"You don't have a girl do you?"

[AwakenedParticipant 35203]

When you talk to Blue Pill’s. It’s best to talk to them in Blue Pill Language. I would suggest something like, “Currently, I’m not even considering dating a Woman, and will not even consider dating now because I must invest ALL MY TIME in establishing myself both professionally and personally THEN I can find that special lil snowflake to marry and I can take care of her and our children in the best way possible. So, I’m sacrificing my personal life now for my wife and family down the road.”

Of course it’s complete bulls~~~, but it’s the type of CRAP that Blue Pills EAT UP.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

Being separated, while I enjoy complete flexibility, have no desire to complicate my life ’cause I’m real happy GMOW!

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

@ Awakened…

this is almost exactly what I do. My standard response to ‘why aren’t you married…?’ is something designed to just throw them off the trail:

“Well, you know, I would be but the right one is just hard to find…”

This implies that I agree with them, and that I am trying to prove it by acting on it, and that I’m likely making sacrifices trying to find that right one. It makes whoever has their nose in my personal business feel that they have achieved an objective. The objective they were looking to achieve is usually just the reassurance that they were correct in their recipe for my decisions, because I seem to agree with them. This is the easiest way to get rid of them without making them an enemy, and without showing them the red pill and making them feel like an idiot for not already seeing it. I want them to go away in the most efficient way possible. And going away feeling like they have accomplished something is fine with me… as long as it happens efficiently.

Telling them what they want to hear in order to get rid of them might seem like lying to them, but it isn’t. Technically, I haven’t lied to them. All I said was that “the right one is hard to find”. And since the right one is long since extinct, I’m not actually lying when I say she’s hard to find. They make the assumptions all on their own. They assume I agree with them that I should have one. They assume I agree that I am looking. They assume I’m likely making sacrifices in the search… etc etc. But they assume all that all on their own, because it’s what they already wanted to believe.

The key point is: they weren’t actually seeking truth from me. They were only seeking to have me repeat back to them what they already believe. All I have done with my statement, is allow them to keep believing it. That gets rid of them quickly because they were never really interested in what I need. They were only interested in me agreeing with their opinion of what I need. As soon as they get the agreement they seek, they are efficiently on their way… proving that they didn’t really give a s~~~ about what I actually might need, or in my opinion of what I might need.

So, by allowing them to keep the opinions they already had, I’ve left them no better or worse than I found them.

No harm, no foul. 🙂

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[MaverickParticipant 811]

Arcturis wrote:

I will work as hard as I want and relish in the rewards that come from it.

Make sure there are rewards. There are no shortage of companies who will take advantage of people willing to work long hours for no extra compensation.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

BrainPilot wrote:

They were only seeking to have me repeat back to them what they already believe.

BrainPilot wrote:

They were only interested in me agreeing with their opinion of what I need.

Bunch of geniuses roaming around here. Very nice. I know it wasn’t directed at me but I never skip an opportunity to brown nose Brain Pilot. Your ass smell great by the way -Your sycophant admirer -Gravel

[AwakenedParticipant 35203]

BrainPilot wrote:

Telling them what they want to hear in order to get rid of them might seem like lying to them, but it isn’t.

Label it a lie or not, it DOESN”T matter what Ya want to call it. THIS is YOUR LIFE AND YOUR CHOICE, and it’s NONE of their business anyways.

BrainPilot wrote:

The key point is: they weren’t actually seeking truth from me. They were only seeking to have me repeat back to them what they already believe.

THEY CAN’T UNDERSTAND the TRUTH.

BrainPilot wrote:

As soon as they get the agreement they seek, they are efficiently on their way… proving that they didn’t really give a s~~~ about what I actually might need, or in my opinion of what I might need.

DONE. There’s just No Need nor Desire to WASTE Your Time, Energy, and Effort.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Was out at local pub last night. Place was teeming with millennials. The women had their best fake up on were all competing for the thickest c~~~ and wallet. I noticed the men seemed to be “working” the hardest to get a shot at vagina while the women had their faces in their phones having to do very little to get attention. Around the third brew I decided to head home thinking how peaceful my night would be while the Chad wannabes probably emptied their wallets and got little more than an angry look let alone some t~~~ ass and pussy. It’s one big s~~~show. Difference is MGTOW know this now while the rest may never.

[John DoeParticipant 743]

Gravel Pit wrote:

Just be sure they don’t label you as “gay” just because you don’t turn your head and try to smell every passing vagina, they assume something’s wrong with you.
I have no fear of it affecting my life so I usually just come out and say that all women are whores and treat men terribly. A blunt statement like that, they usually stop right there knowing full well they wont get anywhere with me.
In rare cases, I can’t divulge my extreme red/black pill attitudes… when that happens, I explain that “I refuse to chase women…” simple as that. “They need to chase me, I’m past 30.”
I get the same response, “You need to make the approach…even as a grown man.”
I respectfully reply. “I won’t chase, I simply don’t care.” I smile and and put it in a way they can’t argue with because Im being friendly.

I disagree, if they think he is gay he can throw accusations of homophobia against the company and coworkers.

But yeah, “I dont care” is the healthier and more honest of the options.

[Two Time WinnerParticipant 1090]

Good points Awakened. I went to a bluegrass concert a few weeks ago, by myself, as I prefer. Bought my ticket late but was able to get a single in the middle of the third or fourth row from the stage. It was a small venue, seats probably 2,500. But is an old historic theater. There must have been a couple sitting to my left. A couple came down the row from my right, to their seats. The woman came in first and there were only two open seats. She looked at me with a confused look. I pointed to the next seat and said, “I think that is your seat”.

She must have been a little slow or something as she asked “Where is you wife sitting?” I replied “I don’t have one” She replied with a quizzed look on her face “You don’t have a wife” I replied “No, and I don’t want one, life is much more pleasant without one” She sat down and never spoke another word to me.

TTW

I ain't got a wife to spend my money, I have to do that all by myself.

[MaverickParticipant 811]

Two Time Winner wrote:

Good points Awakened. I went to a bluegrass concert a few weeks ago, by myself, as I prefer. Bought my ticket late but was able to get a single in the middle of the third or fourth row from the stage. It was a small venue, seats probably 2,500. But is an old historic theater. There must have been a couple sitting to my left. A couple came down the row from my right, to their seats. The woman came in first and there were only two open seats. She looked at me with a confused look. I pointed to the next seat and said, “I think that is your seat”.
She must have been a little slow or something as she asked “Where is you wife sitting?” I replied “I don’t have one” She replied with a quizzed look on her face “You don’t have a wife” I replied “No, and I don’t want one, life is much more pleasant without one” She sat down and never spoke another word to me.
TTW

LMAO….hilarious!

Any of you guys ever go to a movie theater and get a funny look (or even attitude) from a female ticket seller when you say “one ticket”? 🙂

[SkelatorParticipant 1261]

People in healthy relations~~~s are some of the most annoying people on the planet. They always think whatever they are doing is what everyone else should do to be happy. Most of the time they ain’t doing s~~~, they just make it sound like they doing something interesting for the status. Living in a perpetual s~~~ test sound fun to you?

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Always answer these questions with another question.

: “You don’t have a girl do you?”
: “Who do you think I’m avoiding by working late?”

I’m guessing it was a female coworker who asked the question. Likely she is trying to suss you out as a good little beta provider for one of her hive, or for herself. Clearly you’re a hard worker. Therefore you should be a good little earner for some parasite c~~~.

Two Time Winner wrote:

I replied “No, and I don’t want one, life is much more pleasant without one” She sat down and never spoke another word to me.

I bet she made sure to sit down between you and her husbank. Can’t let him see what a terrible mistake he made with her.

Maverick wrote:

Any of you guys ever go to a movie theater and get a funny look (or even attitude) from a female ticket seller when you say “one ticket”?

Nope. They know me. I always arrive early and separately to “save the best seats”.

Women can buy their own damn tickets.

Skelator wrote:

healthy relations~~~s

No such thing.

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

I have a better rule: No talk about relations~~~s at work.
When I am at work, I came to work.

Many blue pill men ask me the question, and I Always tell them “I am sorry, but I am extremely busy right now. This work ain’t going to do itself, you know?”… And they walk away.
And when they came to probe me after work, I just tell them “I am sorry, but I am late to the gym/race/class/meeting/whatever I am going to do. Can we talk about that later, or in another opportunity? Thanks!”… And I walk away.

They can’t keep talking to a ghost.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

I tell them her name is Samantha.

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