Women Thinking About Another Man During Sex

[Anonymous 3]

Anybody has experience or stories about this?

Now, obviously, I can never know for certain what another person is thinking about at any time. But I remember one time, long story short, a girl was really into me but we never really hit it off. She had sex with her ex one time. Came to me the next day and told me how she was thinking about me the entire time and really wished the person f~~~ing her in the dark was me.

I didn’t think too much of it at the time. Was appalled that she would lust after one guy but f~~~ another, basically used him as a dildo, and talk about the guy behind his back in that light, wonder how he would have felt had he knew about that conversation. I kind of just put it in the s~~~ test category. You should be taking most of what women say with a grain of salt anyway. But still, it begs the question, how much of that is the truth?

I have a feeling a ton of women do this. There was a study posted here recently about women finding 80% of men looking below average in terms of attractiveness. Surely the well off beta provider guy isn’t getting their panties wet, so they fantasize about some wild man raping them during the sex act.

[Anonymous 54]

Men are more visual,women more fantasy oriented. You bet she’s thinking about some one else. Gorge Clooney,Brad Pitt ,you get the idea.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

As a rule, I fantasized about other women when having sex with my ex-wife during one of her rare horny spells.

Then again, I could have a better sexual episode with my fist than with her.

We had great sex when were dating and engaged but after the marriage her sexual drive and overall energy vaporized.

If anyone tells you that women are like wine because they both improve with time and age is a shameless liar that is probably being compensated by the National Organization of Women (NOW).

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[experiencedParticipant]

Seeing a laydee lead a man around by the hand at the store
has always made me think that he’s just
“a living dildo with life support” to her.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 3]

Yeah, I can imagine that, being stuck in a dreadful relationship with an unattractive, moody hag, you have no choice but to put the mind to work. I never really got that far in any of my past relationships so I guess I was lucky. Plus, all the women I’ve been with were all attractive enough for arousal at the very least.

Certainly both men and women have the ability to do the same thing, but since the 80/20 rule works in reverse for women: Men are attracted to 80% of women, women are attracted to 20% of men. Women as a whole have to be doing it a lot more than men, especially when they are more fantasy orientated, as Old Sage has pointed out.

[RoyDalParticipant]

This is a still shot from the movie L.A. Story. That is a woman and a man in that bed.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

@ RoyDal: I remember that flick back in the days; great funny scene there, spot on pal.

Maybe women should at least every now and then be glad we can’t read their thoughts all the time, because in this case (if we could) it probably wouldn’t be quite that beneficial to her or would it…?

Women don’t know what they want, whether it should be mister “right” or mister right-now or mister just-about-good-enough-thug- for-now… … ah well.

N F G

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[Learn2L8Participant 86]

If you are f~~~ing a post-wall woman, and you can’t keep it hard or can’t get to your nut, then think of her younger pre-wall mature daughter, and you will bust nut before you know it.

They do it do us, its only fair.

[narwhalParticipant]

To me, it’s hard for me to understand how that even works. Perhaps I don’t have enough imagination or something. I can’t think of a time when I slept with a woman and was imagining her as someone else. No one’s ever told that to me either.

The closest thing I’ve seen to that is watching porn during sex. It’s obviously possible to be watching sex and being stimulated by what you see more so that who are actually doing it with. I really didn’t care for the experience. I much prefer to focus on who I’m with and not have there being any doubt about why I’m there. Conversely, I never felt like she was more into the porn then she was into me.

Obviously, masturbation is different, as I’m obviously thinking about a woman I’m not with at the time.

If a woman told me she was thinking about me while having sex with another guy, or another guy when she was with me, I don’t think I would believe her. Given her manipulative nature, there are plenty of motivations for making such a statement ranging from attention getting to alleviating guilt feelings. Whatever. That’s probably something that I wouldn’t bother dignifying with a response.

Ok. Then do it.

[Anonymous 18]

Soldier-Medic wrote:

As a rule, I fantasized about other women when having sex with my ex-wife during one of her rare horny spells.

Man that’s hilarious. Imagine her finding out… If she was the type who’d ask for an apology because she had a dream about you cheating on her… then it wouldn’t have ended well for you.

But its quite another thing using someone subtly without actually using them outright. Right up women’s alley.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

They do it for sure. No doubt. I have been told I have been fantasized about while having sex with husband or boyfriend. I did it one time in 20 years to my wife. I felt guilty afterwards. They don’t. However, they will never tell you this, unless you are the fantasy. Women don’t admit s~~~ unless they’re in a fit of rage and basically done with you, anyway. There are better than us at covering up their disgusting habits.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Soldier-Medic wrote:

If anyone tells you that women are like wine because they both improve with time and age is a shameless liar that is probably being compensated by the National Organization of Women (NOW).

No, MEN age like wine. Women age like milk.

Anonymous wrote:

Man that’s hilarious. Imagine her finding out… If she was the type who’d ask for an apology because she had a dream about you cheating on her… then it wouldn’t have ended well for you.

Depends on the girl. The one I’m currently seeing occasionally has no problem with me watching porn while we do it. She know I’m picturing myself with the chicks on the screen instead of her and seems fine with it. Of course she’s old school asian, so there’s that.

Too bad I’m not really attracted to asian women (not primarily, but hey, you know how it is).

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Oh I should add – I wouldn’t be seeing her at all if it wasn’t for this and the massages. I’ve walked away from other women because they had a problem with the fleshlight (unrelated to thye above, but you get the idea).

Yes, when it comes to choosing between the fleshlight and the real thing, fleshlight wins every time.

Best comment ever about it: “How am I supposed to compete with that?”

Exactly my dear, exactly.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

C~~~s want every man, once they get him, their have a fantasy over a different guy.

Just huge circle, that’s why c~~~s never get anywhere in life.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[IAmManParticipant 228]

If my ex was having sex with some jarhead while we were dating and then with random peeps while we were married and then immediately when she left = little time thinking about me. I guess while we were in the sack her mind must have graced me by acknowledging my lowly presence momentarily. For this I was forever grateful that for a mere second she remembered who’s penis was in her…
Just kidding she was a bitch. Glad to be rid of a dead fish in the sack. My hand and a bottle of lube was an upgrade.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

IAmMan wrote:

If my ex was having sex with some jarhead while we were dating

Well if he was a Jarhead, at least you have the satisfaction of know you’re helping serve your country.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[HitmanParticipant]

In high school I had a hot girlfriend. .One day I told her to put on her sisters clothes, panties and all. .and told her I was going to call her by her sisters name.
She did it .
She told me that she thought about some actor she liked sometimes. .
I didn’t care at all.

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