Women the best parents?

[BritGHOWParticipant 2566]

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3091348/Social-services-fly-six-month-old-baby-boy-Bratislava-Slovakian-mother-moved-UK-decided-no-longer-wanted-settling-new-life-England.html

This one has really got my back up, this c~~~ walks into my country, and abandons her own flesh and blood into the care of social services who then deport the child back to their country of origin while letting the c~~~ remain here.

I can only hope that the Slovakian authorities can now find this innocent child a worthy family and that he makes his life into something that she will crawl to be a part of, and then kicks her to the curb as she has done to him now. C~~~

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Men love women

Men love children

Women love shoes

The only mothering instinct is a child’s ability to attract assets.

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

Children are indeed often just another way of getting attention, for women, especially when a child’s sick, some women often will stop at nothing, making a scene, to be granted loads and loads of attention/pity.

[MitzrealParticipant 76]

This is sadly true, especially with the epidemic of single mothers out there just looking to enslave some mangina/bluepill/white knight to supporting her and her kid and raising the kid as well.

Good luck sweeties, not my sperm not my problem.

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

As Schopenhauer said, women get on well with kids because they’re basically over-sized children.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[Anonymous 1]

Goddammit…

And then people have the gall to say WOMEN are more NURTUTING and CARING then MEN, because testosterone (or other bulls~~~ like that).

Give me a f~~~ing break.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

i read somewhere that children raised by single dads fare much better than children raised by single moms.  it’s not a competition but it shows that assumptions made by the courts aren’t correct.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[GrumpyParticipant]

I raised my daughter (sole custody from 18 months to 18 years old). She just moved out, and  she is doing OK. No child support period, minimal contact with her mother or her mothers family. Usually she/they either wanted something from me, or were causing drama, when they decided to contact or visit her. My whole support network was my friends, my family, and my regiment. Apparently I did a good job, according to both men and women that know me. My career suffered a bit, still able to deploy on demand yet I managed it. (Slightly off topic now)As a single custodial dad I wasn’t good enough for a relations~~~, so IMHO a single mother isn’t either.

The best parent is the one who actually does the parenting, not being an over priced baby sitter most “mothers” seem to have become.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[SteveParticipant 462]

Good on you Grumpy – I may be heading down your path in the not too distant future.

[GrumpyParticipant]

@Progenitor

Good on you, it can get a bit rough at times. However it was worth it for me and my demon spawn. She dreaded the biology lessons more than i did lol

Single fathers don’t have any of the resources available to those poor oppressed single moms.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[DilbertParticipant 281]

Men and women have some overlapping but mostly different roles, approaches, and styles to parenting.  What’s best is if a child can get both, but only in the manner they *should* be performed in the family context.  But for women who don’t want to be women, how can they fulfill the female role of parenting?  Same for blue-pill manginas.

As for the single parent situation, if a man steps up like Grumpy did, I think he can be better at compensating for the absence of a mom, more so than a woman who steps up in compensating for a missing dad.

If the single mom or dad doesn’t step up to the job then it sucks for the kid no matter what.

It is for very good reasons the Devil chose to tempt Eve not Adam...

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

The Tender Years Doctrine is full of s~~~.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Grumpy wrote:

I raised my daughter (sole custody from 18 months to 18 years old). She just moved out, and she is doing OK. No child support period, minimal contact with her mother or her mothers family. Usually she/they either wanted something from me, or were causing drama, when they decided to contact or visit her. My whole support network was my friends, my family, and my regiment. Apparently I did a good job, according to both men and women that know me. My career suffered a bit, still able to deploy on demand yet I managed it. (Slightly off topic now)As a single custodial dad I wasn’t good enough for a relations~~~, so IMHO a single mother isn’t either. The best parent is the one who actually does the parenting, not being an over priced baby sitter most “mothers” seem to have become.

Good too hear another long term dad. You almost mimic my situation.

It was so f~~~ing hard at the start for me.

No ‘male’ baby changing rooms. All in female toilets.

Having to instruct her on how to enter a female toilet and what to do. I got arrested taking her in a male toilet.

I even got stopped leaving a mall with her.

Men do make the best parent overall. And they have the system loaded against them. Everywhere I went, if it was anything official, I was told I must have mothers permission. Even after producing a court order.

I even had to take passport office to court.

So so good hearing from another dad.

Thank you bro.

[jack reacherParticipant 751]

the lie about woman as intrinsically nurturing caregivers is total bull s~~~ that needs to stop being promoted.

as soon as bitches get some money they abandon having kids. Lowering birth rates in all affluent nations.

bitches are more than happy to use children as pawns in divorce, most of which the woman will initiate. And in most cases the fathers will not get custody, his access to the children will be restricted, and the kids grow up in some gynocentric environment where all the bitches neuroses and relationship failures will be played out on these kids.

We know that children in single parent homes headed by women are far more prone to abuse.See table 4.4 in the link, 27.4 % of child fatalities in single parent homes headed by women in 2013. This is the leading stat in that category, higher than all other household types.

http://facesofchildabuse.org/stats-facts.html

mothers are more than happy to accept declining success rates for boys in schools and universities.

And lets not forget their right to abort children, a right that is often exercised.

No one will say they dont care about kids, but the current state of conditions reflects quite the opposite.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

I still stand by the position that a child needs a mother and father that are able to establish a harmonious household, or at least something resembling that. It’s the only reason to consider marriage in the first place. No reason for a man to be legally bound to a woman other than to ensure that his offspring is raised properly.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[SoldanoParticipant 108]

The best parents are parents,

That is an entity composed of:

– A mother

– A Father

 

A Mother without a dad is no “parents”.

She’s just a Mother.

[DilbertParticipant 281]

JollyMisanthrope wrote:

I still stand by the position that a child needs a mother and father that are able to establish a harmonious household, or at least something resembling that. It’s the only reason to consider marriage in the first place. No reason for a man to be legally bound to a woman other than to ensure that his offspring is raised properly.

I agree and two parents is the ideal but only in the context of a home where the father is respected and followed by all (including mom).

However, that ideal home was just one of the many casualties of feminism.  Based on their own experiences a lot of the men posting here can’t fathom the idea of women as competent parents.

Becoming a parent is like moving to a foreign culture.  If you chose to do it and knew what you were getting into it is a big challenge but one you embrace and master.  If you didn’t choose to do it, or didn’t realize what was coming, you won’t like it and will do badly.  If caught in the latter situation more men than women will rise to the occasion and do well for the kid’s sake.

It is for very good reasons the Devil chose to tempt Eve not Adam...

[SteveParticipant 462]

Dilbert – spot on.

Men folk are the natural leaders of a family. I’m not religious but agree with head of the household status.

Feminist bulls~~~ has totally undermined and destroyed that respect for man as the leader. First in the home then outside at work.

You f~~~ things up at home and show this example to kids then society is f~~~ed in no time.

It’s a difficult problem to address but all I can do is try and lead my family. I have to control my wife and squash any minor disrespect hard. I don’t want to but she’s getting fed this feminist bulls~~~ from her friends, her mother, TV, Internet. If she escalates too much she’s gone and I’m raising my son myself. He’ll get a balanced rationale view of the world even if iv got to break up the family.

Of course his mother has requested he can’t have sex before he is married. No f~~~ing way am I letting that happen to the little fella.  Sex as a blackmail weapon leading to a rigged business contract??? She has no idea who she is dealing with poor cow.

 

[GrumpyParticipant]

I believe children need positive influences and role models, both male and female. The role of a positive parental figure doesn’t require it to be biological, however a vested interest in the child’s well being is what matters most. Not some government mandate. I made sure my daughter had exposure to decent (by my standards) people, including family and friends. Which helped me be a better parent, and hopefully helped her to grow up to be a responsible adult. Only time will tell.

 

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

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