Women saved me from women

[JoeRParticipant 2]

Recently I had a date; this is something I don’t go on often as, at the ripe age of 20, I often get annoyed with most girls/ women and their inability to attempt to put in any type of real honest effort towards a conversation, relationship, etc. and just ignore them. This girl had been pretty interesting to that point to talk to so I figured why not at least meet her, right? Boy was that a mistake; she was taller than I and probably weighed far more than I do as well. She insulted me many times and claimed to just be playing around and then bit my nipple till it bled and twisted them so much they hurt days later and almost made me smack her across the face; the screaming ended up being suffice though. I always wanted to explore some sexual fantasies and I did for a short period of time (more happened than explained of course). I learned very quickly that sex isn’t what I’m interested in from women, nor is some type of traditional relationship. I couldn’t want to be with a woman less at this point; her arrogance and inability to form a thought that made any type logical sense really reminded me of a girl I dated for several years and though loved at the time, also disliked much of the time as well.

My point to all this bulls~~~ is this: if this girl had not made me begin realizing I don’t want a girlfriend for the reasons I thought; I wanted a girl for similar reasons to which girls want a boyfriend or husband. I wanted to impress my friends and make others jealous that an attractive girl is with me so I can flaunt at how amazing I must be because I have this person next to me. I wanted someone who will entertain me when I’m bored and maybe a little down and I wanted someone for sexual pleasure. These are standard wants but all of these are for personal gain and though that’s how it always starts, it goes against everything I’ve ever believed in. I used to want the hot girlfriend, then learned to not cater to a piece of ass. I used to want someone fun that will take care of me when I’m sick or whatever, then I remembered I’m a young adult who can handle himself. I also thought maybe I’ll just want sexual fun and explore my weird sexual mind some more with things that I thought I’ve always wanted; you guessed it, I don’t give a s~~~ about that either. No matter what she did right or wrong I didn’t care because it didn’t interest me.

All this is kind of like when I think I need to sell my truck to get a nice car. It all sounds great and wonderful at first but then I remember that truck is what everyone in my small town knows I drive. It starts up every day I need it to and I’ve literally driven it across the country and back numerous times and will again soon. It’s not cheap to drive and it’s not the most powerful but it does the job and I’m happy to be with that truck just as I am myself. I don’t need some whore to make me happy, I need myself, my dog, and my hobbies.

This may be boring to read for the few that will read it but I’m so ecstatic with a few of the many realizations I’ve had lately I had to share my jumbled mess of thoughts.

[Sessna12Participant 119]

You are mgtow at age of 20? That is what I call being ahead of the game. I wish I had only learned to be selfish at that age. Man you are going to have a blast. It’s your world bro. Do what makes got happy

 

Sebastian

"We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
-Sidecar

[JoeRParticipant 2]

For once over analyzing everything and taking meaning from everything I’ve dealt with has had a positive effect, lol. I must say, even with working 5 days a week and going to college full time, there really is a lot of time during the day when you stay single. I smoke a lot more cigars now and relax. I just hope I don’t fall back into the trap.

[RoyDalParticipant]

You are wise to not live your life to impress or please others. (Performance on the job being an exception.) Living for others approval is a short route to unhappiness, yes indeed.

One reason why birds and horses are not unhappy is because they are not trying to impress other birds and horses.
–Dale Carnegie

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[AshcroftParticipant 59]

Women saved me from women is a fitting quote for myself as well. Thanks man and kudos to beeing 20 and giving them s~~~ 🙂 hahahah. The more men give these broads s~~~, the more they realize that they are not that godlike creature that has to be worthshipped.
Keep getting at them dude!

Sorry for speeling or gramatical mishaps. It is not my first language and it has been ages since I learned it in school.

[Anonymous 12]

if this girl had not made me begin realizing I don’t want a girlfriend for the reasons I thought; I wanted a girl for similar reasons to which girls want a boyfriend or husband. I wanted to impress my friends and make others jealous that an attractive girl is with me so I can flaunt at how amazing I must be because I have this person next to me.

Yep you have done well to be so self aware so young. The most important part is that relying on someone else to make you better is always going to end in tears. Also no one cares anyway if you have a hot chick on your arm, most people don’t notice, some just notice her and not you and then some usually MGTOW’s wonder how much crap that guy must be putting up with to keep her around.

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

Sessna12 wrote:

You are mgtow at age of 20? That is what I call being ahead of the game. I wish I had only learned to be selfish at that age. Man you are going to have a blast. It’s your world bro. Do what makes got happy Sebastian

 

My thoughts exactly.

Im MGTOW at 31 without ever being married and I thought I was a clever champ.

You lucky bastard! 😀

[FermatParticipant 3478]

CatsPaw wrote:

Sessna12 wrote:

You are mgtow at age of 20? That is what I call being ahead of the game. I wish I had only learned to be selfish at that age. Man you are going to have a blast. It’s your world bro. Do what makes got happy Sebastian

My thoughts exactly. Im MGTOW at 31 without ever being married and I thought I was a clever champ. You lucky bastard! ?

I’m 22 and mgtow.  I thank God everyday I woke up so early. Went through one 2 year relationship saw all the red flags ignored the shaming of my peers and family have been better ever since. I’m not dumb enough to place hope on NAWALTS. I’ve learned from my own experience and others.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[mgtow_85Participant 752]

Sessna12 wrote:

You are mgtow at age of 20? That is what I call being ahead of the game. I wish I had only learned to be selfish at that age. Man you are going to have a blast. It’s your world bro. Do what makes got happy Sebastian

I was MGTOW at age 20. Not too many of us at that age because at age 20, most people are just in a big search for pussy and don’t give a damn if it’s marriage material or not. Or they think getting married means unlimited access to a vagina. Few know, or even care about the long-term consequences that may result from this at that age, and most guys on here already wish they were aware of MGTOW at that age.

[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

Congratulations on waking up at such an early age. Count your blessings.

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