“You’d better have all the fun you can in your youth”

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  • #166452
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    Jackinov
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    So, as usual, I’ve never heard a man say this bulls~~~. Not a REAL MAN who does what the f~~~ he wants. Mostly only women, and f~~~in manginas.

    The main statement is this “You better have all the fun you can in your youth, because when you get older it stops”. These are the same two faced bitches that lie about their age. A f~~~in 60 year old woman still claimed she’s “30”. And she wants to pull the “immature” card. Mhmm. Sure.

    There are many variations (which I’d like to hear yours), but that’s the main sentence. What’s funny is this fun doesn’t “just stop”. They do their DAMN best to make sure it does, by installing and using shaming language from birth. From calling your video-games and hobbies childish, to telling you to grow up to make the maximum amount of money for a women or else you’re selfish, it never stops. You’ll have hobbies GROWN men put plenty of talent, effort, and money into, such as motor vehicles, etc, all vehemently labeled by society as “toys” and “playthings” at every opportunity they have.

    And speaking of the money issue- back in the days I used to speak to dumb s~~~s about my life plans, anytime I’d say that my career path would make a lot of money, they ask “what are you going to do with all that money? It’s selfish to use it on just yourself”.

    But anytime you mention a wife and making lots of money, they say something to the effect of “She’ll be really happy” and “You’ll make a good husband”. I just started responding, “Wait a second. If it’s selfish to spend MY money, which I WORKED for on MYSELF, then it’s INFINITELY more so for her to expect money SHE didn’t work for! That’s what you call a LEECH. I don’t OWE womenkind marriage OR my money just because I exist.”. Haven’t received a direct answer for that, other than “a man must learn to give in a relationship” type s~~~.

    No f~~~ing thank-you. If it doesn’t benefit me, or someone who the money is donated to who will use it for GOOD (I.E. a guy trying to get back on his feet, etc), then f~~~ that! Women and manginas are the only ones missing out and screwing their lives up! Had a 50 yr old married spineless blue pill guy tell me just the other day that “he hasn’t reached a time of relaxation in his life yet”. And he won’t until the day he dies- he’s the only one working to support a household of 5 children and 1 woman, along with a house and car they are paying off. Poor bastard! Oh- and he married a “perfect christian girl too”! She changed real quick into a 300lb+ abusive violent nagging BITCH. F~~~. THAT.

    are you a chia pet in man drag

    #166466
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    RoyDal
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    It’s all a trick to based on the unspoken assumption that you will be getting married and settle down with the nice girl next door — begin a lifetime of legalized slavery, fun’s over me boyo.

    Esther Vilar says it for me in The Manipulated Man:

    Men have been trained and conditioned by women, not unlike the way Pavlov conditioned his dogs, into becoming their slaves. As compensation for their labours men are given periodic use of a woman’s vagina.

    Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

    #166484
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    Uchibenkei
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    For what it’s worth. I’m having more fun now at 41 than I ever have before. In my youth, I had no money for fun. Lots of freedom, no cash. When I was married, it felt like I had no cash and sometimes no freedom. Now that I’m divorced, freedom and cash. Let the good times roll.

    I bathe in the tears of single moms.

    #166491
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    Jackinov
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    For what it’s worth. I’m having more fun now at 41 than I ever have before. In my youth, I had no money for fun. Lots of freedom, no cash. When I was married, it felt like I had no cash and sometimes no freedom. Now that I’m divorced, freedom and cash. Let the good times roll.

    Oh its worth quite a lot! More proof of what we already know- that they are lying c~~~s trying to make a self-fulfilling profeccy.

    are you a chia pet in man drag

    #166551
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    Wally
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    I have heard this shaming language before, many times, but I am living the life I want to live. Some may call that selfish, but I put my time and energy into the things I think are important. If women think that is selfish, fine, but I think to do otherwise is foolish.

    "what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

    #166621
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    Beer
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    But anytime you mention a wife and making lots of money, they say something to the effect of “She’ll be really happy” and “You’ll make a good husband”. I just started responding, “Wait a second. If it’s selfish to spend MY money, which I WORKED for on MYSELF, then it’s INFINITELY more so for her to expect money SHE didn’t work for! That’s what you call a LEECH. I don’t OWE womenkind marriage OR my money just because I exist.”. Haven’t received a direct answer for that, other than “a man must learn to give in a relationship” type s~~~.

    I was amazed the first time I had a woman ask me “When are you going to get married? You can afford it.” What the f~~~? I got to hear my whole life how they are equal and want 50/50 relationships but they all seem to think all men have the responsibility to select a woman and give her unrestricted access to his resources. No thanks, I’ll pass.

    #166625
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    Puffin Stuff
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    The worst part of losing your youth to marriage is that you no longer have any control on the trajectory of your life. Once a woman owns you (marries you), you can’t even take a p~~~ without her acquiescence.

    Forget about your dreams and ambitions. She will keep a close watch on your every move and make sure that move is to press ahead with her agenda. An agenda she has every intention of keeping from you.

    That’s why men are “blind sided” when his loving wife who he would die for demands a divorce.

    #icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

    #166786
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    Well, I say to have fun in your youth but not for these reasons. When you hit 50, you can’t stay up 3 days in a row and then go to work and do it all again. I’m having fun in my youth, but that doesn’t mean old age will be any less fun. It will just be a different kind of fun.

    Then again, people always say that with the assumption that you’ll get married and they are implicitly telling you that the fun ends once you marry. So, they’re giving you a reason not to get married.

    Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

    #166842
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    XSDBS
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    “When are you going to get married? You can afford it.”

    Afford what? Getting Married? Or getting Divorced?

    #166885
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    AFT
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    “When are you going to get married? You can afford it.”

    Afford what? Getting Married? Or getting Divorced?

    Both, you can “afford” to keep a Wife comfortable until she decides to fleece you and move on to the next victim.

    If you want to fast track just find someone you hate and buy them a house.

    When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

    #167045
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    Anonymous
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    “You better have all the fun you can in your youth, because when you get older it stops”

    Women are depreciating assets and they know this, probably why they live to this rhetoric as it’s their creed and try to spread it to other manginas to bring them down with them.

    #167109
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    Anonymous
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    Brothers look after yourself ! Get into healthy habits,( diet,gym …etc ) get a hobby if you don’t have one,do everything to make you feel healthy and youthful! Age is nothing else just a state of the mind! I am 56y young and having an awesome time! Playing computer games,doing my martial art,love cooking,going fishing sometimes,and occasionally f~~~ a sexy younger woman,just for fun. And staying single!!!! Look after yourself man,because you worth it! All of you are awesome!!

    #167203
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    Ogre
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    I know that the women weren’t trying to give you a warning because that would be treason against the hive, but if you really think about it that’s what that comment always means.

    From an older man- I had fun until I got married and for a while it was, but then it just became too hard to get a kitchen pass.

    From an older woman- My husband had fun until he married me, and then I took that away. We’ve been together long enough that he’ll only ever have free fun if he wants out.

    From a younger married man- It’s so recent that I can pinpoint the day that I lost my ability to have fun.

    From younger married woman- If he wants sex, I’ll determine where and when he gets to have fun. Hmm, he’s cute I think I’ll go have fun with him, and the hubby finds out I’ll just take half.

    The incorrect assumption that they all make is that eventually you’ll hand over your b~~~~. The only reason they advocate having fun in your youth is because if you do that the fun is indeed over.

    Have fun everyday for the rest of life. It just takes a little peeling of the onion to reach what they’re actually saying.

    I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

    #167212
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    DungeonMaster
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    “When are you going to get married? You can afford it.”

    Afford what? Getting Married? Or getting Divorced?

    Why does getting divorced cost so much?

    …cause it’s worth it.

    #167814
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    LowKey
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    Donate your extras on charities such as Watsi. You’ll feel good about it and your helping humanity.

    Don't let defeat, defeat you; Let defeat be your greatest teacher.

    #167896
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    SeedyJ
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    Well… I’m in my 40s now and having plenty of fun.

    Time to study, have a few jars at the weekend, write, read, gaming etc.

    For me, life began refreshed anew at 40 with the accumulation of experience that allowed me to feel content with turning my back on traditional expectations once and for all, sure that I had done what was right for ME, not for some shrieking harpy.

    For a woman, however, if she doesn’t get it all done by 40 she’s doomed to be nothing but a shrivelled old termagant, surrounded by her covey of harridans while they bitch about how men are the root of all evil.

    Plenty of time these days to sit back, reach for the cigars, and laugh while the ‘Bitch Culture’ crashes down in flames as their ovaries wither and they resort to cats.

    #168432
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    Grumpy
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    “You better have all the fun you can in your youth, because when you get older it stops”

    The fun only stops when I let it stop. I do my best to enjoy as much as I can in my life. Every little thing I do for myself , i do so with a “fun” attitude. Don’t get me wrong, its not all tatter t~~~ and beer with party hats. Sometimes s~~~ does get the best of me for a little while, then I bounce my ass right back to my own personal happy land as soon as I can. Mostly because it p~~~es people off to no end 🙂
    I just try to have “fun” with everything, even if it p~~~es me off.
    I have learned that I can only control myself, not everything around me, somethings I have to put up with, most things I can either put right back to where it belongs or deflect it to someone deserving of the s~~~.

    I would like to say the fun stops when you die or get married. I know the married part is true for me, but I’m not sure about the dying part…

    There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

    #168495
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    Ascended
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    You better have all the fun you can in your youth

    But with good reason. When you get old, you really don’t get to feel the same way.
    This is something to consider. And it’s serious.
    I fail to see what’s wrong with this sentence.

    "We are free to follow our own path. There are those who will take that freedom from us, and too many of you gladly give it. But it is our ability to choose – whatever you think is true – that makes us human. There is no book or teacher to give you the answers, to show you the path. Choose your own way! Do not follow me, or anyone else."

    #168623
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    Jackinov
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    You better have all the fun you can in your youth

    But with good reason. When you get old, you really don’t get to feel the same way.
    This is something to consider. And it’s serious.
    I fail to see what’s wrong with this sentence.

    Oh no, I definitely know the statement itself is true. I know you feel differently as you get old. You have to watch your health slightly more, etc. But the level of enjoyment you have in your life doesn’t go down.

    A woman doesn’t mean the same thing when she says that statement. She’s under the assumption that you’re going to get married, and take on all the unnecessary bulls~~~ they’ve give you.

    They’ll have you get a FULL-TIME job, with OVER-TIME, and have the NERVE to bitch at you when you come home- a house you’re paying for- about “chores” you didn’t do, groceries you didn’t buy, etc, along with complaining you don’t spend time with her, and other associated bulls~~~.

    You know the poor bastard I first described? The one that is working his goddamn ass off? Well, in one instance, he and his son did the shopping after he got off work, and then brought drinks and pizzas, and chicken (just in case some of them didn’t want pizza). They do this so the bitch doesn’t have to cook dinner for the other 5 kids, right? Well when they get home, oh boy. They come in the door and she’s f~~~in throwin s~~~ at them, assaulting them, being a typical woman, lecturing BOTH of them for 2+ hours on “how to be more polite and sensitive”. The reason she said? “Because the top of the pizza box was touching the pizza, and now it’ll taste like cardboard.” Nevermind the whole damn pizza is IN a cardboard pizza box, its just the top that’s the issue. And the spineless f~~~ TOOK it, STILL trying to appease this c~~~. I’d have put the bitch out the millisecond she touched me or my kids.

    That’s what women mean. They mean that you are going to give up a perfectly good, peaceful lifestyle to put up with that bulls~~~. Which is why I’ve only heard women say this.

    are you a chia pet in man drag

    #170510
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    Total Lee
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    Afford what? Getting Married? Or getting Divorced?

    Nice thread and comments.

    But with good reason. When you get old, you really don’t get to feel the same way.
    This is something to consider. And it’s serious.
    I fail to see what’s wrong with this sentence.

    I am turning 44 this year and I’m having more fun than ever. Stiffness set in and my back and knees feel tighter but apart from that, I’m having more fun than ever. By fun, I don’t mean what 20-somethings call “fun” like drinking until I puke or getting high staying out until the sun comes up. Fun is taking off when I want and not having my day ruined by a nagging broad. My twenties were not fun, but fourties are a blast.

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