Women only have power over you if you let them.

[StealthParticipant 5329]

I occasionally read peoples’ complaints about how when you let a woman in your life, she completely takes over. She redesigns your house, your wardrobe, your schedule, your dinner menu. All of your money goes toward her wastefulness, as she then dances on your grave and moves on to the next sucker.

I just want to remind people that WOMEN ONLY HAVE POWER OVER YOU IF YOU GIVE IT TO THEM. Forced state intervention aside. Women may lobby for control, but they only have access to what you give them. Your time, resources, and state of mind are up to you.

When I was married, my wife would tell people that Stealth does what Stealth is going to do. My wife was very important to me, but she did not completely take over my life. I had boundaries that were based on self-respect and freedom of movement. When I dated after divorce, I was never a sugar daddy; instead, I paid about half the costs, and if a girl didn’t want to carry her own weight then it ended fast.

My point is that if you let someone walk all over you, and they do, then take responsibility for it yourself and don’t let it happen again. Because it really is up to you.

It’s a finer point, but an important one, and one that I think speaks to the heart of MGTOW–NEVER SURRENDER YOUR SOVEREIGNTY.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Anonymous 13]

Sorry Bro,

Unless I’m taking your post wrong it comes across as a bit dismissive of those of us who thought we were in stable marriage until one day the c~~~ who wore a mask suddenly dropped it and became hell bent on our destruction.

In those cases, nothing I could do or say could change the outcome.

I was never a pushover.

I never ‘gave’ her power over me.

The c~~~ just took it, made my life hell at every turn and when she realised I wouldn’t take it she called the cops and lied to them.

The c~~~, the cops, the courts all had power over me and there was f~~~ all I could do.

All I can say is,

NEVER F~~~ING AGAIN.

[StealthParticipant 5329]

MATRIX, yeah you might be taking it wrong. I was in the same boat. Through the legal contract of marriage I had unknowingly put myself in a position where she had legal power over me, until one day my wife dropped her mask and went for the jugular, and the state stepped in and gave most everything I worked for to my murderous c~~~y bitch of an ex wife.

Now that I know better, it’s not going to happen.

When the state steps in and steals your resources to give to her, well…as I mentioned that is a different case.

During shop talk at my first job, a friend said that if I ever signed a bad contract that put me in a bad position and gave my employer a great deal at my expense, don’t blame the employer for it–blame myself for signing it in the first place.

If some woman wants to redecorate my house, and if she ends up doing so, it will only be because I let her in and let her do it. It’s up to me, and there’s no chance I’m going to let her. But some guys would, and then complain about it. I say it’s better to own your own boundaries, and then these problems magically go away.

In marriage, you give a woman legal power to your estate and lots of unseen aspects of your life.

For “nice guys” who continue to interact with women and feel this always ends up happening, please know there is another way…asserting yourself, and saying NO. Not dating is obviously a great way to avoid problems too.

Peace.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Anonymous wrote:

I never ‘gave’ her power over me.

The c~~~ just took it,

Stealth is talking about that one mistake men make.

Marriage.

Marriage ENABLES HER to take power.

Without marriage, you can kick any c~~~ to the curb when she starts taking power.

Of course, I know that then false allegations and other crazy s~~~ can happen but she cannot “own you” if you never married her.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[Anonymous 13]

Thanks for clarification Stealth, and yes if I were to be with a woman again it would always be my way or the highway. There’s no way she’d ever have control over me.

Since I can’t trust a single one of them NOT to call the cops if they don’t get their way (been in the back of a cruiser twice, jailed and countless court appearances over lies) then I’m ‘man out’ until time ends.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Stealth wrote:

But some guys would, and then complain about it.

We only complain to warn other men of these pitfalls.

I have seen it happen to too many other men to let such things happen to me.

Men must be warned, as most of us are good-hearted folks who don’t think that any evil can ever happen to them.

“What have I done wrong?” >>> You were good to the woman.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[BubParticipant 1403]

Fool me once shame on you but, fool me twice shame on me.

Just rolling down the road

[StealthParticipant 5329]

Bub wrote:

Fool me once shame on you but, fool me twice shame on me.

Exactly.

Don’t let the camel in your tent, and you won’t have a camel in your tent.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[MACHOParticipant]

Stealth wrote:

She redesigns your house, your wardrobe, your schedule, your dinner menu. All of your money goes toward her wastefulness, as she then dances on your grave and moves on to the next sucker.
I just want to remind people that WOMEN ONLY HAVE POWER OVER YOU IF YOU GIVE IT TO THEM.

The way I read this sentence ⬇

“WOMEN ONLY HAVE POWER OVER YOU IF YOU GIVE IT TO THEM”

if you let a woman anywhere near you, it gives her the power to ruin your life is she feels so inclined! unless one is a mind reader one never knows what a modern female might plotting! No Thanks, being there, done that!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

The c~~~ just took it, made my life hell at every turn and when she realised I wouldn’t take it she called the cops and lied to them.

Exactly act like a man and refuse to take any bulls~~~ and they put you in prison.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

It’sallbs wrote:

MATRIX wrote:

The c~~~ just took it, made my life hell at every turn and when she realised I wouldn’t take it she called the cops and lied to them.

Exactly act like a man and refuse to take any bulls~~~ and they put you in prison.

And now these stories travel around the world for all to see.

Women are done!

Any man reading this who was still in doubt about his own experience now is more likely to avoid making such a mistake a second time.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[AttonParticipant]

Personal responsibility is at the core of MGTOW, this post falls into line with that quite well.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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