

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

Everything you said Is right on the money! While I reasonably spend to enjoy life now, until I have critical mass, which is enough money to retire on, there’s no point in simply wasting it for the stupid stuff that women seem to think is essential for their “lifestyle”.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[BoarParticipant]

It would be entertaining if they could ever figure out how to monetize suffering and anguish. There would be no whimyn that would pass a cost/benefit analysis. Just ask Brad….

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

Travel so they can post s~~~y pictures

New phone so they can be on social media and text while they’re driving

Don’t forget they expect YOU to be fashionable also. They want a jealous hive. So they buy s~~~ with your money for YOU.(them)

[Anonymous 42]

Lemme check my budget, be back in a minute,,,,,,,,,,,,

Women; Expenses: $0.00 and holding.

I say that with a wad of cash and filling my oil tanks for winter!

Otherwise I’d likely be homeless and freezing, can’t move back to mom’s basement, they moved south where there are no basements!

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Trapper wrote:

Travel so they can post s~~~y pictures

New phone so they can be on social media and text while they’re driving

Don’t forget they expect YOU to be fashionable also. They want a jealous hive. So they buy s~~~ with your money for YOU.(them)

@Trapper this is so spot on.

The amount of s~~~ SHE tried to get me to buy for MYSELF was mad.

– Why don’t you buy a new car
– Buy this for your apartment

Always posting my private life all over her social.

Don’t even get me started on the SOCIAL MEDIA while driving.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Nags4Cash wrote:

What am I missing?

You basically have it, and I’m glad I’m not paying for all that!

When I was a teenager, I used to save up $20 so I could take this girl (my high school sweetheart) to the movies ($5 for gas, $14 for two movie tickets—this was the 1980s). I was the perfect blue pill friend. I didn’t demand anything from her, I was just happy to be dating. She had all sorts of sex with guys who didn’t give a s~~~ about her.

I’ve spent thousands of dollars taking women to movies, restaurants, fun events, motels, etc. And I’ve spent hundreds of dollars tipping strippers and getting lap dances at nudie bars. When I was in the Army, I used to go to a nudie bar every week and spend $80. This really sexy Asian lady would always sit next to me as soon as I walked into the place (because I tipped very well and the lunch hour was slow). I loved the feeling I got from our fake relationship.

With all the bills I have now, I can’t imagine myself having a girlfriend. At this point in my life, it’s more important for me to put new tires on my car than to go on a dinner date with some bimbo and wonder if she’s going to spread her legs for me. I have to be frugal, and make sacrifices for a better future.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Truly, if we were to list all the costs associated with being with a woman – financial or otherwise – this would be the longest topic in the history of cyberspace.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

MACHO wrote:

I Sum it up like this…

Virtue vs Vice

Women have gotten so corrupted that they have accumulated all kinds of vices… Lust for carnal pleasures, money, power. gluttony.

But I hear that their worst vice is Pride! It’s the mother of all their vices… therefore the endless longing for luxuries… pleasures, vanity and all kinds of decadence!

Welcome to the emancipated
strong Modern women.

Spoken like a true stoic. Women can’t be stoics–they are entirely fueled by their vices and impulses. Even the more “mannish” ones and the high-functioning autistics are still driven by their estrogen.

Stuff I buy: $60 video game that I’ll play for more than 500 hours over the span of 2 years. Speed bag for the front porch that I’ll beat on 1-2 hours a week. New running shoes (when the bottoms fall off the old ones)

Stuff women buy: $200 dress (on sale for $150!) they’ll never wear because it’s not “the right occasion.” $150 massage session (one-time, 30-45 minutes, and then right back to being bitchy). Yoga pants that don’t get worn for yoga. Fancy nail designs that chip and break off in a week, only $60!

It’s almost like women don’t think about what things actually cost, and have no way of conceptualizing the true and sunk costs of things.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[TaxGuyParticipant]

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

Stuff women buy: $200 dress (on sale for $150!) they’ll never wear because it’s not “the right occasion.” $150 massage session (one-time, 30-45 minutes, and then right back to being bitchy). Yoga pants that don’t get worn for yoga. Fancy nail designs that chip and break off in a week, only $60!

It’s almost like women don’t think about what things actually cost, and have no way of conceptualizing the true and sunk costs of things.

Wants vs. needs. She will spin the hamster wheel until she convinces herself that those are NEEDS not WANTS. I NEED my nails done because that’s what’s expected of us women. I NEED that pretty dress because I have to dress for success at work. I NEED that massage because I work so hard and am under such pressure.

The Dali Llama said (and this is not a quote, but you get the idea): It’s amazing that we ruin our health for money and then spend all our money trying to fix our health. What’s the point?

A woman will read that, think “Yeah!” and then go right back to spending every dime she can get her hands on. Including going into debt.

Order the good wine

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Women pay more for stuff than men…and this is just basic stuff. Add the cost of their freakin’ shoes & dresses.

http://www.businessinsider.com/items-that-cost-more-for-women-than-men-2016-7

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[GrumpyParticipant]

FunInTheSun wrote:

Women pay more for stuff than men…and this is just basic stuff. Add the cost of their freakin’ shoes & dresses.

Because they are WILLING to pay more so they can bitch about it, regardless of who’s money they are actually spending.
It’s about the choices that people and women specifically make.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Nags4CashParticipant 1163]

TaxGuy wrote:

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

A woman will read that, think “Yeah!” and then go right back to spending every dime she can get her hands on. Including going into debt.

I’ve seen that first hand to. Had the marble table family member show me 50k In credit card debt and ask for tips on getting rid of it, then refinanced the house for some extra spending cash and bought a new car.

Murph ~ There is nothing brave or manly about entering into a contract with somebody which allows them to take your money, assets, children, and decades of your future income on a mere whim.

[MurineesParticipant 704]

I think what drives them to spend so much is their “feeling good” way of being.

They HAVE TO feel good about themselves in every aspect of their life. Their feelings guide their life, whether it is spending, dating, marrying, cheating, giving birth… everything.

On topic though, plastic surgery is the worst. A dark path of no return.
My ex does the plastic surgery things AFTER we divorced (thankfully). Spending the motherf~~~er money which I don’t know how much, she turned herself into a mummy that I couldn’t watch for more than 1 second.

Talk about paying tons to destroy your beauty. Ah well, suit yourself.

[Nags4CashParticipant 1163]

It blows my mind that women think that pulled back face is better. It’s just a different kind of weird looking to saggy old skin.

Murph ~ There is nothing brave or manly about entering into a contract with somebody which allows them to take your money, assets, children, and decades of your future income on a mere whim.

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