“You changed my life”

[FrederickTheGreatParticipant 235]

Have any of you experienced a woman telling you that you changed her life as a means of manipulating you? I went out with a woman for a while and treated her very nicely. In return, she did nothing for me and treated me rudely…rather like a piece of furniture to pick up when she wanted, push away when she wanted, and throw across the room on a whim. So I just walked. She then tells me that I’ve changed her life for the better, so I shouldn’t have ended things and I should continue to at least be friends with her (so I could do more stuff for her and not even get a kiss?). No mention of any impact she had on my life or would have on it. Nor is her claim consistent with the frivolous way she treated my companionship. Is this some kind of appeal to my inner white knight? Has anyone dealt with this?

[RoyDalParticipant]

FrederickTheGreat wrote:

Have any of you experienced a woman telling you that you changed her life as a means of manipulating you?

Yes. However, she dumped me.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Yeah, women are great at manipulating men. Everything women do is a means to manipulating men.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[HitmanParticipant]

yeah ..”you changed my life ” means ” i want you to slave for me ! ” .f~~~ that .

[the_unsung_heroParticipant 3]

lol quite obvious bulls~~~- she wants to use you more

[GrumpyParticipant]

Pure manipulation, “You Changed my life” is womanese for any of the following:
1. Now I don’t have to work.
2. Now I don’t have to provide for myself.
3. Now I can take it easy, because you will do everything for me.
4. Now I have someone else to blame for everything
5. Now you HAVE to pay for me forever <insert Dr. Evil laugh here>

feel free to add on fella’s. I know there is a ton more

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[FrederickTheGreatParticipant 235]

I totally agree with all of you. She might as well say, “Before you came along, I had nobody to buy me stuff, nobody to entertain me at their expense, and nobody to criticize to their face. I’d hate to lose you now that you have been doing all this stuff for nothing in return. That was a nice change to my life. However, I’m not going to change my own attitude in any way whatsoever. And because I like what you give me, you owe it to me to continue.” And I thought this doll was a NAWALT unicorn! Why didn’t I just listen to Uncle Keymaster and all of you good brothers and save myself the heartache, money, and time by staying MGTOW?

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Some women can come very close to the mythological status. Just from your start though I can tell where it went wrong.

Even potential unicorns can require correction.

I treated her very nicely is almost always better than deserved. Attributing even a facial gesture to you or her being tired from your day can be the first step in the transformation into a Nightmare.

I’m sorry you lost what you thought you had, glad and happy for you that you unloaded what you actually had.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[narwhalParticipant]

Tell her “it’s not you, it’s me.”

Seriously, you don’t feel you can trust her. You need time away to make sure you don’t fall into the bad habits you had with her. You need proof that she’s actually changed, not just her word. You don’t want to get back together with her.

Ok. Then do it.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

So, the best compliment she can give you is what you did for her? You changed MY life! Wow, what a narcissistic compliment………

It’s funny because that’s the type of compliment a woman would probably want to hear. How much better your life is because she is in it. That’s when she knows she controls you.

Making a woman’s life better is what most men do when they are in a relationship. It’s also what happens in a friendship too, although you’d probably never say it quite like that.

I have said before about someone I dated for four years (before she cheated) that we SHOULD get along great because we had the same goal. All I wanted to do was make her happy, and all she wanted to do was make her happy. I think I’ve seen this relationship before, and it doesn’t end well.

Order the good wine

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