“Yeah, your ex-girlfriend/ex-wife was a bitch. But cheer up, it will be better next time. You just have to meet the right woman (and then you’ll live happily ever after).”
People like to say this statement to a man when they judge his failed romantic relationship. They are often ignorant of the circumstances that let up to the breakup. They aren’t aware that some women will feign compatability while they’re dating a man so he will be encouraged to continue dating them and eventually marry them.
If you find a woman that’s a “keeper,” you’ll naturally assume that she’s going to remain a keeper after she gets the ring, the white dress, and the ceremony.
Last night, I listened to a recording of a Tom Leykis show. He told his audience that several of his former wives tolerated his annoying habits and character traits until the wedding day. After that, they gave him the, “Now that we’re married…” speech. In other words, they wanted him to stop being himself and stop enjoying his hobbies. And all the fun stuff they did with him before the marriage also came to an end. So instead of being honest about their feelings and intentions from the beginning of the relationship, they kept quiet and put on the unicorn act.
You can point out how deceptive this behavior is to women and they’ll act like it’s no big deal. You can also point out that women often complain about the dishonesty of the men they used to date, yet they cast this moral high ground to hell when they want to seduce a man into marriage. Going into a marriage with a hidden agenda is just plain evil, in my world. These women may not be actively lying, but they commit lies of omission to their boyfriends without guilt.
What man is going to invest time, money, and energy into marrying a woman who doesn’t have the looks and character traits he wants? And then HOPE that she will change into a better version of herself after the wedding? It makes no sense to me at all, and I don’t understand why some women think this kind of thought process should be tolerated by any man she intents to have a f~~~ing lifetime relationship with!
Men who live in socially liberated societies can’t only be blamed for choosing the wrong woman. The problem extends to the expectations of his family, community, and government officials. Family members may try to shame a man into staying married for the sake of their reputation or the well-being of his children. A divorce can also effect a man’s reputation among his peers if he’s a member of a prominent community organization or a church. And if a government will give him penalties for not fulfilling his duty as a husband and a father, his “June Cleaver” wife has an incentive to turn into a wicked witch for a variety of reasons—without the penalties of societal shame or losing his financial support.
There is no refund/exchange policy for choosing the wrong woman to marry, and the negative consequences of that decision may last a lifetime. If a man wants to fully protect his well-being and his assets, he has to assume that every woman is potentially the wrong one for him to marry no matter how well-behaved she is.
"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)
It’s not stupid. They’re doing fine doing that. I see families like that every single day at work. As long as the money and status is good – they’ll play along
Its like choosing your jailer…You need to continue bribing your jailer so you can have some comforts…If you got none, then your ass will always be f~~~ed…
Better stay away from the jail of women…They make you a deal to admit for a crime you didnt commit and then you get sentenced with the harshest punishment designed to milk you of all your resources…
I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...
You should have heard my mind! Not SILENT! It was SCREAMING!
I believe you. I have been in that situation before as well. It’s not easy but that’s why you can come here and discuss your thoughts with men who will sympathize with you.
As long as the money and status is good – they’ll play along
What a miserable existence.
It’s definitely not for everyone. (notice how most of us are INTx) – which is a tiny percentage If people ask me why I don’t want to get married, I’d tell them that I figured that ” marriage is not for everyone”. I despise sleeping with the enemy. I’d rather sleep alone. Modern families are a joke compared to traditional ones. They used to have strong families and that’s what societies were made out of. Now it’s a temporary virtual parody. Immediate and even more – extended families are virtually non existent. Television, social media and temporary, conditional multi- parent “families” is the new norm (that doesn’t work).The state usurped all the authority in families with successful brainwashing technique
P.S.: I think the reason why most men tolerate fakery and artificiality – is the same – because they watch too much fiction and get used to suspending their disbelief -just like women do too
P.S.: I think the reason why most men tolerate fakery and artificiality – is the same – because they watch too much fiction and get used to suspending their disbelief -just like women do too
I’d rather sleep alone. Modern families are a joke compared to traditional ones. They used to have strong families and that’s what societies were made out of. Now it’s a temporary virtual parody. Immediate and even more – extended families are virtually non existent. Television, social media and temporary, conditional multi- parent “families” is the new norm (that doesn’t work).The state usurped all the authority in families with successful brainwashing technique
Russky wrote: It’s definitely not for everyone. (notice how most of us are INTx) – which is a tiny percentage Most of the guys here are, yes. I am actually an ENTJ as well as a couple others I know of. I do think I may change over to an INTJ as I get older.
or was it xNTJ – most of MGTOW – which is what – 7%?
I guess if I had made it much better in life, I would had stand a better chance to meet and build a family with “a right woman”. Because it’s a very common arrangement with those who are loaded and simpy. Not sure if I could tolerate it for long. I’m highly allergic to bulls~~~
I can’t afford to waste my time and support a bitch. I have no time or money to spare currently. Especially on some bulls~~~
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