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    Anonymous
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    The most poisonous truth that a man can wake up to, either while married or while single and dating. You’re just not good enough for a woman, any woman. Think about that for a moment. Just to get a so called first date you have to meet a whole bunch of criteria. Them? Oh, yeah about that. You better not have high standards. What are you a misogynist? Are you some kind of old fashioned patriarchal pervert?

    So back to the subject at hand. You have to be so tall, have such-and-such of an income, look a certain way, have a certain status. Have I made it clear yet? There are tons of criteria and hoops that you have to jump through just to get a chance. A chance at what? Seeing her again, and maybe, just maybe, you’ll get to sleep with her. That’s if she’s in the mood. And you don’t act like a creep, but you need to make the first move. Oh, and don’t forget, you’ve got to pay for her crap, even though she is equal to you in every single way and can do every single thing that you can do. Is all of this making sense yet? Who knows and who cares? She sure as hell doesn’t that’s for sure. Just pony up!

    Oh, you may have noticed that she bangs a thug with crappy tattoos every once in awhile. Yeah he doesn’t have to pay for squat nor does he have to do all of the bull that you have to do. In fact he’s probably screwing her in your bed while you’re off at work earning money to put that roof over her head. You know, the roof that you were so happy to get because you thought that you scored a good chick because, well, she made you wait and jump through hoops, remember? That was all her programming, and yours too by the way. She was seeing how much she could get away with and how good of a provider that you’d be. She really doesn’t give a rip about you as a person. All she has to do is bat her eye lashes and let you tough her vagina every so often for you to be happy… and blind. Don’t be too hard on yourself though. Practically everything that you’ve heard since you came home from the factory has set you up for this. But now it’s starting to crack. That wall of lies is letting some light through. The light of truth, the light of freedom.

    As for that tattooed buffoon that she sneaks in while you’re gone, she doesn’t even know why she likes him. He doesn’t know either. But she knows that she respects him and not you that’s for sure. Maybe he’ll knock her up as well. But you’ll never know, well unless the kid’s black and you clearly aren’t. Either way her antics will keep you singing the tune that she wants for you to until she’s done with your clown like rear end. Yep, you didn’t think that was a possibility did you? Just lose your job, get ED, or just become too boring. Notice I said too boring. She already thinks that you’re boring. That’s why you feel the need to keep taking her to basketball games and expensive garbage like that. Because you’re suspicious of something, deep down you suspect…no, you know…that she’s restless.

    The truth is a better option. You can’t afford her no matter how much money you have. You can’t keep her, just ask that tattooed man I mentioned earlier. Or tattooed men for that matter. She’s been sneaking around. Don’t think so? Go play the lotto, the same chances say that you’ll lose there than be right in her being loyal to you. Open your eyes completely. You’re not good enough for her. Not because you aren’t actually good enough for her, but because she’ll never be satisfied with you or anyone or anything. No amount of material or emotional capital with satiate her appetite. Are the cracks getting wide enough now? Don’t turn away now. Truth is eternal. Pain, no matter how great, is temporary.

    #696087
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    Freedom
    freedom
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    I once told someone that I would never marry someone who doesn’t have a college degree and in response, she said that I’m quick to judge a person.

    that was in my blue pill days, when I still had hoped to find a unicorn, but think abut it… we are not allowed to have any standards, we should simply accept them no matter what, while we are required to be on the top 15% when it comes to financing, looks, being a family-guy, being decent, being a listener, never drink, don’t have too many friends and f~~~ the list just goes on – I’m guessing there is only 5% of rich f~~~s who pass all these demands.

    now the worse thing is that no one can really live up to that list forever, so even if you are eligible to date the princess, in few years you will not.

    #696092
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    Gargamel
    Gargamel
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    29101

    Travis,

    Great post, well written and funny to read.

    The main reasons for a man to go MGTOW – in a nutshell.

    And “Mr. Neck Tattoo” will laugh about what we write until he ends up in divorce court himself.

    Now that the c~~~s are through with all good men, theses desperate hags will also f~~~ over the Chads.

    This is what I have seen.

    In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

    #696094
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    Anonymous
    42

    Female nature, like any worthwhile magician, it’s all about attention and focus. Placing all the “focus” on “you” detracts from all her iniquities giving her unjust superiority in any given relations~~~.

    Once you learn this the trick it’s over. You begin to notice a pattern of willing ignorance on their behalf, when you shift focus to their iniquities arrogant and ignorance immediately ensues, anything to pull the wool over your eyes and maintain the psychological upper hand.

    I can’t talk to her, she won’t listen, she only gets angry and combative! Always shifting the blame on me somehow.

    Dude, dump that bitch! She’s f~~~ing with your head! Look at you, you’re running around like a trained seal doing every trick in the book to satisfy her and nothing’s gonna work! What the f~~~ do you see in her? Wake up! Snap out of it! I don’t let any woman play me like that! You got to learn to spot their s~~~ and walk the f~~~ away brother! Walk the f~~~ away!

    #696098
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    Gargamel
    Gargamel
    Spectator
    29101

    BTW,

    you clearly describe all women I ever met.

    Each came in different unicorn disguises but turned out to be the same shallow materialistic nags and witches.

    while we are required to be on the top 15% when it comes to financing, looks, being a family-guy, being decent, being a listener, never drink, don’t have too many friends and f~~~ the list just goes on – I’m guessing there is only 5% of rich f~~~s who pass all these demands.

    And during that “professional” time span, I clearly belonged to these “upper 10 per cent of men”, if not the upper 5… And even in the upper 2 per cent in dick size…

    They still found a reason to complain about anything and everything.

    Like the vile c~~~s in my childhood.

    And so I dropped any further efforts for good.

    Women are everything we MGTOW write about them.

    I am writing this over and over to comfort any lurking men who still carry a “minority complex” about not belonging to the upper class of super rich men.

    Rich men are also unhappy in marriages. I know, they were my customers.

    Being too poor for a useless parasitic c~~~ is a blessing in disguise.

    I rather have the life of an unskilled worker living alone in a 1 room apartment than those “mentally crippled and enslaved by debt” husbands of demanding c~~~s living in the mansions I had to fix their TV s~~~ in.

    MGTOW is happiness for men at any level.

    In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

    #696104

    Anonymous
    6

    BTW,
    you clearly describe all women I ever met.

    Amazing isn’t it? I’m a Texan. And you’re a German of some stripe. You’re life experience is COMPLETLY foreign to me, language and all. I look up and see Old Glory and the Lone Star, you saw one flag become reunited with another!

    I rather have the life of an unskilled worker living alone in a 1 room apartment

    That’s easy for you to say, far harder for me to live.

    #696119
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    Anonymousyam
    anonymousyam
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    4605

    The most poisonous truth that a man can wake up to, either while married or while single and dating. You’re just not good enough for a woman, any woman. Think about that for a moment. Just to get a so called first date you have to meet a whole bunch of criteria.

    One of the major problems is the men who buy into the women’s standard bulls~~~ and try to fill them. The whole woman standard s~~~ is by definition a s~~~ test.

    Trying to conform to a woman’s standards or caring about them is failing it as women will f~~~ those who admit they do not give a f~~~ about their standards and they do not give a f~~~ about them either (the natural thing for assholes like myself) is to admit even that we do not care if they live or die or what happens to them and find anything bad amusing.

    The thing with the first date as you OP said is that applies to dates not f~~~s. If she wants to go out with you and use you then she will but if she wants to f~~~ then she does not care about her standards.

    You better not have high standards. What are you a misogynist? Are you some kind of old fashioned patriarchal pervert?

    To pass this s~~~ test you must say you are their worst nightmare.

    Oh, you may have noticed that she bangs a thug with crappy tattoos every once in awhile

    This is a camp i am referring to, assholes, bad boys, scumf~~~s etc to which i fall in with but more importantly alot of others fall in with (giving me more evidence for my argument then simply ancedotes).

    Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

    #696124
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    Xanthine
    xanthine
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    4903

    You are absolutely right Travis, agree 110% with everything you said. I actually just realized this myself not too long ago and it was a major epiphany; no matter what i did, i was never good enough.

    My face, although decent or so I’m told; not good enough. My height, even though it is exactly average? Not good enough. My intelligence, which is easily several standard deviations ahead of the curve? Who cares, not good enough. Six figure income, doctorate degree; big whoop, not good enough. Six pack abs, sixteen inch biceps? Whatever, still not good enough. Musical talent, ability to play guitar, sing and write love songs, other miscellaneous talents? Yawn. Not good enough. I could go on but you get the picture.

    My ONLY flaw is that i was born with only average height and looks. But because of that, nothing about me, nothing i can ever possibly do can ever make me good enough. Even though i am beyond exceptional in every other category, i cannot possibly be good enough. But there is a flip side to that.

    Since they are impossible to please, it is quite simply impossible for them to find a man who is good enough for them. So they will never have that. They will continue to ignore all the good men around them and f~~~ deadbeats and losers until they hit the wall and the deadbeats dont want them anymore. Then they will want a good man…but they will never find one. All those good men that they rejected? They quietly walked away from them years ago, completely unnoticed, never to return.

    The thing is, men can get by just fine on their own. In fact I’d argue they’re even better off. It sucks early on, sure. But as we get older we care less about sex. We care less about finding a companion and soul mate, especially after we realize those women simply do not exist. We grow wealthy, wise, and enlightened. We fill our lives with our hobbies and interests. We are not empty like they are.

    If i hadn’t been rejected, i might have ended up married, or worse yet had a kid. But instead, i learned the truth. Their rejection was the greatest gift they could have ever given me. Now i know. And because of that, i will never end up a slave to support them. I will support only myself. I am strong, i can do a lot; more than any woman could ever do for me. They are weak, and without a man’s help, they will crash and burn.

    They’ve all committed suicide. They just don’t realize it yet. By the time they do, we will all be far, far away…just watching, enjoying their self-destruction. In spite of all the forces working against us, it is a good day to be a man. Because we are free, and we are still proud. And we will never bow to the likes of them.

    #696135
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    Anonymous
    38

    You Were Never Good Enough

    That’s correct in a sense, because due to hypergamy, women always want better.

    However.

    There mere statement “I was never good enough”, is embarrassing to me. It’s only true if you’re accepting her as the arbiter of what is good enough. Objectively, I was good ‘enough’ for a number of women. Yes they s~~~ tested me and yes there were objectively better men out there. But they stayed because I was good enough. I left them because things weren’t working.

    As men we seek to attain/build and maintain. Therefore we seek a woman who’ll stick by us. In this sense we seek permanence.

    But women do not operate in the same way. They are more emotionally driven and thus their highly changeable state means they live in the present. They are more fickle. As Stardusk said, when she tells you she loves you more than anyone else in the world, she means it – at that moment.

    You will be good enough if you keep supplying what she needs. Now you can say “that’s wrong” or “f~~~ that”, but each man makes his choice whether he wants to bother doing that, or not. If he is going his own way he should not be shamed for doing it. There is a lot of subtle shaming from other men on this site, I greatly appreciate the wisdom and experience passed down but at the end of the day, each man is responsible for himself and his own choices, and faces the consequences like a man.

    So I will not ascribe to “you were never good enough”. I don’t want part of that pity party. That statement gives too much power to stupid f~~~ing women. F~~~ THAT.

    I seek the personal power and control to associate with a woman without causing myself stress and leaving myself open to ruin.

    #696137
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    Ghost
    ghost
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    I am good enough for myself. I could care less what anyone else thinks. That is my mindset.

    #696143
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    Anonymous
    13

    THEY Were Never Good Enough.

    #696145
    +2
    JVB
    JVB
    Participant

    I wasn’t good enough for you then………………you’re not good enough for me now.

    Peace is > piece.

    #696153

    Anonymous
    18

    Words – thats all women have.

    Once a man walks away – nothing is good enough for him. Except himself.

    Women can never have that value in themselves. They need external sources to make me feel relevant.

    That really sucks. For vaginas.

    #696156
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    Untamed
    Untamed
    Participant

    You’re just not good enough for a woman,

    I’m not? Humm gee, I guess I can go to hell or f~~~ myself then.
    No wait, I think I got a better idea.
    How about I go my own way?

    Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
    Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
    #GenderSegragationNow!

    #696409
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    BrainPilot
    BrainPilot
    Participant
    7640

    If I had a dollar for every woman who thought I was not good looking enough, I’d BE good looking enough for every one of them… 😜

    Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

    #696410
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    Sjt1975
    sjt1975
    Participant
    2536

    Replicant Fish – She’s Too Good For You:

    I’ve been getting in to his MGTOW Videos for several months now.

    #696425
    +4

    Anonymous
    3

    If I had a dollar for every woman who thought I was not good looking enough, I’d BE good looking enough for every one of them… 😜

    It’s bulls~~~ anyway.

    I was f~~~ing three very attractive models once. I met up with them, yes I’d f~~~ them all at once and they were happy with that. Parted ways with them at the building with the fashion magazines that they worked at, walked a block down to get something to eat, and 4 average to overweight women just randomly picked me out and started mocking me for being ugly.

    I would have been sad if I didn’t literally part ways with objective 9/10s that were obviously getting paid for their looks, who had fawned all over me and outright begged to suck my dick. And then we have these average, maybe above average at best women, 5-7s, just randomly mocking me.

    That is women. Their opinions mean nothing. They can’t even keep it straight between themselves. I’ve been insulted by a woman I was f~~~ing once as being a virgin. It didn’t seem to even register for her that obviously f~~~ing her brains out meant I couldn’t be a virgin, she just threw out insults. Most likely just wanted to be f~~~ed harder, that’s just how women are, they are depraved creatures. I have countless stories like this from my active years.

    So when I see pussy beggar PUAs brag about the 5-6 30+ year old promiscuous overweight women they have to run game on and spend so much time and effort obsessing over I just roll my eyes and laugh. It’s just so stupid. Pussy beggars and women are both delusional c~~~s that run their mouths endlessly and live to just annoy you with their words. If the facade goes then what you’re left with is a tiny, sniveling, ugly, smelly creature that nobody can respect.

    #696514
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    Anonymous
    12

    Money makes you good enough.

    Money will allow an overweight middle aged or senior aged male have a hot 18 year old. Whether it be as a sugar baby or a prostitute in a brothel.

    All of her normal standards will go out the window the second you mention money.

    Says it all really. What you think you aren’t good enough for is really not good enough for you.

    #696560
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    Narwhal
    narwhal
    Participant

    It’s a matter of relativity. Of course you’re good enough for a date…if she doesn’t have better options. And you’ll find that it can happen quite a bit, even for the better of us.

    Marriage, is a completely different matter, as you are never good enough since there is always a better option for them….divorce. Just ask some of the sexist men alive.

    My ex told me, about a year after we were married, that she thought I would change after we were married. She never even realized how insulting she was, essentially telling me she loved what she thought I could become instead of who I was. Divorce was the better option for her.

    But it’s all irrelevant, because it’s the wrong question. The question is, is she good enough for you? More specifically, is spending time and effort on her a better option than spending time and effort on yourself? The answer is always no.

    That to me is a huge revelation. Try telling that to a woman just once. “You don’t have to be better than the next girl, just better than no girl at all”. It will devastate her. She knows she can’t compete with that. She’s not afraid of competing with other women, she’s afraid you’ll realize you don’t need a woman at all.

    Ok. Then do it.

    #696569
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    Badger
    Badger
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    2277

    My ex told me, about a year after we were married, that she thought I would change after we were married. She never even realized how insulting she was, essentially telling me she loved what she thought I could become instead of who I was.

    That seems to be another trait and double standard that women have that somehow they are allowed and expected to change the husband, but they are exempt from the husband changing the wife.

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