Young married men (Millennials) hate being the breadwinners

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  • #289804
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    Anonymousyam
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    CNN is reporting on a study that says young married men between the ages of 18 and 32 who are married are happier when their wife is working rather then when she stays at home. My guess is that they don’t want the bitch to eat f~~~ing potato chips and watch Oprah all day and actually contribute to the expenses of the household.

    The good news is this is being reported by a major news source for once which can might be another victory for mgtow since the question what if wifey does not want to go back to work? pops up in everyman’s head before walking down the aisle and saying the vows.

    The bad news is do is the white knight nu males actually have the b~~~~ to tell a bitch to get a job? i mean only white knights and manginas actually marry in this day in age. I mean marrying 10 to 15 years ago was a bad ideal but today with third wave feminist c~~~s is probably a bigger hell then in the past. Especially since i see bitches with their dyed hair and tattoos raising children today.

    Here is the link to the article
    http://www.cnn.com/2016/08/22/health/breadwinners-millennial-men-health/
    And here is a video with a bunch of mgtows in the comment section about the article

    Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

    #289812
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    Jan Sobieski
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    f~~~ yeah, In this era of rampant unemployment. The stress of being responsible for a family will kill you. If she works and you get laid off, at least your family (responsibility) will eat.

    Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

    #289816
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    Raindog
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    I know a woman whose husband has refused to work for the last 5 years or so. She brings home the bacon while he sits around, watches the kid, and gets fat. Hey ladies, you wanted to be men, so…

    "Free your mind and your ass will follow. The kingdom of heaven is within." -Funkadelic

    #289853
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    Beer
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    As a millennial man…why the f~~~ shouldn’t we hate being the sole breadwinners. We had it beat into our head our entire lives that we were equal and relationships be 50/50. Are they surprised now men feel like they’re getting f~~~ed when princess wants to go on permanent vacation and expects them to work overtime to enable it?

    Worst thing women ever did for themselves was bitch about being stay at home moms…as soon as the youngest goes off to school its literally the easiest job you could ever imagine. C~~~s should have just been smart and said thanks for working 50-60 hour weeks, I appreciate the privilege of you being a good enough provider for me to stay home and raise our kids, now enjoy your home cooked dinner and your blowjob that will be coming for desert.

    #289857
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    Bigboy83
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    Interesting…..

    Stay home means get fat, go to the mall, girls night out on Fridays, and do No housework, and make claims the reason her hubby is successful because she does the grunt work.

    Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

    #289865
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    Zuberi Tau
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    No s~~~.
    Being the bread winner is stressful.

    #289869
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    Eyeswideopen
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    Not surprised. I am at the beginning cusp of the millennial generation.

    The problem is women of this generation are adapting. The old bait and switch. I know many, many friends who had a hot, attractive wife a few years ago, with a great paying job, only to become a landwhale stay at home mom. They promise the world to get married and have children.

    The transition is:

    full time–>part-time—>no time.
    and
    hot—>do-able—>land whale.

    So glad I escaped.

    - Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

    #289875
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    As a millennial, I won’t say I would hate to be a bread winner, I’m just saying you have to be stupid to do it. It’s a thankless job, that won’t help you in the long run. It will never be appreciated, it will never be enough, it will never stop your wife from cheating, it will not keep her from leaving you in a heartbeat for another richer man, and it won’t help you in the family courts.

    Being the breadwinner is a no win scenario. Go f~~~ing get a job and contribute to household, this isn’t the 50’s anymore, go be a strong independent woman and contribute to the bills. Hell, be a breadwinner for yourself, you’ll be much happier and have much more money.

    Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

    #289877
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    Anonymousyam
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    Interesting…..
    For me though…..

    He, who makes the money makes the rules. I rather make the rules.

    Divorce corp and the Police say otherwise when it comes to being the breadwinner. You legally can’t force your wife to do jacks~~~ especially since at the call of 911 she can throw you out and take the house from you. All she has to do is say you were being a threat to her/the kids and then you are going to jail for the night.

    So unless society changed to a point where a man could force his wife to do the dishes/cook dinner/put out then there is no use of being the main breadwinner.

    Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

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    As a millennial man…why the f~~~ shouldn’t we hate being the sole breadwinners. We had it beat into our head our entire lives that we were equal and relationships be 50/50. Are they surprised now men feel like they’re getting f~~~ed when princess wants to go on permanent vacation and expects them to work overtime to enable it?

    Worst thing women ever did for themselves was bitch about being stay at home moms…as soon as the youngest goes off to school its literally the easiest job you could ever imagine. C~~~s should have just been smart and said thanks for working 50-60 hour weeks, I appreciate the privilege of you being a good enough provider for me to stay home and raise our kids, now enjoy your home cooked dinner and your blowjob that will be coming for desert.

    LOL! My father would put in 80 hour work weeks, and my mom stayed at home. Occasionally she’d take a lame minimum wage job. I remember as a kid eventually my dad got annoyed at paying more for a babysitter and meals than my mom made at her crappy jobs. So he put his foot down.

    Then my mom would babble about how hard she worked. She’d literally just talk on the phone all day long, then a half hour before my father came home start dinner, and act like she was slaving away trying to pretend she did stuff all day. She’d go on and on about how hard she was working.

    Still makes me laugh today. Women seriously convinced themselves they had the “harder” job. There is no way I will ever spend a cent on a woman now.

    If SHE wants to have a house and get married, she can buy everything and spend on herself. I’ve spent an entire lifetime having to provide for myself, I have absolutely no desire to also take care of a leech parasite. They could have gotten away with that deal when they had convinced us from an early age how hard it was and how busy they were, but almost every man has to take care of himself for some period before marriage now.

    It used to be men lived at home until they got married, many not even leaving then. Now? Most of us are out by 18 and have to fend for ourselves, and marriage is usually not on the table until a man is established, and that’s usually late 20s earliest, more likely mid-30s. And then the offer is usually a woman of the same age. Ridiculous, I can’t believe any men take that deal.

    I certainly didn’t and never will.

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    Bigboy83
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    Interesting…..
    For me though…..

    He, who makes the money makes the rules. I rather make the rules.

    Divorce corp and the Police say otherwise when it comes to being the breadwinner. You legally can’t force your wife to do jacks~~~ especially since at the call of 911 she can throw you out and take the house from you. All she has to do is say you were being a threat to her/the kids and then you are going to jail for the night.

    So unless society changed to a point where a man could force his wife to do the dishes/cook dinner/put out then there is no use of being the main breadwinner.

    Yeah I rewrote my post, that sounded stupid in this day and age.

    But that old post had to do with me being single not married.

    Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

    #289883
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    Anonymousyam
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    Yeah I rewrote my post, that sounded stupid in this day and age.

    But that old post had to do with me being single not married.

    Oh sorry but this then from the point i read it at the point from which i quoted from. You made it sound like married men get to be the boss of the home when i see it as very different.

    Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

    #289886
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    Bigboy83
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    Yeah I rewrote my post, that sounded stupid in this day and age.

    But that old post had to do with me being single not married.

    Oh sorry but this then from the point i read it at the point from which i quoted from. You made it sound like married men get to be the boss of the home when i see it as very different.

    No worries, my friend. I knew my old post will draw some different opinion that I wasn’t looking for. Which is why, I withdrew it and changed it.
    Good post though, the trends are starting to favor mgtow.

    Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

    #289899
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    and it won’t help you in the family courts.

    It actually f~~~s you in family courts. The bigger the difference between your income and hers the harder the f~~~ing. Also, if she “gave up” a decent job to “be a home maker,” even if it was against your wishes, you’ll get f~~~ed here as well since you somehow hurt her future earning potential.

    She’d literally just talk on the phone all day long, then a half hour before my father came home start dinner, and act like she was slaving away trying to pretend she did stuff all day.

    Yeah I’ve seen this more times than I’d care to admit lol.

    They could have gotten away with that deal when they had convinced us from an early age how hard it was and how busy they were, but almost every man has to take care of himself for some period before marriage now.

    Yup…just another way they shot themselves in the foot. The first time I did laundry it was just like wtf…this is what my mom bitches about being so hard? 2 minutes worth of effort and 90 minutes worth of watching tv lol. Same for cooking…the more I expand my cooking skills the easier it is. I might spend 20 minutes putting something together and then it lasts me for 4 days…so 5 minutes a meal…so hard lol.

    While they were busy riding the carousel, we were busy learning just how useless a stay at home wife is these days. It was probably actually work 100 years ago minus all of todays technology and with 8 kids instead of 1-2, but today…its a joke.

    #289905
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    Anonymousyam
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    It actually f~~~s you in family courts. The bigger the difference between your income and hers the harder the f~~~ing. Also, if she “gave up” a decent job to “be a home maker,” even if it was against your wishes, you’ll get f~~~ed here as well since you somehow hurt her future earning potential.

    If she gives up your job and then seeks a divorce when she has been out of the work force for a few years/decades then you are even f~~~ed more then if she works a minimum wage job. The judge will see it as she gave up her career then use that as an excuse for more alimony.

    Yup…just another way they shot themselves in the foot. The first time I did laundry it was just like wtf…this is what my mom bitches about being so hard? 2 minutes worth of effort and 90 minutes worth of watching tv lol. Same for cooking…the more I expand my cooking skills the easier it is. I might spend 20 minutes putting something together and then it lasts me for 4 days…so 5 minutes a meal…so hard lol.

    It really is one of the most easy jobs to do the only hard part i see is making an infant shutup without accidently (during the police procedure you must make it look like the infant slipped) tossing it out the window.

    As for cooking that is a simple job to do as well but even you if you did not know how (or cared to know how) to cook then it is still cheaper eating out when you don’t have the expenses of wife/mortgage/kids on your back. Just order the cheapest stuff and you could feed yourself on less then 10 dollars a day but if you learn how to cook you could feed yourself on less then 5 dollars a day (which i am planning on doing once i move out),

    Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

    #290015
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    Dirtydog73
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    I have been the bread winner for my family for the past 20 odd years.The past 4 years I have being working away on a mine site on a 2 week on / 1 week off roster.
    I asked my now ex. to get a job ,to help out so i could stop the fi/fo and get a job near home.I was earning real good money,paying all the bills,and I do mean all.She had a couple of jobs here and there,both ended after a couple of months because she was crap at them.So house payments,2 cars, all the utilities,giving her money for shopping ,you name it,I paid it.
    Working 12 -13 hour days -14 days straight . Alcohol was her thing. wanted to be drunk all the time.And of course who was paying for it….each time she did some shopping ,there was the extra 50 -100 dollars out in cash so she could have her drinks and cigarettes.i told her no more,get a job and pay for your own s~~~.
    As you all guessed ,it didn’t work out well,she ended up f~~~ing a bloke she met at the pub ,and was cheating on me with him for quite a few months till I wised up and saw what was going on.
    So being a breadwinner for 20 years..you young guys out there….do it for yourself. Dont get stuck into paying for some other lazy bitches s~~~.It will f~~~ you over.Its put me back 10-15 years now.

    Fed, Fucked, Appreciated. The three simple things men want, but women will never grasp.

    #290016
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    ResidentEvil7
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    The reason is because Millennials are the lazy, entitlement, take-no-responsibility generation. They worry more about what’s going on the phone and Facebook than establishing a responsible working life. This is the game generation that won’t eat a bowl of cereal, because they say it’s too much work. Face it, they care more about tech more than the economy and the job market.

    My dad didn’t stay with my grandparents when he was in his 30s; he started his first job at age 10 as a golf caddy, and was out at age 24. No, this generation doesn’t want to work and get out of their parent’s way. Can only imagine where this generation will be when their parents die and they have nothing to show for and no money saved up.

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    #290019
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    Oz-Bloke
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    When we leave home as young men, sure there’s some adaption to being independent and doing all our own cooking and cleaning. As bachelors we all cooked for ourselves, did some chores through the week and maybe an hour or two on the weekend, mowing the yard every second weekend. Cooking and chores are nowhere near 40 hours of ‘work’ a week though and I think many of us quickly worked out the s~~~ty deal our our breadwinner fathers had compared to our stay-at-home mothers. Hence the rise of MGTOW as all these sons say ‘f~~~ that’ and turn their back on the whole s~~~ty deal.

    #ManOut

    #290025
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    Constantine
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    phoenix wrote:
    She’d literally just talk on the phone all day long, then a half hour before my father came home start dinner, and act like she was slaving away trying to pretend she did stuff all day.
    Yeah I’ve seen this more times than I’d care to admit lol.

    I know, it’s ridiculous. I am tired of stay-at-home women making it out like they have the harder job, when half the time, doing household chores is hardly backbreaking. It takes me two minutes to make my bed, if that. From the way that women talk about it, anybody would think that it takes two hours.

    Especially if you don’t have a family. Running around after kids all day is one thing, but if the two of you don’t have children yet, then there’s really no excuse. The stress level is completely different and you shouldn’t get to bitch to your husband about it when he comes home, especially if he’s the one putting a roof over your head. Cleaning the shower may be a bitch of a job, but it’s not like it’s something that needs to be done EVERY DAY. It only requires a scrub once in a while, and seems like a fair trade considering that somebody else is paying for your rent!

    I once overheard this woman complaining about her man. She didn’t specify what exactly her husband’s job was, but her gripes were infuriating. She said, “I have to do the cooking and the laundry. Normally I don’t mind, but he literally comes home, plonks down and waits for his dinner. I can never get him to do the housework for once.” I remember thinking, “I see. So despite making no contributions to the household financially, you should get to put your feet up in all aspects?”

    Yet women continue to be praised in the media about how amazing they are “because they can handle things that men can’t”.

    To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

    #290026
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    Varun
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    The reason is because Millennials are the lazy, entitlement, take-no-responsibility generation. They worry more about what’s going on the phone and Facebook than establishing a responsible working life. This is the game generation that won’t eat a bowl of cereal, because they say it’s too much work. Face it, they care more about tech more than the economy and the job market.

    Kind of unnerving but sadly true. Its odd. I know I have a few of those traits…though I don’t belong to the millenials…I’m gen z.

    I think our generation will be the most f~~~ed up generation, especially those who’d get millenial parents. It’d be a nice fit to call us the Lost Generation. Because amidst so much economic and social turmoil, we’ll surely be lost.

    Thank got I found the MGTOW lifeline at the right time.

    A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

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