Would you run like the wind?

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

Just because she did ONE thing better than the others, you think she is an unicorn?

No, brother. She is not. AWALT.

Just tell her her time is over, and it was over years ago when you tried to hook up with her and never worked. So, no point in trying right now.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

Any chance she’s after some baby batter? Maybe she thinks yours would work just fine.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

All very good replies.

Old Bill- yes I’ve learnt a hell of a lot since I’ve been on here. I guess I was sounding out you guys, reinforcing something that I already suspect. I guess it’s the case of “fool me once etc etc”.

Thank you for all of your replies. This woman is literally popping up everywhere I go at the minute, so like Matrix said I’m thinking that she is on a asset gripping/making babies spree as she’s up against the wall.

[Anonymous 42]

[narwhalParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

e pays because she doesn’t want to be beholden to you in any way.

Bingo. That’s been my experience as well. She wants to claim ‘just friends’ when the opportunity Chad comes along. She wants to make sure that if things go poorly, she can claim you’re the psycho neighbor who couldn’t handle rejection. All that crap.

But of course, if she has you pay for everything, then she’s just using you, right? She’s doing something wrong no matter what she does, right? No.

There is such a thing as trust without abuse. This is what friends do all the time. “All get this one, you get the next one.” They offer to pay as a gift to a friend. They don’t keep tabs but they know they aren’t taking advantage of each other.

Maybe one of the best dates I’ve ever had was where I paid dinner, she paid drinks after. She chose the after dinner bar and did not go cheap.

Again though, not AWALT. For your particular case, the fact that she wanted to go dutch is really irrelevant. The better question, why is she suddenly showing more interest in you?

Ok. Then do it.

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