YADDSM (Yet Another Don't Date Single Mothers) Article.

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  • #223509
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    Lurch
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    Don’t date single mothers.

    When it comes to catchy soundbites, reason 15 makes for an awesome one:

    “Carries Baggage, baggage and more baggage! A single mother has more issues than Time and Newsweek combined.”

    I know it’s cruel to think this, but this is why deep down I feel that once a women pop’s out a kid to a Chad, THAT is the ONLY man she is legally allowed to marry, until the child is 18/21 legal age.

    Make those “but he feels so right”, emotionaly compromised and easily fooled women live with their stupid mistakes. Maybe after 18 years of solo parenting, they will think different… then again, AWALT!

    Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
    MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

    #223516
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    Lurch
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    The real fun is in the comments. Full of hamstering and shaming language. Real battle of sexes in there.

    Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
    MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

    #223526
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    Nerevar
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    The real fun is in the comments. Full of hamstering and shaming language. Real battle of sexes in there.

    I read a couple and gods, female herd mentality all over (again), personally attacking the writer and any man who DARES to post a comment, it’s pathetic!

    I was scrolling for “not a real man”, “small penis”, “nawalt” and more of those typical replies and only found the latter. Mostly because I got bored reading those shaming tactics.

    Man I am SO GLAD I found mgtow.com!

    "One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

    #223533
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    RipTide
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    Dating and all that s~~~ is out of the question… women should be completely avoided. Only go to them when you are extremely desperate for sex…

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    BTW Hitler was raised by a single mother

    #223544
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    Nerevar
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    Dating and all that s~~~ is out of the question… women should be completely avoided. Only go to them when you are extremely desperate for sex…

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    BTW Hitler was raised by a single mother

    I thought his dad was there as well, but he used to beat his wife and kids, that’s why Adolf hated his old man. Alois Schiklgruber/Hitler died when Adolf was 13 or 14.

    "One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

    #223546
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    Anonymous
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    Only go to them when you are extremely desperate for sex…

    Your c~~~ can hardly tell the difference between a Fleshlight and the real thing.

    The few times I’ve dated single mothers have always had a very high suck factor. The ones I dated were very well preserved for having had kids. However, those 15 points are spot on the money.

    The kids are the worst part. They are not yours no matter what the age, and they will tell you to your face. Chances are they could be demons spawned from some Chad’s loins along with the genes of their idiot mother.

    Unless her ex-husband was a decent guy who died, she has a proven track record of making poor decisions. Many are alpha widows too who’d drop you in an instant to reunite with Baby Daddy.

    You’ll always be on unstable ground with single mothers. Avoid them at all costs.

    There’s a reason Lions and Chimps will kill the younglings of any vanquished alphas. Date a single mother, and you’ll find out exactly why they do that.

    #223547
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    FullMetalExo
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    What a beautiful read. It would definitely earn Tom Leykis’s seal of approval. Of course NAWALT (NAGALT), but why the f~~~ gamble on it ? Avoid.


    “POW!”
    Can’t approve for MGTOW or Tom, … only for myself approve this I will hmm. (c) Yoda

    PS. Number one cause of single mothers, are single mothers. (C) Tom Leykis.

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    #223573
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    Russky
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    Dating and all that s~~~ is out of the question… women should be completely avoided. Only go to them when you are extremely desperate for sex…

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    BTW Hitler was raised by a single mother

    I thought his dad was there as well, but he used to beat his wife and kids, that’s why Adolf hated his old man. Alois Schiklgruber/Hitler died when Adolf was 13 or 14.

    Hitler married a single mom and shot himself the very same day )))

    On a serious note: Same applies to most women. Just replace “single mom” with “woman” and “her kids” with “her future kids” and see what happens.

    Some critical thoughts on the article: The notion that single moms have feelings for their baby daddies and secretly want to reunite is blown out of proportion. It’s not the case in my case for sure. It’s the magical thinking on author’s part, and I think that’s because he’s not a father himself. If he was – he’d knew better

    proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

    #223584
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    Ogre
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    On a serious note: Same applies to most women. Just replace “single mom” with “woman” and “her kids” with “her future kids” and see what happens.

    @russky, I did exactly that as I read. I applied it to the reasons that my marriage went in the s~~~ter, looking at my wife as the single mom.

    Until you reach the Baby Daddy points it all lines up.

    The Russian on the Bear struck gold with his comment men. If you marry and have kids, at some point you will be the man trying to get her attention from the “most important things in her World”. That was you until she got what she really wanted.

    I remember what the site is for, but that thought deserves to be saved for posterity.

    I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

    #223594
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    Anonymous
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    The notion that single moms have feelings for their baby daddies and secretly want to reunite is blown out of proportion.

    Good point Russky, but the risk is real. I know some women who are over and done with their exs while others will never let one go. I can say the same thing about some guys I know too.

    I can be over any woman in less than 30 days from exiting any relations~~~ whereas when I was younger it took much longer.

    #223627
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    Russky
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    The notion that single moms have feelings for their baby daddies and secretly want to reunite is blown out of proportion.

    Good point Russky, but the risk is real. I know some women who are over and done with their exs while others will never let one go. I can say the same thing about some guys I know too.

    I can be over any woman in less than 30 days from exiting any relations~~~ whereas when I was younger it took much longer.

    True. I know the risk is there.
    Strong feelings for someone when your notch count was low don’t simply go away. Love is just like hard drug addiction – the good memories seem to be preserved much better than the bad ones. And you can’t wipe those memories out like a cassette tape. When your notch count is high – I’m guessing it’s a different story – no f~~~s given pretty much.
    But I’m convinced I’ll never take her back even if she wanted it. Good thing she’s on her second marriage now with a trendy super mangina, but I’m very well aware that if that doesn’t work out for them, and once she breaks up and if I’m better off than I was – she might try to pull it off.
    But to quote smart man Heraclitus: “No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.”
    I also work hard mentally to try and preserve all the bad memories, just to make sure I have them if and when it happens.
    She dug her own grave when she was spreading rumors that I was a wife beater rapist junkie. There is no way I’m forgiving her for it

    proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

    #223661
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    RipTide
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    I thought his dad was there as well, but he used to beat his wife and kids, that’s why Adolf hated his old man. Alois Schiklgruber/Hitler died when Adolf was 13 or 14.

    You’re right. That piece of s~~~ Dick Masterson said Hitler was raised by a single mother and I took his word for it. However, Hitler did not respect his father and did not submit to him. Instead, he vigorously rebelled against his father.

    That’s just as bad as being raised by a single mother if not worse. Sons MUST submit to fathers.

    Your c~~~ can hardly tell the difference between a Fleshlight and the real thing.

    Porn, whores and anonymous camsex are the best options. Too bad feminism has banned brothels or made whores EXTREMELY expensives.

    Whores have always been at the very bottom of society. They’ve always been very cheap. But now they are among the richest 5% in the West. Can you f~~~ing believe that.

    #223752
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    Sidecar
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    You don’t need fifteen reasons to reject single mothers. Just the fact that they are single mothers is enough. Single mothers are single for a reason. It doesn’t matter what the reason is because it’s never good. Ever.

    With a childless woman there’s always a slight chance she might turn out to be a mythical NAWALT unicorn, but a single mother has already conclusively proven she is as AWALT as they come.

    #223770
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    Narwhal
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    I haven’t really seen a single mom try and get the old man back, however, they do still have an emotional attachment to him in one way or another. It’s usually subtle but it’s there. It is a man that use to be under her control at one time, and she wants to know “she’s still got it”

    I noticed this recently from my ex. She was having issues with our son, not really a big deal, but she was looking for emotional support so she called me, even though she has a husband. She wanted me to play the same dominant role I did when we were married. It just seemed odd to me, as I would never ask her for parenting advice, I would only tell her what I’m doing about any issues after the fact so we can be on the same page.

    As for the list in general, some of the items seem to be repeating themselves. Some, like how the kids feel about the new guy, is common, but also common for that not to be true. My kids like their step dad and step brothers/sister and have asked me to date more. Others, like the priority of her guy, is absolutely true. They will tell you that as an honorable man, you should be understanding of your places…completely forgetting that you need a reason to be there in the first place.

    Ok. Then do it.

    #223789
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    FearlessMGHOW
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    I have plenty of single moms in my family. Every single one of them are on welfare and food stamps. And these bitches just keep popping out more kids to get MORE food stamps and welfare checks. That alone is enough to keep your dick away from single moms.

    Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

    #223796
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    MgtowWave
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    Single mothers are a liability,a hassle and a hazard guys.As all women are but even moreso.
    She the single mother is a liability herself AND the kids are a liability.
    The childs father is a liability too.
    In some places if you develop a relationship with the child you can be put on the hook for childsupport.
    If a kid happens to fall down and get hurt you could be charged with child abuse.
    Kids do stupid stuff.
    When my son was little he got mad at me and sunk his teeth in my arm.
    If the childs father could be jelious .
    I told my exes last husband if he wants to stay alive to not hit my son.

    We got to be friends later btw.

    A woman who does not put her kids first like say American woman Casey Anthony is a POS mother.
    A woman who hurts her kids as a lot of single mothers do would blame you to get off the hook.Who are the police and people going to believe???

    HER!!!

    Single mothers are an expense.She has kids to be financally responsible for and would expect you to understand that.

    Many many things.

    We are MGTOW.Not MRAs I thought we would all know about all these things

    frankly my dear i don't give a damn

    #223817
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    MgtowWave
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    As for the conments sent to this article.

    Imagine a field of cows ,instead of making a Mooo sound they say Naawwalt.

    I have heard that s~~~ before.

    A woman who wants to keep you will be honest and tell you AWALT.

    frankly my dear i don't give a damn

    #223874
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    Beer
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    Comments are pretty good…typical woman s~~~…they think they get to dictate to us men what we should and should not find attractive, and what types of bulls~~~ we should put up with in relationships. They can call me “not a real man” all they want, but as a real man I’ll say you aren’t worth my time, energy, or resources when there are plenty of women out there with no children.

    The fact is…as men women hold us accountable for our life decisions. If a 35 year old guy works part time at McDonald’s and lives in his parent’s basement with no education or ambition in life…would they date him? Hell no, they’d call him a loser and move along to the next guy because they do not approve of his life decisions that put him in the position he is in…yet you tell a woman you don’t want to date her because you don’t approve of her past and don’t think she’s in a good place in life and you are a dick lol.

    Additionally…I know a lot of childless women who will not date single dads. A lot of the reasons I’ve heard from them are similar to guys not wanting to date single moms…plus almost all of them recognize that the guy can’t back her/her kids with 100% of his resources because a % of them is already spoken for by previous baby mama(s).

    The other thing I noticed, other than every single mom poster on the thread being “not like that,” is that almost every one that claimed to have moved on and found another (real) man and ended up happily ever after found another man who also had kids. Maybe single dad + single mom = same place in life. They are both going to have the same limitations and responsibilities at that point in their life. As a single guy with no kids, if I was going to have a girlfriend its sure as hell going to be one in the same place in her life I’m in…one that other than the basic trappings of working 40 hours a week at her job is largely responsibility free and would be available for plenty of booty calls, date nights, and fun weekends together. Its not that I’d spend my life running from the responsibility of children, or that any woman bearing signs of child birth on her body is hideous…its that I don’t want to deal with any of the aftermath of a woman having children WHEN THE CHILDREN AREN’T EVEN MINE! Single mommies seem to not be able to make that distinction…if she lost some of her hotness birthing 3 kids to me I’d respect her for it…if she lost it popping out 3 kids with a thug who ended up in jail, I just consider her used goods with baggage.

    #224191
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    Frank V.
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    @lurch

    You have sold me on not bothering with single mothers again.

    With props.

    Frank V.

    #224243
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    Dr. Sable
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    Good article but nothing new here.
    Lots of times it has been written about not dating single mothers with kids but all too often stories like that get buried among and by an avalanche of stupid brain deadening media.

    However, it pays to re write or re publish stuff like that. As for all the negative responses it got, is it any surprise ? Lies and denial are a female mantra.

    Zero Tolerance

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