Writer Advises Her Readers to Break Nice Guy's Hearts

[JimboParticipant 162]

Serin Edger posted a video on YouTube about this Article and I think it is one EVERY man should read before being the White Knight to his significant other:

http://elitedaily.com/dating/nice-guys-heart-broken/871973/

Guys, if anyone ever feels guilty about being a dick to Ms Strong Independent Woman, that is the article you need to read.  Hypergamy, anyone?

It is a clear illustration on why white-knighting is a self-destructive path and why we should strive not only to avoid falling into that trap ourselves but to also strive to educate our other friends who are having trouble in their relationships.

Now, I am often told that when I “act like a dick” to the woman I am dating, I am going to “end up alone”.  Well, this article is evidence that if you White-Knight, you will not only “end up alone” but will have lost even more in the end.  This article is definitely worth reading if you want to have a clear picture into the mind of the modern princess in her prime.  It is also a good read if you were ever curious about that c~~~ (who hasn’t realized she’s hit the wall) who is alone in life, obese, ugly, and yet still thinks she deserves a 10.

 

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I bet I can guess what makes her toes curl and takes her breath away…

Rustlers, cut throats, murderers, bounty hunters, desperados, mugs, pugs, thugs, nitwits, halfwits, dimwits, vipers, snipers, con-men, Indian agents, Mexican bandits, muggers, buggerers, bushwhackers, hornswogglers, horse thieves, bull dykes, train robbers, bank robbers, ass-kickers, s~~~-kickers and Methodists.

[JimboParticipant 162]

docfenderson You’d be right.  And after she hits the wall, cats will be on that list too.

[F4CCParticipant 20]

Well good for the author, she forgot some points. First make sure you run the guy through several iterations of your special kind of craziness. Second, make sure you are able to get him to buy you s~~~ that you can’t or won’t buy for yourself.   And finally, and this is the most important, make sure he thinks that’s he’s the reason for your f~~~ed up behavior, throw in a few cheating episodes for good measure. I may have missed a few points here.  The article that needs to be written is what is being said on this forum, for men to have eyes wide open on this relationship BS or face life long consequences.

[Anonymous 0]

Interestingly enough, if you read the comments below the article, most people (both men and women of various age groups) actually disagree with her.  Perhaps there’s still hope.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Well good for the author, she forgot some points.

Yeah, and you’ve got to make damn sure you string him along for months or years by suggesting you *might* f~~~ him if he says or does just the right thing or if the chips are down for you badly enough… all the while, of course, complaining to him about all the dudes that you are *actually* f~~~ing.

That’s the thing that gets me about the whole nice guy situation: you can’t really feel bad for the guy any more than you can be angry at the female because they’re both using each other… her for emotional support, stability and free s~~~ and him for self-validation, cuddles and the distant hope of a blow job.

There are no true heroes in this battle. And in a way the author is right… she’s advocating that these young females actually kick the nice guy to the curb once and for all to set him free of his own hopeless desire and so that she can distance herself from their emotional drama enabling. If all queen bees fired all their orbiter drones, they’d all actually be a lot better off.

[coolsideofthepillowParticipant 190]

The funny thing is women don’t honestly like REAL bad boys. They like ones that are half assed. When I was younger I was a REAL bad boy, I got arrested at least once a year, drank from morning till night, did drugs constantly and was extremely quick tempered….it was WAAYY too much for them to handle lol.I wouldn’t put up with ANY of their bulls~~~, if they said one thing wrong or p~~~ed me off in the smallest way or told me to stop drinking they would immediately be gone. Since those days I have completely changed but I still laugh at all the memories of girls getting exactly what they asked for and then finding out that a bad boy isn’t so much fun to be around after all lol.

[Jim01Participant 6678]

speechless reading that but her bio says it all…
A N.Y. native, Desiree attended the University at Albany where she earned her B.A. in Journalism and English. Her interests include yoga, healthy living, reading, interior design, cooking, relationships, travel, wine and sarcasm.

a classic middle class princess who is trying to be like one of her idols out of Sex in the City but will end up miserable. Never been happier to be MGTOW!

[VileNordParticipant 766]

This turd was s~~~ out by a women who acts all prim and proper in an effort to mask her egregious self-loathing.

It is my understanding that if a man is in a relationship with a women who has issues of self-worth, and he treats her like a princess, then she will find herself in an emotional quagmire. His actions have made her question her beliefs about herself and have brought her out of her comfort zone.

She believes, deep down, that she is not worthy of this kindness. It makes her uncomfortable and therefore she must either change her beliefs about her self or find a man whose actions belittle her. Because that is where she is comfortable.

Lust for comfort suffocates the soul

[Zoby TwoParticipant 83]

Well … I totally agree with this woman. As a woman, she can have all men she wants.  And don’t be so naive, dear brothers : when she will be 40, she will choose a nice guy around in order to get pregnant.  There are a lot a nice guys alone and these men would be happy to have a slut to marry them.

The only power men have have is to not enter in that game. DO NOT ENTER and you will have a happy life.

 

[MjolnirParticipant 23]

In some ways it is good if the nice guys hearts get broken. I hate myself for saying this but this is the way a lot of men gets waken up from their nice guy or white knighting ways. How many men here is here because they got their heart broken? I was a nice guy when I was in my teens because of several reasons, mainly women around me taught me that it’s how you should be and a bit deeper reason I’ll write about later. Anyway after getting my heart broken I found PUA and I started acting like a bad boy and women responded well to it and I got utterly disgusted by this. Everything I was taught was a lie.

Nice guys are not really “nice” though. I have been thinking a lot as to why nice guys are so unattractive. There is nothing to relate to in life, the overall niceness just takes away all humanity from the person. So many nice guys use their niceness as a defense mechanism to avoid conflict or to avoid sharing who they really are underneath. They have no self respect or sense of self worth at all since they hide their personalities so no one can see them. I am not sure if this is due to a bad attachment to he primary caregiver as a child, abuse, bullying or other things which trashes self worth or something else but it is in the nice guys interest to learn how to connect properly with other people. Not only to avoid getting their heart broken but also to experience meaningful relationships. Being nice all the time doesn’t give any meaning in a relationship.

As for the girl in the article. As someone responded “I hope you like living with cats.”.

[In Which We ServeParticipant 111]

LOL this article has so many cliches it’s as if it was written by a machine. It’s an absolute classic example of how modern relationships and marriage are totally pointless. Even if the man is the kindest, most loyal, most hardworking, most loving man in the world, he will never be good enough for an entitled princess such as this author, because he does not ‘make her toes curl’ or live up to whatever unattainable nonsensical standard she believes is her right.

She will never be happy, because she will always be looking for the bigger, better deal.

Can you imagine a man saying of his woman, ‘she’s kind, beautiful, loving, sexy as hell and grants me my every wish…but yaknow…there’s something MISSING…’

Just crazy.

[whatdoesntkillyoumakesyoustrongerParticipant 15]

Before I go any further and comment to your post. I’ve read the article and saw suggestions like the following:

http://elitedaily.com/dating/the-nice-guy-dilemma-why-so-many-nice-guys-are-really/645240/

These articles fuel my fire, my passion, my happiness towards a MGHOW life. If men are assholes anyway, I have no problem living up to that. What the f~~~ is wrong with people nowadays…

 

EDIT: I suggest you read the article given above as well. It’s just hilarious reading it.

And I have to second the comment of a MGTOW above – At least the comments in regards to those articles seem to have a healthy, realistic spirit. There might be hope, though such articles do not help to display a healthy approach towards relationships, nor the equality between men and women.

[John DoeParticipant 743]

The funny thing is women don’t honestly like REAL bad boys. They like ones that are half assed.

Very true,  I just realized this when you brought it up.  Never thought of it until now, but you are right.

I wouldn’t put up with ANY of their bulls~~~, if they said one thing wrong or p~~~ed me off in the smallest way or told me to stop drinking they would immediately be gone.

I have done the same.  Got p~~~ed off about her behavior during a “date”.  Grab her stuff out of my car, threw it at her feet, and said “Get out my sight you useless piece of garbage”(or whore [can’t remember which]).  She quit her job the next day without a word (we worked together).  Boss was confused as hell, no clue what was going on.

[TheNinjaUWannaH8Participant 386]

What a Monkey Bitch-Ass Article!

Coolside said ” The funny thing is women don’t honestly like REAL bad boys. They like ones that are half-assed.

Agreed.  They can’t surely can’t handle the Super Saiyan Asshole Level 7  who comes home and punch her in her Pussy for greeting him with “Hi Babe, How was your day?”

Like Chris Rock would say in his old routine…”I’m not saying you should punch a woman in her Pussy, but I Understand!”

We’d all agree that Asshole Saiyan Level 7 is probably excessive force…But a True Asshole Dude wouldn’t give a Fruck!  He’ll make her toes curl and her blood clot.  She made her Bed with the Asshole. Let her lie in her bloody sheets.   Dummy Hoe.

Believe me, the Author and Bitches like her will be the first in their post 40s Divorce with three kids searching out that “Nice Guy” to see if he is still available….with some “Out of all of the relationships I have had in my past, you are the only one who I have had some real love for.”

Been that Nice Guy.  Now I am Captain Asshole to Bitches.  And Hoes.  Let’s not forget Dem Hoes.  They ain’t Shiet Either.

Say it after me now…

Pump and Dump and Ghost.

Pump and Dump and Ghost.

Pump and Dump and Ghost.

Pump and Dump and Ghost!

Hoodi-Whoo!

 

[Cap285Participant 6007]

I’m not worried as the influx of “I can’t find a man” video and articles keep coming at an alarming rate. I she hasn’t hit the Wall, she’ll change when she does.

Fuck this planet.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

The clichés women subscribe to….I had to laugh out loud at: “Loving him means letting him go.” Perfect example of how women read t-shirts and cards and puke up that s~~~ as a guide to how to live their lives, and then pass it on as “advice” for others as some kind of authority.

Pathetic and hilarious – when considering if you scroll down the page, you will find another one called:

5 Reasons Why Women Love Assh*les Even Though The Nice Guy Is Worth Waiting For

http://elitedaily.com/dating/truth-behind-women-love-aholes/714475/

Classic hamsterbation from the same hypocrite publication.

“The Nice Guy Is Worth Waiting For”…..
But “Breaking Mr. Nice Guy’s Heart May Be The Best Decision Of Your Life”.

Jesus Christ.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[John DoeParticipant 743]

hamsterbation

 

LOL.  Never heard that one.

[JimboParticipant 162]

“Classic hamsterbation from the same hypocrite publication.”

 

Spot on Keymaster.

Anyone who actually takes the time to read what they are saying in this publication can see that there are a lot of direct contradictions.  Even though it is obvious the publication is worthless for women to follow due to the all the direct contradictions, women still buy into it.

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