Women telling other women – "the best time to get pregnant is now. Don't wait"

[IRuleMeParticipant]

http://nypost.com/2017/06/25/the-best-time-to-get-pregnant-is-right-now/

The best time to get pregnant is right now

‘Are you ready for a baby?” ask the headlines in women’s magazines — and also nosy people in your life.

Recently, the British site Stylist had a feature about the perfect time to have a baby. They note a recent survey showing a third of women wanting to have comfortable savings and owning a home first.

The story continued: “Meanwhile, the bucket list — once restricted to things to do before you die — now pops up on parenting websites, in the guise of ‘things to do before you get pregnant’, on the premise that there won’t be a lot of bungee jumping going on once you’ve given birth. There is a sense that we need to get our (metaphorical and literal) houses in order — and live a little — before we take the plunge.”

You’re having a child, not dying (kicking the bucket), so why do you need a bucket list? Since when do we have this strange notion that having a family is what we do when we’re all done having a life?

“Doing it before you are ready could cause resentment towards your new lifestyle, partner and baby,” Stylist quotes Beth Follini as saying. Follini is, “a life coach who helps women decide whether or not they want children” — because apparently that’s a thing now.

There’s this idea that there comes a point in your life when everything can pause for a bit as you take time off to have a baby, secure in your finances and the knowledge your career will pick up right where it left off. It doesn’t actually work like that — for women or men.

At the start of your career, you’re new and mostly replaceable. As you climb your career ladder, you take on more responsibilities making it harder to step away. As for the resentment, life is filled with various resentments no matter which road you take: Have the kid, resent how your life has changed; don’t have the kid, resent how your life hasn’t changed.

It’s not just women being told they have to accomplish everything they’ve ever dreamed of before getting started on a family. A new book from conservative writer John Hawkins, “101 things all young adults should know,” has plenty of solid advice. But No. 79 is: “If you can’t support yourself, don’t get married and have children.”

Hawkins writes that financial problems can strain a marriage. That’s true, of course. But his idea that “this is something to think about if you’re thinking of having a kid or getting married young before you start making real money” is where he gets it wrong. Any number of things can strain a marriage, very much including “making real money,” which can require long hours away from the family and gives the family grist to argue over how it gets spent.

Successful marriages have two people working toward the same goals. Not having reached those objectives in advance isn’t a liability for a couple and there’s no guarantee of a financially secure couple making it work, either.

The fact is that being financially comfortable is a fleeting feeling. As we make more money, our expenses tend to go up. You get a nicer car, a bigger house, better vacations. We’re a country of spenders.

I wrote in these pages last September how half of Americans making $100,000 to $150,000 have less than $1,000 in savings, with 18 percent of those having no savings at all.

They’re making “real” money, should they be having children?

The twist is that having children can often be the grounding experience that people require. Earlier this month, Sen. Marco Rubio tweeted his support for Ivanka Trump’s paid-family leave ideas, saying, “In America, no family should be forced to put off having children due to economic insecurity.”

Writing in The Federalist, Mollie Hemingway challenged Hawkins’ idea that people should wait for the “right time” financially to have children. About her own experience, Hemingway wrote: “We were more productive and successful with what we did, because we had to be.”

Hemingway also repeats her father’s advice: “If you wait until you have enough money to have children, you will never have children.”

That’s the thing about having kids, there’s no right or wrong time to have them. Are you ready for a baby? No one actually is.

And guess what? You’re still allowed to bungee jump or procrastinate on writing your novel after they arrive. There’s no rule that says you have to own your own home or have made partner at your firm.

You can have all the money and still be a terrible parent or have very little of it and win at parenthood daily. Aim for the parenthood winning and let the rest fall into place.

Children are not a financial investment. They’re a financial burden. Guys are recognizing this, which is why women feel the need to “trap” men with pregnancies. Stay away from this s~~~. Because this is the kind of irrational thinking females are telling other females. “Don’t worry if you can’t afford it, just have babies! Have them NOW, DAMN IT!!!!”

Women already feel pressure because they know menopause is around the corner, and they know every year they’re losing more and more of their fertility, so women do not want other women to wait. “Go, have children! Hurry!” Men are seeing the cost, they’re understanding that the system is financially draining them so they couldn’t afford it if they wanted to, but also more and more men are seeing how custody battles play out and are saying “NO MA’AM!”

The author of this article – female – is so desperate for women to have babies she’s shaming men (as all people to try to pressure others in life will do) and women for living their lives. “Bucket list? Why do you need a bucket list? You’re not dying. Have a baby instead”. See, they need to feed the machine.

Because that’s how they’ve been programmed and with government putting propaganda scare tactics about the “alarming rate of population decline (which is code for, less people equal less tax payers to fund their s~~~)” putting nonsense in people’s heads, the smart ones are recognizing that bringing a child into the world is putting that child in a disadvantaged situation.

Hear that men? They’re telling you to put all the s~~~ you’ve ever wanted to do on hold to hurry up and make a little crying monster that will keep you up all night and drain your finances for the rest of your life.

I say, “F~~~ that s~~~!”

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

I hear ya bro.

The world population is increasing by over 202,000 people a day. That’s births minus deaths people. 74 million a year increase.

Ffs. Not gonna end well.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Can you believe how much the feminist narrative has changed? Not many years ago feminists were screaming about putting off having children for as long as possible because it hindered their competitiveness in the workforce.

This is the result of too many men jumping off the feminist bandwagon.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[Anonymous 6]

Wait women flip flopping on stuff? What a surprise!! I’m glad the birth rate is falling. It’s about time. I hope it falls further.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

No worries. The sperminator will help these women out..

http://nypost.com/2017/06/17/sperminator-has-sired-dozens-of-kids-and-there-could-be-more-coming/

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Here’s the thing. A woman’s reproductive window is short. The right time, biologically speaking, for a woman to get pregnant is as soon as she is physically capable of carrying a baby to term.

Socially speaking, the right time for a woman to get pregnant used to be when she’d secured the protection and provision of a man with the capability to do so for the duration of her life and the child’s adolescence.

Now that the government will side with her in a custody dispute, extract child support and, outright pay for her to reproduce, the right time is as soon as she can entrap some poor schmuck to donate some semen.

The right time for a man to get a woman pregnant, for the record, is when he’s ready to stop living his life for himself OR when he’s on vacation anonymously in another country.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

The best time to get a vasectomy is now. Don’t wait.

[AttonParticipant]

Love to see what happens if male birth control finds it way into this.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I.e. population is dropping… breed.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

NFN, pop. is dropping in many countries such as Canada, Europe and Japan. There is some truth to pop. replenishment facing a steep decline. But, this article, again is pointless and a very dump idea. One (or two) doesn’t create a life because it’s a goal of theirs. It’s really not that hard to do (at the right age). However, doing it for the right reasons and the right partner is more important. Not sure if the later exists anymore. It may be up there with the unicorns.

US:
http://www.governing.com/topics/urban/gov-urban-counties-lose-population-2016.html

World:
http://www.worldatlas.com/articles/countries-with-the-biggest-population-decline.html

[Anonymous 25]

‘the best time to get pregnant is now’

except men are guarding their sperm like fort knox

so, the best time to become a childless crazy old cat lady is now.

women being angry at men will just dig them deeper in the hole, time for women to be angry at feminists

[Anonymous 8]

IRuleMe wrote:

If you can’t support yourself, don’t get married and have children.”

This was the only part I agree with.

What did the author do? She talked about how finances can put a strain on the marriage, but that people who have money also have strained marriages, so do it anyways. What about the child you cannot afford to feed, clothe or house, the health of the marriage comes before the health of the baby in this scenario apparently.

[trader1913Participant 1577]

When it says comfortable savings and owning a house it actually means having a man with comfortable savings and owning a house.

Women hit the wall in their 30s, so they have to have children before then, and they usually want multiple children. In order to have comfortable savings and own a house in your late 20s you have to have a good income, which 90% of women will not have.

[BoarParticipant]

Sperm banks are drying up and sperm donors are running for the hills. Perhaps the title should read,

“The best time to get a CAT is now. Don’t wait”

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[Two Time WinnerParticipant 1090]

Stargazer wrote:

Now that the government will side with her in a custody dispute, extract child support and, outright pay for her to reproduce, the right time is as soon as she can entrap some poor schmuck to donate some semen.

I deliver pizza as a second job. There are two medium sized Section 8 housing projects in our delivery area so I take a few pies over there every weekend. The place is teeming with mixed-race children and single moms. Not a man to be found in the place. I look around and see my tax dollars at work providing for those children. And the single moms are crappy tippers too.

TTW

I ain't got a wife to spend my money, I have to do that all by myself.

[CataphractParticipant 2656]

half of Americans making $100,000 to $150,000 have less than $1,000 in savings, with 18 percent of those having no savings at all.

I only make about $32,000 net per year and I have almost $5,000 in savings, clearly half of these Americans are s~~~ with money.

Marriage: About as appealing as wood-chipper diving.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

20 years ago I took my wife on a “bucket list” tour of Europe in June because we planned that she would become pregnant in September.

She was gone in less than 1 year.

The next year she met Mr. Moneypants and continued the traveling bug I helped her get.

Nice huh. Have a beta raising her kid (me) and another beta paying her rich girl bills.

I second the emotion, the best time to get a vasectomy is now. Freeze some sperm so you don’t feel like your cutting off your chances of ever having a kid. It changes the way you think about sex.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[narwhalParticipant]

I really didn’t see anything of note in that article. Just another woman pretending to make a logical argument, but really just getting emotional for no apparent reason. I didn’t see a problem identified, or how her recommendation provides any benefit whatsoever.

I would not be surprised at all if the same woman writes an article next week in direct contradiction to what she says now.

Ok. Then do it.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

Don’t worry if you can’t afford it. Our nanny state government will take care of you.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22531]

Articles at the top show that some of those overseeing the system are worried about the birth rate.

It is tragic that that native government officials are allowing invaders to come into western nations from third world nations are not going their to contribute, but to suck resources. I wonder if the government employees realize it is coming down to benefits for their pensions, or benefits to placate the tens of millions of invaders they allowed into their nations. When the situation reaches that point, the government employees will find they will be the ones getting the short end of the stick.

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