Young MGTOW trying to bed a woman

[TazzParticipant 165]

Whats goin on MGTOW brothers. So i just need some advice. Now… i know some MGTOW guys have sworn off women period but me however, im still young and would like to get it in like most guys my age, the only difference is im slowly learning not to need pussy like 99% of other 20 year olds my age.

Ive seen how n~~~~s get when they “need” pussy and how low they stoop and lord knows i dont wanna be anything like that.

With that being said, theres a chick i know who displays NAWALT behavior even though we all really know AWALT. We talk and she ask me about my day and i ask about hers and she “seems” genuinely chill….for now. But i heard she was interested in me through a mutual friend and she knows im interested in her.

Now we live in a society where guys are supposed to make the first move….yea i know. Anyway i gave a little push from my side by showing my interest in her by asking if she had a snapchat so we could have some form of contact. Unfortunately she didnt and i wasnt going to ask for her number. And on top of that she has a date which our mutual friend says she’s really not that into the guy because she’s into me.

Now….my coworker says that when it comes to men and women, its always been 60-40….we men put in %60 percent and the women %40. He says i should give it a little extra push. In MY mind i say F~~~ that, times are changing, and that ive already gave a push from my side and if shes really interested she’ll give a little push from her side. And if she doesnt then ill just move on. I figured thats how a MGTOW would look at it…one who still wants to get it in ill say. What are your guys opinions on what i should do? As of now im leaving the next move up to her and not doing anything.

Peace of mind is more important than pussy in mind

[Anonymous 18]

Tazz wrote:

With that being said, theres a chick i know who displays NAWALT behavior even though we all really know AWALT.

And your conclusion is?

Tazz wrote:

Now we live in a society where guys are supposed to make the first move….yea i know.

We always lived in a society like this. It’s only gotten worse.

Tazz wrote:

And on top of that she has a date which our mutual friend says she’s really not that into the guy because she’s into me.

And you believe that because? She doesn’t have snapchat. But I bet the other guy has her number. And likely going to find out how tight her pussy is before you would.

Tazz wrote:

I figured thats how a MGTOW would look at it

MGTOW wouldn’t hold their dicks waiting for her make a move. Rejoice the fact that she will swallow the guy in next few nights. Let him take his turn. Enjoy your life. If she comes around, take your turn. But don’t spend too much time on the ride. Let the next guy have his turn.

What is so hard to understand?

[Anonymous 1]

Tazz wrote:

With that being said, theres a chick i know who displays NAWALT behavior even though we all really know AWALT

Nothing out of the ordinary here.

I find the ones that don’t present themselves as awalt to be more honest + they save you time and money.

None of this concerns me anymore, though. If I want sex it’s on my times

You sound like you’re simping, bruh.

You’re trying to understand her logic – you shouldn’t be able to relate to crazy.

[Anonymous 54]

Glad im old.

[TazzParticipant 165]

Alright i think i have a different definition of simping than alot of you. From what ive heard and seen, simping is when your down and feeling butt hurt about a girl not wanting you, sleeping with you, etc (which i am not), but with alot of you it seems like simping is just simply trying to do literally anything with a female. If you talk to em your a simp, if you look at em, your a simp, if you simply BREATHE the same air as a female, then your a simp, and if you just wanna f~~~ em your the biggest simp ever. Is there something im not getting? Like let it be known that im not losing a SECOND of sleep over this female. She doesnt have me under her spell or anything. I just simply wanna get it in. My mindset is if she likes me more than her date then cool lets f~~~. If not then oh well i aint trippin. I have no emotions involved what so ever. Someone please help me understand. I thought i was doing everything the MGTOW way. I expressed a little interest and left it at that. Im not getting defensive i just really need to understand how im being a simp and what YOUR guys definition of a simp is.

Peace of mind is more important than pussy in mind

[Anonymous 42]

Tazz wrote:

And on top of that she has a date which our mutual friend says she’s really not that into the guy because she’s into me.

Don’t be her orbiting fool! Break orbit and let her solar decay! Bitch is packed full of tricks and s~~~ tests like the one she’d pulling on you now! Drop that s~~~ like it never existed and blow her inflated ego out the f~~~ing water in million f~~~ing peaces! She’s already a cheater and a user and you can’t see it!

Don’t play her baiting game! Walk the f~~~ away like she’s already f~~~ing the other guy and raise your SMV and ego out of her manipulative reach! Kick that turd to the curb!

[Psl47Participant 678]

Hes been warned that the “stove” is hot, now lets sit and watch if hes gonna touch it 🙂

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[bagsofsandParticipant 1391]

Tazz, when I was 20 y/o I was pretty blue pill even though I never directly ‘simped’ to a woman.
Now, 20 years later I would do this if I really liked a woman:

RUN!

No, lol, but consider this:

One chance. Per chick. Per lifetime. That means, be open and upfront and suggest some kind of activity with her. I have no idea what you’re into. But, don’t wait for her to initate anything – not gonna happen. It’s not even a 60%/40% split like your coworker says.
Meeting a woman is 80%+/20% effort on the mans side, IME.
F~~~ SnapHat, ask for her number instead, or just be cool and genuinely ask her out IRL!
Asking for f~~~ing SnapCrap is NOT giving her a chance. That’s what all her simps does.

If she does.not.make.it.easy.for.you.to.actually.meeting.up.with.her she is NOT interestet, and will only use you for cheap affirmation and for feeding her female ego. Next her.

Tazz wrote:

We talk and she ask me about my day and i ask about hers and she “seems” genuinely chill….for now

You’re already White Knighting or pedestalizing this chick in your mind, dude, MOST women want to be friendly initially.
She may really like you or she may keep you as a backup dude for a rainy, boring day when she has no new likes on her Instagram (this chick may not have Instagram, but you get the point). No way to know, except for asking her out/suggesting you guys meet up. That is NOT simping, in my opinion.

Anyway, Going Your Own Way means doing what is right for YOU.

[TazzParticipant 165]

THANK you @bagsofsand!!! You broke everything down for me and explained which is exactly what i needed even if its not what i wanted to hear. I will definitely add that one chick one chance quote in my MGTOW notes. And thanks for letting me know snapchat is a no go when trying to bed a chick. I see i shouldve asked for her number in the first place now but since she’s already went on the date im just going to assume that they hit it off and leave it alone and do me. I would kind of feel like a chad if still asked for her number after knowing she just went on a date and i also dont want it that bad so ill leave it alone for now. Thanks my dude!!

Peace of mind is more important than pussy in mind

[trader1913Participant 1577]

When you need to ask the question, you know you are not in the right mindset.

F~~~ women if you want, go monk mode if you want. The moment you start looking towards someone else to decide what you want to do is the moment you have lost your freedom.

Be honest with her, tell her you find her attractive, some small talk, then get her number. If she doesn’t reciprocate then move on.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Tower is right and you may find if you walk away she comes begging.

In sales it is called a takeaway close.

In any negotiation you have to be able to say no and walk away.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Cut the bulls~~~, how was your day? She don’t give a f~~~, you don’t give a f~~~.

Just tell her you wanna get in her pants and done. If she goes with the flow great if she doesn’t, move to some other pussy, don’t waste your time.

If she works with you, DONT YOU F~~~ING DARE.

If you have contact with a women, you talk to her in a friendly tone and you are not f~~~ing her, YOU ARE SIMPING.

There is no motive for any interaction outside of work related stuff or sex, between a men and a women.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[trader1913Participant 1577]

Carnage wrote:

Cut the bulls~~~, how was your day? She don’t give a f~~~, you don’t give a f~~~.

Just tell her you wanna get in her pants and done. If she goes with the flow great if she doesn’t, move to some other pussy, don’t waste your time.

If she works with you, DONT YOU F~~~ING DARE.

If you have contact with a women, you talk to her in a friendly tone and you are not f~~~ing her, YOU ARE SIMPING.

There is no motive for any interaction outside of work related stuff or sex, between a men and a women.

Nail and Bail!

Ain’t nobody got time for playing women’s games. If you want to f~~~ then do it on your own terms. No tip-tapping around the subject.

[Anonymous 7]

bagsofsand wrote:

Tazz, when I was 20 y/o I was pretty blue pill even though I never directly ‘simped’ to a woman.
Now, 20 years later I would do this if I really liked a woman:

RUN!

^This. Run.

For the price of a mediocre date you can get setup with a Fleshlight.

Close enough to the real thing.
It will not play games.
It will not tell you no.
It will not cheat on you.
It will not call the cops.
It will not use you, you use it.
It will not complain.
It will/should not EVER be a source of drama.
It will not give you an STD.
It will not ‘accidentally’ get pregnant.
It will not ask you for favors i.e. treat you as an orbiting utility.
It will not give a sad story and hold out a hand for money.

You get the point?
F~~~ing RUN!

Run, run, run, run, run, run, run, run
Run, run, run, run, run, run, run, run…
You better make your face up in your favorite disguise,
With your button down lips and your rolled blind eyes.
With your empty smile and your hungry heart,
Feel the bile rising from your guilty past.
With your nerves in tatters as the conch shell shatters
And the hammers batter down your door.
You better run.
Run, run, run, run, run, run, run, run
Run, run, run, run, run, run, run, run.
You better run all day and run all night,
And keep your dirty feelings deep inside.
And if you’re taking your girlfriend meat hole out tonight,
You’d better park the car well out of sight.
Cause if they catch you in the back seat trying to pick her locks,
They’re gonna send you back to mother in a cardboard box.
You better run.

[MonkParticipant 17049]

Tazz wrote:

With that being said, theres a chick i know who displays NAWALT behavior even though we all really know AWALT. We talk and she ask me about my day and i ask about hers and she “seems” genuinely chill….for now.

Bait.

The fact that you say ‘for now’ indicates that you have an inkling of the truth, so stop thinking with your dick and start thinking with your brain before it’s too late.

But i heard she was interested in me through a mutual friend and she knows im interested in her.

Setup. Your ‘friend’ is nothing of the sort.

And on top of that she has a date which our mutual friend says she’s really not that into the guy because she’s into me.

She must really think that you are a mug.

Out of curiosity, what sex is your ‘mutual friend’/co-worker?

NWhat are your guys opinions on what i should do?

You are being hunted. Run.

[Anonymous 54]

Psl47 wrote:

Hes been warned that the “stove” is hot, now lets sit and watch if hes gonna touch it

Chuckle..hahah

[TazzParticipant 165]

@monk she’s female!!! The mutual friend is female and say no more my n~~~~ i know where you going with it! Already had a weird feeling about that anyway

Peace of mind is more important than pussy in mind

[ghostParticipant]

You should talk to @docfenderson given he claims to have already bed close to 700 different women.

[Red KnightParticipant 720]

The problem here lies within the word “trying”. If you have to “try” extremely hard to bed her, she ain’t interested. And if for some reason you are able to get somewhere, it’s because she is using you for something. Express your interest, and if her interest is not reciprocated, then you move on and you push no further.

Formerly MoneyOverBitches

[TrailbossParticipant 1844]

“Oneitis”…It’s a helluva drug!

An educated, armed populace cannot be enslaved.

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