You Never Dated Her, But You Still Broke Her Heart. (You Should Apologize)

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

You Never Dated Her, But You Still Broke Her Heart

Oh, now this is just rich. I’m not really sure if she is being friend-zoned, or experiencing a Real-Time Pump and Dump (RTPD). I am almost certain however, that the Chad executing this, is well aware of what he is doing.

The irony to all of this is that, go figure, the woman wants an apology for…. him not dating her? She wants an apology for being blown off when asking questions like “Why have you been so distant?” when the response “It’s none of your business, you’re not my girlfriend, I can do whatever I want.” She thinks “Technically, it’s true. But at the same time it’s not” (whatever the f~~~ that is supposed to mean). She wants an apology for being made to feel like a special snowflake, just not special enough enough to be claimed. She want’s an apology because even though you never dated her, you made her feel like she was your girlfriend… lol. WTF??

I know it is perfectly possible to understand a persons opinion or perspective without abandoning your own principalities but..I’m honestly afraid to understand this level of stupid. It is as though the minute I am able to relate or understand what the author is trying to convey, I descend into a level of stupid that there is no coming back from. Like a fighter plane in a full-on spiraling nose dive of no recovery… you just don’t want to try it willingly.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[Anonymous 5]

If you really feel like a good laugh, or if any other man, woman or child feels like a good laugh: Read the article again, EXACTLY the same, but reverse the genders. Try and imagine the amount of sympathy any man would get if he attempted to use the same logic.

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

: “I’m sorry you’re so boring and unappealing.”

[Anonymous 5]

Lol

[bladeParticipant]

F~~~ what they want

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[ResParticipant 542]

Yeah, it’s all the man’s fault for letting yourself be taken advantage of. Don’t let the special treatment stop at the romantic gestures either! I’m your girlfriend, I deserve to pry into every facet of your life despite the lack of commitment that I’m looking for in a relationship and getting from you right now! I know you haven’t committed to me as a partner, but I’m going to let you spoil me rotten anyway because I’m a special snowflake…er, girl.

Just think, if she’s this demanding (and paranoid) about your behavior and you’re not even a couple yet, what would that relationship look like past marriage down the road a few years?

Mr. Boats: "'Avoid the reeking herd! Shun the polluted flock! Live like that stoic bird, the eagle of the rock!' You know what that means, son?" -American Splendor

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

A man owes her something because “He let HER fall in love with him?” I think she did that on her own.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

My cousin posted that a while back on FB. She is in fact both stupid and crazy, like documented, so that’s the mentality of the women that we are dealing with here lads.

Sovereignty above all else.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

How about this:

Stop leading men on, who become emotional attach to you, then you reject his ass, and he goes balistic (his attitude, got nothing to lose) and shoots up the mall, while the c~~~ plays victim.

She should be charged with consipracy to commit murder.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Anonymous 6]

FYI I was on that blog (Thought Catalogue) for a long time and the author who wrote that piece is notorious for writing crap that paints men as assholes and users and women as angelic victims who just give their all to men only to be trampled on time and again. In fact it’s so formulaic with that author. She’s also a huge skank, she’s talked about in other things that she’s written. Oh by the way Thought Catalogue is an extremely pro feminist deal catering to young women. So much so that it’s vulgar and disgusting.

[narwhalParticipant]

I’ve seen that situation a few times.

Really ugly girl at work is somewhat ostracized by coworkers. She isn’t nice and kind of smells. I try and be nice to her. She decides to slap my ass at work. I firmly tell her never again. She asks me out. I tell her no, not interested. Would be friends with her if she behaved. She wants to see a movie, and I agree. She tells coworkers we had a date. I never speak to her again. She claims I led her on.

Another time, I was told that I was wrong for drinking (1 beer) in front of her because her ex boyfriend was an alcoholic and my drinking scared her. Why did she show up the bar then?

I had to meet/work with a girl (ugly girl) at Church that I’ve known for a year. I get hungry so suggest we go to Chili’s and finish meeting/work. A week later she claims it was date and I lead her on.

I’ve learned to stay from the ones ‘nobody wants’ even as friends as they will try even harder to mess with you.

Really though, all this is no different then ‘where have all the good money’. It’s just attempts to guilt you into giving them attention.

Ok. Then do it.

[Terminus EstParticipant 145]

I had one even worse.

A girl around my friend circle had a huge crush on me and everyone sort of expected that we get together.
Problem was – I had no interest in her.

Didn’t text her, talk to her, call her, “lead her on”, etc.

Didn’t matter because I was apparently still the jerk because, as everyone implored me, – she was “really into me and really sad now”. It was as if everyone was somehow disappointed that I refused to fulfill some preordained role or something.

So the end result of course was that I was the cruel jerk and she was the victim.

Thus goes the gender double standard.

[narwhalParticipant]

There is also the common case where you’re into her, but she doesn’t seem to be interested. You eventually give up and start talking to her roommate, who ends up giving you her number.

The next day at work you find out the first girl actually was into you, roommate new this but got your number anyway, and the two are now in a big argument over you. Coworkers are placing bets on your ability to turn this into a threesome. Eventually, roommates make up and mutually agree that you’re an asshole.

Ok. Then do it.

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

Oh man, I should stop reading this stuff while at work.
I might get fired for laughing…

Check the Author: “Dog owner” poor dog…

EDIT: I just realized “Aspiring science fiction author”.
Well, the article is pure fiction so not bad at all.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Also from her tagline, “Neil Patrick Harris fangirl.” You realize he’s as queer as a three dollar bill. She creates and operates in fictional situations created in her mind, the same as a woman that “caught” you cheating her dream so now you must apologize.

The article is a clear illustration of the hamster wheel at full speed.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Meh
I never dated her, but broke her heart?
Technically I should apologize for telling her to call me when she lost 25lbs and only giving her a quarter.
I didn’t realize it would take more than 30 years for her to still not be able to lose the weight.
How much are payphones now?

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

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