"You can always look away"

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

Know what I can’t stand?  It’s when a man is presented with temptation from a woman and tells her that her style of dress is tempting him to want her, and all she can say is “it’s not my fault.  You can always look away.”

There was a Christian news feed about pornography and its effect on the male mind.  One man commented and said that the blame shouldn’t completely be put on men, as the women are willingly putting themselves out there to be seen and noticed.  A woman snapped back at him, telling him:

“The source is not women. You can always look away. It’s just like saying cocaine is responsible for an addiction. It is not. You are responsible for your own actions.”

I defended the man by calling her out on her garbage she was spewing:

“No. It’s nothing like a cocaine addiction. ‘You can always look away.’ That’s the typical woman’s response. They don’t want to take responsibility for ANYTHING. ‘I can get as naked as I want, but don’t you dare look at me and give into your biological temptation or you’re sinning!’ Hasn’t any woman heard of ‘if you cause someone to stumble into sin, you’re just as guilty?'”

Her lovely response was:

“Chris- I happen to live by the rule that I am the captain of my vessel. I take personal accountability and responsibility of where that vessel goes. I understand it’s easier to blame others that way you don’t have to change what your doing.”

What’s even funnier is the moderator of that page made a comment himself, saying how “certain people are violating the forum rules and their comments will be deleted because they contain ‘personal attacks’ and ‘prejudice.'”

[Anonymous 18]

The real win would be to look right through them. Dress however you like. And wonder why certain men aren’t even noticing you exist.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I also noticed that “just look away” only applies when they are happy with it. For example, a Confederate flag must come down, but a gay rights rainbow flag may and must stay.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Well …. I’m looking my own way ☺

[WolfParticipant 890]

Women who attract attention due to how they dress are looking for attention, but the underlying reason is not necessarily to attract attention; rather, it’s to have an excuse to call men pigs. Shaming and victimization are part and parcel in the power exchange game.

[RennieParticipant]

You can’t look away when it’s everywhere, in your face, all the time. These days it doesn’t matter whether you’re out in public, watching TV, surfing the internet, it’s constantly in your face.

[Anonymous 18]

Wolf wrote:

Shaming and victimization are part and parcel in the power exchange game.

Good point. I had a girl I was seeing who came up to my place wearing short shorts. And some ‘old creepy guy’ tried to pick her up in his car while she was waiting for a bus. How does she take ownership of another person’s reaction to her shorts? Creepy is subjective, and if the man she doesn’t find attractive/desirable checking her out, he is labelled as such. I checked her out and more and never got called a creep.

[WolfParticipant 890]

Anonymous wrote:

Creepy is subjective, and if the man she doesn’t find attractive/desirable checking her out, he is labelled as such. I checked her out and more and never got called a creep.

Agreed. More often than not, when a woman uses the term “creepy” to describe a guy who’s checking her out, she is simply saying that she is not interested in him.

Unattractive/undesirable = lower social status than her. She is better than him and is offended by the advances of a “lower” person.

[Oaken1Participant 67]

IMO  we should use slut shaming more often. There was a time when we as a nation had a moral standard…not that everyone abided by that standard,…but at least a goal to strive for. Now anything goes……morality is all but dead…..someone’s “nature” should be allowed when they are gay,…but a man’s “Nature” to take what he wants must be suppressed….Society is working very hard to force the free thinking heterosexual male into extinction.

[JstAntherGuyParticipant 10]

Agree with iLearn & Wolf

I think age and circumstance of the body part being checked out can play a factor too.

Example:

Young lady with big tit cleavage at Best Buy- covers them quickly when she notices the male cashier looking.

Old lady with newly purchased big tit cleavage at restaurant – wears tight, undersized t-shirt into the store every weekend. Smiles as she notices the men looking at her. Smiles even more when she notices the women glaring at her.

[StandUpGuyParticipant 334]

Attrition and victim whores that simple.

[foolsgoldParticipant 5644]

We had some dumb c~~~ at work wearing slutty outfits because she was proud of herself for losing weight. She was bragging about it so I politely asked her who put the weight on in the first place. I watched her crumble. Needless to say I ended up in HR. It was well worth it to step on her though. Knocked her down a few pegs.

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

We can always look away, but when social justice warriors hear anything they don’t like, there’s no way in hell they will just “look away”, they have to censor it.

These retards are the enbodiment of double standards.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[Anonymous 42]

Looking away means nothing to me anymore. I seem to see straight through a woman’s temptations of exposure, they’ve become ghosts to me. I find a classy dressed female to be much more attractive than your average penis guy snatcher.

Attractive

 

REPULSIVE!

 

 

 

 

[BDParticipant 1146]

Wolf wrote:

lower social status than her. She is better than him and is offended by the advances of a “lower” person.

Lower status means that you do not show indications that you have resources to extract, indications such as fancy car,clothes, watch etc…

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[Anonymous 18]

BD wrote:

Wolf wrote:

lower social status than her. She is better than him and is offended by the advances of a “lower” person.

Lower status means that you do not show indications that you have resources to extract, indications such as fancy car,clothes, watch etc…

Aptly said. Perception is reality.

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

That argument wouldn’t have worked with an ardent feminist I had the misfortune of working with.  She took exception to some Sunshine Girls I had on the wall next to my desk….. in the office that I shared with my immediate supervisor….. at the other end of the building from where her desk was located.

Guess who got a black mark against his name because of that?  Then again, a few days later, I showed her a picture of Diana, Princess of Wales, which happened to be part of a calendar about the Royal Family.  That feminist turned red enough that she could have been used as a traffic light and I’m sure I saw wisps of steam coming from the top of her head.

When it came to rage and “cleansing”, she could have taught some modern radical terrorists a thing or two.  Fortunately, she was fired a few months later because nobody wanted to work with her.  There wasn’t anything that didn’t offend her and she rubbed just about everyone the wrong way.  However, the damage to my reputation was done…..

 

 

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

I remember learning about the “creepy-subjective” factor in a JtO video where he was calling out Alexandra Blue.

Realizing this and learning this, it quite literally removed years of self-doubt that I always had about me being “creepy” to so many women.  I never did anything to deserve the “creepy” label!  I simply gave them the attention they would come to get from me, but I wasn’t of their social caste.  I wish I had this knowledge and logic when I was younger.  Glad I have it now, at least!  Better now than never!

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

“you can always look away” like feminists did when that scientist wore a shirt with animated women on it.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[chirParticipant]

Women dress to troll for attention.  Self-affirmation through compliments is how a woman breaths.  No complements on what they consider an important facet of their being is an affront to their existence.  They need constant complements and attention during the day on their fashion choices.  If they get no complements often they will discard those clothes and buy more.   If they get what they consider negative attention from a man they may complain but in their secret hearts they REVEL in the power they have exercised over the man by causing him to give them attention even as they yell at him for paying that attention.

Men fashion is simple.  Look neat and wear a suit.  ( I prefer a suit with a vest but they again I’m old school )  Men generally don’t give a f~~~ what other men think of their fashion choices and don’t need self affirmation through complements on their fashion choices.

 

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