You were not special.

[Anonymous 12]

the road wrote:

When women start trying to inflate my head with compliments I become suspect. I don’t respond to them the way they expect either which throws them off. I typically become cold and distant. I know what they are trying to do. I know that I’m just a normal typical man. I’m not super man, I’m not a genius, I’m not particularly amazing. I’m your average dude with a good heart and I’m proud of that.

So when women start telling me, oh you’re so amazing! Or some other bulls~~~, I play it down or refuse to respond. I know that they are trying to manipulate me.

I still bone chicks and they almost always want to start manipulating their way into a relationship. They can tell that I am cold and aloof when I don’t reply to their early relationship tests. Then they start in with the “you’re amazing” bulls~~~ and get the same non response. Then soon after it’s all over because I have nothing to give them anymore if I’m not giving myself over to them as a utility at their disposal.

Compliments in general make me suspicious of people. At work I hate people sucking up to me in particular. I take it offensively as it means they lack respect for me and think they can curry favour by stroking my ego.

I take more notice of actions rather than words. If you think I am something special than show me that, show that you really know me and impress me that way.

Talk is cheap.

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