You Think Your'e Different

[HitmanParticipant]

Greetings men.
we here have taken the red pills,
we see the truth behind the lies
and are better for having done so.
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Every man here has probably gone through the rage,
the pain and suffering upon waking up,
and discovering you’ve been LIED to since you were a child.
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So,
YOU are NOT different from the rest of us.
we ALL have rough days.
financial uncertainty
sleep loss
worries about children
legal tangles
ALL LEGITIMATE CONCERNS.
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How much power do you give these things?
how much anxiety do you endure?
how much pain can you handle?
STOP
YOU ARE NOT DIFFERENT
WE ARE WITH YOU
YOU ARE NOT ALONE
THIS IS CALLED BROTHERHOOD
IT WILL ENDURE
and so will you.
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if ya need it then watch it..
and if ya don’t then watch it anyway……

i will caution you ,
please do NOT feel “special”
this leads to isolation.
and in a world that has turned against the SAME men who BUILT it,
you need to KNOW,
YOU ARE NOT CRAZY.
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thoughts and comments appreciated as always.
tear the b~~~~ off my theory ,
NFG.
have at it !!!

[Anonymous 12]

I have been bullied and f~~~ed with for most of my life. What this has given me is an endurance that many do not have. I am the tortoise in the race against the hare. Scratch that, I am not in the race. Not anymore.

I have always noticed how quickly some people will go to pieces over trivial bulls~~~. How they will get upset because the boss or co workers don’t love or appreciate them in the way they feel they should be treated.

I expect nothing but bulls~~~ from my fellow human being. I will avoid contact with them as much as possible. Their help seldom is help.

Am I different, strong, smart? I don’t know nor do I care. I am just me.

[Anonymous 2]

Nothing wrong with your theory at all. Men need to know that they are not alone in their suffering. They also need to know that it is not wrong for them to be angry about a society that constantly shames them, and still expects them to constantly sacrifice. Men are told that they are “childish” for not talking about their feelings, and yet, when they bring up the way they are s~~~ on, they are told “You just need to shut up and take it!”.

Red pill rage is a stage we all go through. But, keep in mind, gentlemen, you can’t let it overtake you. Don’t allow these assholes to live in your head rent free.

Men can come here and let it all out and not be judged. We’ve all been there.

[WallyParticipant]

I like your theory. One thing that always kept me from holy matrimony was the thought in the back of my mind after seeing men get screwed over- I am not strong enough to over come getting shafted in a divorce.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Anonymous 43]

ty hitman

great post, I needed it.

I have talked to many men who thought they were alone until they stumbled in here. A couple of these guys were in really rough shape, holding a gun and looking at it for the answer to a horrible question kind of rough shape.

That man asked me if the hurt he felt at that moment ever goes away. I told him the memory of the pain will always be there as a reminder not to get in that situation ever again, this is wisdom. Things get easier with time and distance. Better days are coming. I heard him dec~~~ the gun, unload it and zip it back into a bag. I did not know he had the gun to his head while we were talking. We talked for 2 hours, and he thanked me. When I hung up the phone, I threw up in the kitchen sink. This was one of the first times I put my hand out there when someone needed it. I found the site only a couple weeks before and this man pmed me in the middle of the night. I had woken up screaming through PTSD and I was looking for a little guidance. The man needed someone to listen. He thought he had lost his mind and that his life was a failure and not worth living. I was scared and I stayed with him on the phone not sure what to do or say, but just keep him talking.

I never heard from this man again. I hope he walks with his head held high, and has plans for the future. No woman is worth dying for.

We are all survivors of some horrible s~~~, betrayal mostly. We are all good men, honorable, bound by duty to our loved ones and programmed over time to be good men. The hardest first step is forgiving ourselves and not blaming ourselves for whatever brought us all here. That is a daily struggle.

Thanks for throwing this life line out there Hitman, I’m sure someone will grab it.

[Anonymous 6]

To anyone who reads this thread, these fellas here know. They know the pain, the sadness, and the urge to end it all.

Don’t take my word for it. Join this website and see. I can assure you that we will welcome you.

[Anonymous 38]

Awesome post! What MGTOW brings about is that moment in the Matrix where Neo just says “NO”, and all the bullets fall to the floor. It’s realising you hold all the power and from this moment a woman can no longer hurt you, and you’re finally free to live your life.

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

Being special exists only in comparing yourself to others. This why our society is so miserable. We have 24/7 access to how our lives compare to our friends, coworkers, and strangers. Your happiness should not depend on comparing yourself to others, but to the previous you.

Marriage is the participation trophy of life. Congratulations on achieving the same thing as billions of other people. It’s one of the greatest benchmarks society uses to compare us to each other, to place a value on us. This is why if you aren’t married, people assume there is something wrong with you. To them, you are an unknown quantity. This is why people try to sugar coat their marriage. They want their participation trophy to be better than others’s.

So, how do I get a first place trophy? You can’t, at least not within the rules of the game. Life only hands out participation trophies because that’s all you do is participate.

You don’t need some outside body giving you a trophy to compare to others. You don’t need a trophy. You just need to find your own happiness. You’ll never be better than everyone, but you can be better than you were a year ago. Just do you.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

Anonymous wrote:

The hardest first step is forgiving ourselves and not blaming ourselves for whatever brought us all here.

Guilt / lack of self worth over my poor decision in falling for the exGF and the scenario that has led to (as described in a previous thread) is something I have struggled with.. at least i made the correct decision to dump her and I realise the relationship was useful as a learning experience.. these quotes have helped me.

“I’m not going to hate myself for anything I’ve done. That’s what guilt is. I’m not going to give myself a bad feeling and whip myself for anything I have done, either right or wrong. I’m ready to analyze it, to watch it, and say, “Well, if I did wrong, it was in unawareness.” Anthony DeMello from the book Awareness

“Everything you feel or believe or say that goes against yourself is a sin. You go against yourself when you judge or blame yourself for anything. Being without sin is exactly the opposite. Being impeccable is not going against yourself. When you are impeccable, you take responsibility for your actions, but you do not judge or blame yourself.” So when we’re impeccable (without sin), we don’t use our word against ourselves indulging in guilt or shame.. We also honor our commitments and only make commitments we intend to follow through on. In Tibet they don’t even have a word for “guilt.” “There’s no word in Tibetan for ‘guilty.’ The closest thing is ‘intelligent regret that decides to do things differently.’” Extract from the Four Agreements

Feminism was funded by bankers/politicians to create more taxpayers. MGTOW IS FREEDOM https://archive.org/details/mgtowisfreedomblurayready

[Anonymous 11]

Thanks Hitman. I needed your words.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Nice one hitman.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[SolidParticipant 7520]

Thank you brother !

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Thumbs up Hitman. We lose some members from community but other step up their game. A stuff.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[TwistParticipant]

MGTOW = truth.

Thanks.

[HitmanParticipant]

start a thread,
look back at it.
plus one all the bro’s commenting.
lesson..
this is WORTH something.
the time and effort is WORK.
a labor of love.
don’t take it for granted..
i work here.
your comments are my payment.

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