Women prefer "bad boys" over "nice guys'

[zacfParticipant 39]

eqlife wrote:

Keymaster wrote:

bobphilo wrote:

Women prefer “bad boys” over “nice guys’

I can’t stresss this enough (and just mentioned it in another thread) but ….

Who cares “what women prefer”.
Until she bakes you an apple pie, don’t give a f~~~ “what women prefer”.

Wanna see what happens to those women?
Read “AN OPEN LETTER TO THE NICE GUY”
http://thoughtcatalog.com/natalie-platt/2012/10/an-open-letter-to-nice-guys/

See how it starts “please wait for us” ….. to finish f~~~ing jerks and assholes and then you can mop up the leftovers.

Then it’s ….

“Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before — But I Am Now”
http://thoughtcatalog.com/anonymous/2014/04/dear-nice-guy-i-wasnt-ready-for-you-before-but-i-am-now/

Then the “nice guy” responds …

“WE DON’T WANT YOU ANYMORE”
http://thoughtcatalog.com/leo-steven/2014/04/dear-girls-who-are-finally-ready-to-date-nice-guys-we-dont-want-you-anymore/

Hilarious. I remember those first two articles, probably some of my first WTF red pill moments. The third one just takes the cake. The problem is taking care of itself. We can just sit back and enjoy the circus.

“Enjoy dressing your cat up for Halloween and cherish your bad boy memories, I hope they keep you warm at night. I’m just not that into you anymore.”

Loved that part. I tried to be the “bad boy” in the past. But in the end, I couldn’t stand myself for it. I wasn’t being me and that was unacceptable. Not trying to sound proud, but I am the epitome of the “nice guy”. I always try to be a gentleman in all of my ways and respect them if they show me the same amount of respect. I find it works better with the caliper of women I want to surround myself these days: God fearing, hard working, modest, kind, caring…etc.

The “bad boy” image especially draws out the slutty, trashy, skanky, and obviously crazy types of women, in my past experiences. By putting on that facade many times, I found that none of the girls that were attracted to that were not “nice girls”, or even tried to put on the front of being “nice girls”. I quickly found out the type of women that were coming after that type of man. Trash….

Most all women have that crazy nature inside of them, but I found that being myself (the nice guy), a gentleman, and losing the “I want to be a player and screw everything that moves” mentality tends to attract the LESS crazy woman. I’m in my late 20’s (28 to be exact) and I know what I want in a woman now. And that doesn’t include trashy, complicated, arrogant, self-centered, rude, devious, manipulative, drug or alcohol abusing, heathen, dishonest, or non-Christian women with whorish tendencies.

I know that is pretty selective, but that’s what I deserve for being a “nice guy”.

-Z

"What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?"- Romans8:31

[DybbukParticipant 182]

This is one of the most hyper-analyzed topics in dating. Yes, a lot of women are attracted to the bad boy persona. But it’s not because they’re “assholes”. You know who some of the biggest assholes are? Geeks. Ever try to read the instructions about something technical? Find it hard to follow? You know why? Because geeks are totally devoid of empathy. They’re incapable of putting themselves in the shoes of another person and understanding what they’re going through. That extends to people trying to read the documentation that said geeks write.

Women like bad boys because they are assertive and have integrity and don’t pretend to be someone they’re not. And women don’t like geeks.

[D-DAY6644Participant 366]

Well I know one of those bad guys, the assertive one’s who have women begging at their feet. One of his best mates had cancer recently. Who also happens to be a buddy of mine. You know what, he had little empathy for his best buddy, in fact he resented the attention and sympathy the cancer sufferer was getting from other people, he even fawned that he was dying himself, just to get the same attention. These bad guys, have integrity? If that behaviour is integrity then the world is truly f**ked. PS: I’m one of those geeks, who supported the cancer sufferer, was there with words of comfort and tried to be in his shoes, unlike the narcissist bad boy, out for himself and only for himself!

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

I recently started being mean to women. The f~~~ed up thing is they keep contacting me after I tell them to f~~~ off. I don’t do it in a dramatic way, I prove a point and then tell them. However they keep coming back for more. They are like flies. The only true way to get rid of them is to ignore them till its done.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[Anonymous 11]

Keymaster wrote:

Until she bakes you an apple pie

Are there any women under age 68 who can actually bake much less bake an apple pie from scratch?

@dybbuk: I’m a geek with empathy though I know of what you speak. Empaths attract sociopaths.

[D-DAY6644Participant 366]

Funny thing how they act like flies, if you act like s~~~, treat them like s~~~, just to justify yourself to them, they act like flies, the type of flies who buzz around turds on a hot Summers day. Best thing is be yourself and not lower yourself, don’t become a turd to attract flies, it’s entirely up tp you, but in he end, they’re not worth it, well that type I mean!

[Anonymous 54]

Anonymous wrote:

Keymaster wrote:

Until she bakes you an apple pie

Empaths attract sociopaths.

Epiphany!!! Thats how I do it!. Ive never thought about this!. Im like an empathetic meal for a vampire! Thanknyou CPig! No more mister f~~~ing nice guy!

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

zacf wrote:

I know that is pretty selective, but that’s what I deserve for being a “nice guy”.

Nothing wrong with that at all man. But do you really want a relationship with a woman? And I mean any woman? Even the nicer, cleaner ones are bat s~~~ crazy. I can attest to this as all the other gents on this site can. All women are fundamentally the same deep down.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Sooner or later every woman reveals ‘c~~~ mode’.

I’ve never met one woman who hasn’t showed signs of being a c~~~, a bitch, unstable, twisted, deranged, two faced, a liar, having a self entitled attitude, being boring and air headed, etc etc you gents know what I’m saying.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

D-DAY6644 wrote:

Not only do women prefer bad men, and hate the so-called nice guys, they hate smart guys or who they judge or deem to be intelligent guys, and they label them with put downs, such as smart asses, nerds, geeks, boring farts etc.
To be honest women just prefer assholes full stop, especially the narcissistic assholes, who are thuggishly dumb, with their phoney machismo posing and swagger, so women hate men who try to be the opposite. I’m pleased I’m on the opposite, a reactionary to all this bulls~~~, a two’s up to their twisted mind set and shallow mind games.

Yes they hate smart men more than anything else.

My story is full of that. “From rags to almost riches”…

If you have a little time you can read my introduction, which will become a book soon…

Even alpha and money at the same time “gets you nowhere” if you are smart.

Gargamel's 7-part MGTOW story introduction – as a work in progress

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[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

Even the nicer, cleaner ones are bat s~~~ crazy. I can attest to this as all the other gents on this site can. All women are fundamentally the same deep down.

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

Sooner or later every woman revels ‘c~~~ mode’.

I’ve never met one woman who hasn’t showed signs of being a c~~~, a bitch, unstable, twisted, deranged, two faced, a liar, having a self entitled attitude, being boring and air headed, etc etc you gents know what I’m saying.

Right on brother, right on…

“Truth checking”………………………………… 100 % O.K.

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[Anonymous 11]

Anonymous wrote:

Thats how I do it!

My pleasure, Old Sage.

I often wondered myself how I managed to attract an endless parade of certified nut b~~~~ until I read an article about empaths that my sister kindly sent me the link. My first thought was that explains everything. Sociopaths find it very easy to latch onto empaths. We are more susceptible to them and highly prized by them too.

[DybbukParticipant 182]

Anonymous wrote:

@dybbuk: I’m a geek with empathy though I know of what you speak. Empaths attract sociopaths.

You don’t seem like the kind of geek I’m talking about. I’m talking about the kind who is devoid of useful social skills, and is so absorbed in his own world that he’s oblivious to the needs of others. My point was to demonstrate that being an asshole, in isolation, isn’t what is attractive to women. The assholeness is something the bad boy can get away with, because his other traits are attractive.

[Anonymous 11]

Dybbuk wrote:

You don’t seem like the kind of geek I’m talking about

Thanks man! It’s good to see you around here again. You posts are always most erudite.

I do know exactly the type you speak of though. People actually have told me they’ve never met a technical guy like me. The “bad boys” have one thing the low people skills geeks lack charisma which they can turn on and off as needed.

I often butt heads with these types of geeks quite hard in fact. I respect them for their technical chops, but you cannot ever let one near an executive.

[Anonymous 3]

This thread is getting very cringe worthy.

Some of you just really suck with women, and if you have to pretend to be nice just to get women’s attention it’s even worse. It’s obviously fake, and the women must be able to see through you. If I was a woman I’d be disgusted too.

I always do good things and am an upstanding, good person. I’ve never had an issue getting women. I’ve always thought they were easy. I just want to be left alone, as I just find myself incompatible with them and the current modern society. But if I was willing to put up with them, they are very easy.

MGTOW isn’t about whining that you can’t get women. This is almost like some sort of feminist or PUA takeover, trying to promote MGTOW as losers. True MGTOW are the opposite, women are easy for us, but we don’t want them. It’s like fish jumping into our nets but we throw them back into the ocean, then pull up the nets and go somewhere else, because they’re just not good enough. I don’t care if the s~~~ty fishermen take our spot and get the same crappy fish after we threw them back. They are losers in my eyes.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Anonymous wrote:

MGTOW isn’t about whining that you can’t get women. This is almost like some sort of feminist or PUA takeover, trying to promote MGTOW as losers. True MGTOW are the opposite, women are easy for us, but we don’t want them. It’s like fish jumping into our nets but we throw them back into the ocean, then pull up the nets and go somewhere else, because they’re just not good enough. I don’t care if the s~~~ty fishermen take our spot and get the same crappy fish after we threw them back. They are losers in my eyes.

Sometimes women are after us, and we reject them.

That is exactly what I always said to my friends when I was single again after a few weeks: The fish is back in the sea…

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[Anonymous 11]

Anonymous wrote:

MGTOW isn’t about whining that you can’t get women

Very true Phoenix, even as a moron blue piller I knew most women were financial boat anchors and avoided them. Their crass materialism and domineering feminist indoctrinated attitudes are a huge turn off for me.

I will freely admit had I found myself a loyal until death do we part virgin Unicorn partner at 22 fresh out of school I would be better off today though I would need to steer the ship and have final say in all matters. Women just aren’t like that anymore shall we say. Damn, that sounds tradcon… Ha,ha!

Even pushing 50, I can still go out and pick up younger sluts. I choose not to do it anymore. I’m not venturing into the landwhales.

[zacfParticipant 39]

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

zacf wrote:

I know that is pretty selective, but that’s what I deserve for being a “nice guy”.

Nothing wrong with that at all man. But do you really want a relationship with a woman? And I mean any woman? Even the nicer, cleaner ones are bat s~~~ crazy. I can attest to this as all the other gents on this site can. All women are fundamentally the same deep down.

No, sir. I sure don’t. At least not for quite a while. I’ve been single for quite a while now. I’d rather focus on bettering myself and doing what I want to in life than being a slave to someone else’s ego and baggage.

"What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?"- Romans8:31

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

zacf wrote:

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

zacf wrote:

I know that is pretty selective, but that’s what I deserve for being a “nice guy”.

Nothing wrong with that at all man. But do you really want a relationship with a woman? And I mean any woman? Even the nicer, cleaner ones are bat s~~~ crazy. I can attest to this as all the other gents on this site can. All women are fundamentally the same deep down.

No, sir. I sure don’t. At least not for quite a while. I’ve been single for quite a while now. I’d rather focus on bettering myself and doing what I want to in life than being a slave to someone else’s ego and baggage.

And it will serve you well, my good man. They are NEVER worth it, ever.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Birds of a feather …..

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

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