You know she's a c~~~ when her best friend…

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

feels sorry for you!

My wife is a selfish, self-centered bitch. She is only nice when she needs something or if she thinks I have one foot out the door (Which I do and she doesn’t know it).

Here is how bad it is. The other day HER best friend and I arrived at a restaurant earlier than our spouses. She knew things haven’t been good.

We talked and I vented. I’ve done this over the years and she never says anything to my wife. And frankly I wouldn’t care if she did.

So my wife’s bestie says, “look- she isn’t a bad person, she is just selfish and self-centered. It isn’t malicious, but I’m sorry you have to deal with this. You deserve to be happy”. And she looked like she was gonna cry.

I told her I didn’t know how long I could hang in there. She said I just needed to be patient and bide my time. Lay low and wait a bit. She knows my wife is coming into money and she sees this as a way for me to break free.

How s~~~ty is this existence that I’m waiting for her old man to pass so I can execute my exit? I know I’m not entitled to the inheritance, but she is an egotistical bitch and I can see her trying to discard me b/c she doesn’t need me as a meal ticket any longer. … And apparently her friend sees this too. I wonder if she has told her friend that she is going to bolt after she gets the moolah? Hope she does.

[TuneoutParticipant]

CombatRoll wrote:

So my wife’s bestie says, “look- she isn’t a bad person, she is just selfish and self-centered. It isn’t malicious,

If she doesn’t think being that way is malicious I wonder what she thinks is bad.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[HitmanParticipant]

why wait when your not entitled to the dough ?
walk out if you can ..
beat her to it.
talk to a lawyer and make a decision.
best of luck to you..

[OldBillParticipant]

CombatRoll wrote:

How s~~~ty is this existence that I’m waiting for her old man to pass so I can execute my exit? I know I’m not entitled to the inheritance, but she is an egotistical bitch and I can see her trying to discard me b/c she doesn’t need me as a meal ticket any longer.

Why aren’t you divorced yet? Why aren’t you planning your divorce yet?

Do you somehow believe that once she inherits she still won’t skin you for everything she can get? That she’ll think she has enough now and thus will let you off the hook?

All that inheritance is going to do is allow her to hire a better lawyer in order to stomp you into a thin red smear. It won’t matter that she has boatloads of cash when all she really wants is to hurt you.

There’s a war coming at you and, if you wait for your wife to inherit first, she’ll be able to buy better weapons.

Get out now. Start planning now. And for Christ’s sake stop confiding all your problems to another married woman.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 24]

Tuneout wrote:

CombatRoll wrote:

So my wife’s bestie says, “look- she isn’t a bad person, she is just selfish and self-centered. It isn’t malicious,

If she doesn’t think being that way is malicious I wonder what she thinks is bad.

More like they all think this is normal for women, and, well, it is…

[Nathan R. JessepParticipant 1102]

OldBill wrote:

CombatRoll wrote:

How s~~~ty is this existence that I’m waiting for her old man to pass so I can execute my exit? I know I’m not entitled to the inheritance, but she is an egotistical bitch and I can see her trying to discard me b/c she doesn’t need me as a meal ticket any longer.

Why aren’t you divorced yet? Why aren’t you planning your divorce yet?

Do you somehow believe that once she inherits she still won’t skin you for everything she can get? That she’ll think she has enough now and thus will let you off the hook?

All that inheritance is going to do is allow her to hire a better lawyer in order to stomp you into a thin red smear. It won’t matter that she has boatloads of cash when all she really wants is to hurt you.

There’s a war coming at you and, if you wait for your wife to inherit first, she’ll be able to buy better weapons.

Get out now. Start planning now. And for Christ’s sake stop confiding all your problems to another married woman.

This is why women win. A man thinks like you – “I’ll do the right thing and let my wife keep her inheritance.” Seriously, screw that. Wait until she gets the inheritance, make sure she puts it in a joint account or pays for community property like a house, and then divorce her.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

CombatRoll wrote:

How s~~~ty is this existence that I’m waiting for her old man to pass so I can execute my exit?

I don’t know your personal circumstances man, but no amount of money is worth being f~~~ing miserable.

If you’re dead-set on that as an option, at least talk to an inheritance attorney & a divorce attorney. Go in with your eyes open.

[Anonymous 0]

Her “bestie” is a spy. I will bet she is telling your wife everything you say and I do not believe it was a coincidence that you and the bestie got to the restaurant first. It was likely a plan between them to find out what you were planning. Do not trust her.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

CombatRoll wrote:

And she looked like she was gonna cry

Her “bestie” is the one about to cry?

CombatRoll wrote:

“look- she isn’t a bad person, she is just selfish and self-centered.

Sounds like devil’s advocate to me.

CombatRoll wrote:

feels sorry for you!

Anonymous wrote:

Her “bestie” is a spy.

Agree. They are information specialist, to put it “nicely”.

CombatRoll wrote:

she is an egotistical bitch and I can see her trying to discard me b/c she doesn’t need me as a meal ticket any longer.

Why wait for the pressure cooker to blow it’s top?

As other’s have already said, why let her draw first blood?

[Buller100Participant 2189]

In the uk all the money goes in the pot, as has been said I have met many guys who have said’she can have the house ‘ etc etc.

Even in divorce some guys put them on pedestals,

[OldBillParticipant]

Nathan R. Jessep wrote:

This is why women win. A man thinks like you – “I’ll do the right thing and let my wife keep her inheritance.” Seriously, screw that. Wait until she gets the inheritance, make sure she puts it in a joint account or pays for community property like a house, and then divorce her.

I don’t think he has a snowball’s chance in hell of getting any of that inheritance. She’s going to pull the trigger while the will is still in probate; that is, after her father dies but before she gets the money.

With the promise of money to come, she’ll be able to get a real shark of a lawyer and rip CombatRoll to shreds. Not only will he not see a f~~~ing dime of the old man’s money, he’ll end losing more of his own.

This isn’t a case of divorcing now so she can keep the inheritance. This is case of divorcing now before that inheritance gives her the financial muscle to really f~~~ him over.

His wife has been planning because she’s obviously using her “bestie” as a spy. After all, what women is going to admit to a man that another women, let alone her best friend, is selfish? The “bestie” has been doing very well as a spy too. She’s even managed to draw out his true opinions regarding his wife.

CombatRoll is staring down the business end of a locked and loaded 155mm howitzer and his wife is gripping is on the firing lanyard. She’s going to pull the lanyard as soon as possible after her father dies. Hell, they’ll still be shoveling dirt on her father’s coffin when she pulls that cord.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Brother life is too short-no amount of $ is worth misery. One cunning female is dangerous enough to a mans prosperity- add a kindred and you have the equivalent of an army. Best of luck regaining your freedom. Keep us posted.

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

I appreciate the concern for me – and while some are calling me a fool, I’m lying in wait while making preparations….

I have met with the most expensive, heartless bitch of an attorney and rec’d counsel.

I’m in planning mode and not to sound morbid, but the end is near for her dad.

She is an egotistic c~~~y bitch and the money will go straight to her head. She will think she has enough to kick me to the curb, after I’ve paid 22 years for EVERYTHING.

Lying in wait is not that much of a gamble and only has positive outcome chances. If she puts the cash into any marital property then it becomes game for the split. Once she gets the money, I will ratchet back what I’m payng for. Literally, I will stop paying gas, light, etc. It will either get cut off or she will step up.

Right now even though she makes a little more than half of what I make – she drives the more expensive, flashy SUV (that I pay for) and she acts like she makes a lot of money. I’m dumping these cost on her when she gets the inheritance.

All the while, taking steps to sell off my toys and keeping the money horded – not in a bank account.

Regarding the spy: I did not and will not share any of the above info, I just vented about how f~~~ing worthless and selfish she is. The friend just sympathized with me.

Keep me in your thoughts and wish me luck that my plans work out….

[Anonymous 54]

Anonymous wrote:

Her “bestie” is a spy. I will bet she is telling your wife everything you say and I do not believe it was a coincidence that you and the bestie got to the restaurant first. It was likely a plan between them to find out what you were planning. Do not trust her.

Yes! This is how women work.Do not trust her! Women stick together and are very sneaky. Her freind could be attacted to you, but if not shes gathering info for her friend. Quit talking to her!

Or..be a sneaky guy and use her to send disinformation if its a useful tool.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

CombatRoll wrote:

wish me luck that my plans work out….

Hope it goes the way you want…

I got f~~~ed.

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