You attract the "wrong ones" < bulls~~~

[InTheCountryParticipant 199]

What is this total nonsense we hear when discussing why we were disillusioned from women, they say “you have to figure out why you are attracting these types of women.” They actually make it sound like we control this and it is our fault. What is your take on it?

I think it is just another diversion to deflect the reality of what women are and shame men for somehow creating a vortex that collects bad women.

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

You’re right on the money. The fact is if there are wrong ones all over how is it possible to find a unicorn. The fact is all women will think they are good in their own delusional mind but they’ve done some f~~~ed up s~~~. The fact is never listen to women who think in their own mind they are great. Eddie Murphy said in one of his stand shows that women do have skeletons in their closet. It’s true. Oh and never take advice from women either. Bad idea all around.

[Anonymous 42]

Feminism has left us rowing our life boats through an ocean of s~~~, I’m not “attracting” anything! They’re looking to climb aboard to get away from the smell of their own s~~~! These seas have been dead for generations, I don’t go fishing for death…

[Anonymous 6]

You gotta remember every chick thinks that she is marriage material. From birth they are taught that, look at the cartoons kids watch growing up. They don’t realize that it’s the women who are in charge of choosing who they want to be with. Their argument is, “We should APPROACH better women, but fact remains that it’s still the women who are choosing. And if women were better at choosing then we wouldn’t be having this conversation. They think with emotion, they think with feelings. We think with logic, based on what is in our best interest.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

InTheCountry wrote:

They actually make it sound like we control this and it is our fault. What is your take on it?

The only way maintain slavery forever is to brainwash the slaves into thinking they aren’t slaves.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

InTheCountry wrote:

What is this total nonsense we hear when discussing why we were disillusioned from women, they say “you have to figure out why you are attracting these types of women.” They actually make it sound like we control this and it is our fault. What is your take on it? I think it is just another diversion to deflect the reality of what women are and shame men for somehow creating a vortex that collects bad women.

It’s a sure thing. These types of comments are very easy to deconstruct. You could have dated 5/15/50 women back-to-back and be speaking about a common observation in ALL of them

“Why are women such backstabbing, manipulative gold diggers?”

… and you’ll still hear:

“You’re just going for the wrong types of women”
“Maybe if you weren’t attracted bimbos”
“You’re just looking for women in all the wrong places”.

There’s so much wrong with that, and those retorts are strategically designed to deflect focus away from the actions, attitudes and behavior of the female collective – to try and make it look like it’s YOUR problem. I’m actually amazed that I heard this crap from close female friends over 20 years ago – time and time again. Even more amazing is that all of you have heard it too.

How is that possible? How is possible that you and I separated by years in time, countries and geography, vastly different lives, experiences and social circles heard exactly the same s~~~ as if totally rehearsed and scripted? – before the internet even existed. Are women programmed of the save hive mind to say the same thing all around the world?

But now we can compare notes on this, you see. That’s why men arrive here and go “holy s~~~! I always thought I lived on an island”. So perhaps all women really ARE “like that”. Why do you think they don’t like men to get together and compare notes?

“Why are women so manipulative?”

“You’re just going for the wrong types of women”

“Am I?”

http://www.lovepanky.com/women/understanding-men/how-to-manipulate-men

http://www.wikihow.com/Manipulate-Men

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1251655/Six-brides-used-dirty-tricks-engagement-ring-finger.html

So as you can see, it’s not really YOUR problem.

Even the NAWALT argument is true. It’s 100% true that “not all women are like that”. But Im talking about the ones who ARE. And you’re still going to hear”

“Maybe if you weren’t attracted bimbos…”.

“Gee thanks for your understanding, but unattractive smarter women are no more trustworthy or less manipulative than attractive women. Those “how to manipulate men” manuals aren’t just for outwardly attractive women. It’s for fat and ugly women too. So what’s your point?”

“Um…… you’re just meeting women in all the wrong places.”.

“More bulls~~~. 51% of people in the western world are women. That means even if I don’t want to meet a woman I am more likely to meet a woman. They are everywhere. Like trashcans are everywhere.”

“Um…. you’re a misogynist!”.

“No. It’s actually more likely that you’re a manipulative, backstabbing gold digger.”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

This is EXACTLY the reason I kept trying to find a compatible woman, because I believed this lie that I keep choosing the wrong kind of woman, when in fact they are all the wrong kind of woman.

I never had a problem getting into relationships, so I’d quickly find a new one after a breakup. But the error I made was thinking that the new relationship would be better because I’d pick a totally new kind of woman to be with. And in my head, the best kind of woman was a highly-educated, attractive and athletic woman. As my sexual market value grew as I got older, I eventually started dating what I thought I wanted. And yes, they were different from the others, but different in a new and f~~~ed up kind of way.

The only way I was able to break that cycle was discovering MGTOW. Reading the relationship stories in the manosphere opened my eyes to the fact that AWALT — smart or dumb, rich or poor, skinny or fat, foreign or domestic — each woman has the same collection of intolerable traits.

And this knowledge is liberating!

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

This is why the AWALT rule applies when dealing with women.

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

Right ones (assuming there is such a thing) or wrong ones, there is no particular benefit to me as a man to attract any of them, but quite a lot of very specific risk.

It’s not a matter of attracting a right women – it’s a matter of not wasting your time, money, and effort in chasing a unicorn.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

You attract the “wrong ones”

If I had a nickle for every time I heard that, I would be in a private jet. Too bad the wrong ones don’t come with a stamp on their foreheads, because the “wrong ones” sure worked hard to convince me they were the right ones.

Why do the wrong ones pretend they are the right ones?

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

before internet forums like this one, men used to think they got unlucky. Their girl is not as good as the others.

thanks to the internet, men all over the world are sharing their stories, sharing their wisdom.

As a result, it is evident that it is not just you that is unlucky. In fact the majority of men are unlucky.

This means the vast majority of women behave in a certain way that will make a man’s life miserable in the long run.

After the honeymoon phase is over, marriage/relationships are miserable.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[InTheCountryParticipant 199]

I have found women do an interview that most men miss. I have heard the following statements/questions from women during the courting phase more than three times:

1) So, what are you looking for this time ’round?
2) What did/didn’t your exes do that bothered/hurt you?
3) What are you looking for in a woman?

Stuff like that. They are taking notes so they can transform themselves into the NAWALT just long enough for you to believe them and fall in love. After you fall in love, they reverse the tables and then slowly pull you into a mode of “falling forward into them” hoping for love and affection. Eventually, you are in the same jail cell you were in before. It hurts to leave, and they know it!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Total Lee wrote:

Why do the wrong ones pretend they are the right ones?

Because women have now actually convinced themselves that being a “wrong one” will get them married:

Consider the books:

WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES

— and —

WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES

These are books that are written by (and for) other women. So I wouldn’t pay any attention to ANY bitch who says “you attract the wrong ones”…. when women go out of their way to try and BE “the wrong ones” – while trying to convince you she is the right one.

“You attract the wrong ones” is all a bunch of female crap.

Total Lee wrote:

Too bad the wrong ones don’t come with a stamp on their foreheads

She would be better off putting a “bitch” stamp on her forehead, and sparing any man the agony of tolerating her crap.
Then she will see how many men actually love and marry bitches.

F~~~ing ZERO.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 3]

InTheCountry wrote:

What is this total nonsense we hear when discussing why we were disillusioned from women, they say “you have to figure out why you are attracting these types of women.” They actually make it sound like we control this and it is our fault. What is your take on it?

I think it is just another diversion to deflect the reality of what women are and shame men for somehow creating a vortex that collects bad women.

C~~~ says: “You’re just attracting the wrong type of women.”

Plain English translation: “Get with the programme.”

[GrumpyParticipant]

I just see/hear this statement as yet more shifting the blame for women’s choices and actions.
Honestly, I really do not have a choice in “who” I attract. It is something in me that attracts them, not me lassoing them and reeling them in against their will.

Again it is a statement of “you (men) are doing it wrong”.
When it comes to women, I see myself wading in a river full of salmon, with all correct the gear to fly fish for salmon, casting in the right directions into schools of salmon, yet somehow catching coyotes.

Someone is really going to have fun with that analogy

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

This comment is more annoying, then the NAWALT one. Their trying sell you a false hope, that ends up being a nightmare.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

You attract the wrong ones
manslation: You should start making more money, get ripped and simp harder

There is some truth in that statement, though. If you’re going to dive bars and online dating – you will attract nothing but wrong ones. Likewise, if you’re fishing in a pond – don’t expect to catch a blue marlin

That doesn’t mean though, that blue marlin will treat you better than a crappie, it just means that the bitch who’s shaming you is so full of herself, that she thinks she’s fundamentally better partner material than some skank at a bar. And while a skank could be a worse catch than her- at least she won’t have this inflated view of herself like this stuck up bitch. Wait a second – who am I kidding?!

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[perpedes66Participant 259]

@donald J Trump

100% correct & f*** money burner!

After the honeymoon phase is over, marriage/relationships are miserable.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10950]

I used to hear this s~~~ too.
It’s kind of hard NOT the attract the wrong ones or not to look in the wrong places because AWALT and they are everywhere. I also used to hear how I was “not trying hard enough” or that I was “sending the wrong message out”. It’s all code speak by women which essentially says;
You aren’t attractive enough and that you don’t have enough resources or money for a woman to take advantage of.

She's not looking for love. She's looking for someone to finance the lifestyle that SHE thinks SHE deserves.

[sidecarParticipant 35862]

Women never accept any sort of responsibility for their choices or the choices of other women.

If you find yourself rejecting too many gold digging whores they say it’s your fault for attracting them.

If she keeps hooking up with bad boy loser after bad boy loser and “can’t find a good man” it’s their fault for being bad boy losers, not her fault for being attracted to them.

See the commonality? It’s always his fault to her. It’s always your fault. It’s never her fault.

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