Women need to face the reality of The Wall

[L.E.O.MParticipant 120]

A girl I work with (single mom). Told me that she is not going to get married or cohabitate with a man, or bring men around her children until her children are 18. Because she respects their relationship with their father and does not want to sow any confusion. All things aside, I think we can agree that is, at least, a nice sentiment. BUT BUT BUT. Her oldest child is 7 at the moment. The mother is 29. I almost felt bad for a second that her plan to wait will surely fell but then I remembered she already made a choice to f~~~ things up the first time around so whatever. The sheer lack of realistic expectations is staggering and sad.

[Anonymous 42]

L.E.O.M wrote:

Told me that she is not going to get married or cohabitate with a man, or bring men around her children until her children are 18. Because she respects their relationship with their father and does not want to sow any confusion.

She’s full of s~~~! The first chance she gets (it’s not often these days)she will marry the first disposable income to come along, and will be banging him in the room next to your kids.
They talk a good honorable line of s~~~, but when the rubber meets the road, Mr. Walking Wallet will be the new daddy!

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22531]

L.E.O.M wrote:

A girl I work with (single mom). Told me that she is not going to get married or cohabitate with a man, or bring men around her children until her children are 18. Because she respects their relationship with their father and does not want to sow any confusion. All things aside, I think we can agree that is, at least, a nice sentiment. BUT BUT BUT. Her oldest child is 7 at the moment. The mother is 29. I almost felt bad for a second that her plan to wait will surely fell but then I remembered she already made a choice to f~~~ things up the first time around so whatever. The sheer lack of realistic expectations is staggering and sad.

I am getting hints of a few different things in your post. First, the women has multiple children with the same man. From what it sounds like she has been in a relationship with the father since she was 21, since her oldest child is 7 and she is 29.

I am getting the sense that this woman was in long term relationship with the father and their relationship fizzled. That happens. And this sounds like it is not a case of her riding the c~~~ carousel.

Also, she wants to abstain from dating other men for the sake of her children. I do not know if she can maintain her intentions. But, I will respect her on this point. And if she is serious, and she allowed the father to not be a stranger to their children, I believe the situation is salvageable for the children.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

The thing is that entropy always wins. We all get old and fat. The difference is that when you base your whole well being on your looks / SMV you will lose and be miserable.

Men improve themselves. We achieve, we work, we build. Females not so much.

To be fair, if females added value to themselves the wall would be no big deal. however, their SMV is all they have.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

The Wall devastates all women near 25 +.

All the older women in my family are wrinkled up old hags who wasted their lives doing hardcore drugs, smoking, drinking, that caused a lot of them to lose their hair as well.

And ALL of them have only married the men in my family because of what the men could do for THEM. They never thought what they could do for the man when they got married.

The only thing women have in modern times are their SMV. Without that, they’re nothing.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Look around at all the 50+ females that put on make up and paint their nails.

False hope. Look I’m old but still sexy ( in my mind).

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 24]

I was just in a situation a few days ago where a woman, who clearly had not come to terms with the fact that she hit the wall years ago got upset with me because I did not lift something for her. Now, this was a 50 something year old lady who had hit the wall long ago who was loading something into her car, we made eye contact from a distance as I was going to have to pass her car on the way into the store. Well, she sure did make a show of it with her struggle and sighs and hair flipping. I walked right by her and as I did she said under her breath once my back was to her “geez, thanks”. I chuckled just loud enough for her to hear me and kept on walking.

I got s~~~ to do lady, your expiration date came and went long ago. Why would I pick up a gallon of milk with cheese in it? Bring your 20 year old daughter next time if you want me to help load your car with all the s~~~ you just bought that you can’t even lift, then maybe, just maybe in a moment of weakness I will lend a hand.

[RennieParticipant]

FearlessMGHOW wrote:

The Wall devastates all women near 25 +.

All the older women in my family are wrinkled up old hags who wasted their lives doing hardcore drugs, smoking, drinking, that caused a lot of them to lose their hair as well.

And ALL of them have only married the men in my family because of what the men could do for THEM. They never thought what they could do for the man when they got married.

The only thing women have in modern times are their SMV. Without that, they’re nothing.

Sometime around 22-25 I reckon. That’s when all the girls from my time started going downhill.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

The trollop put herself into the “sexual clearance bin” the moment she had that kid!
I wager she’ll be fighting tooth and nail to snag a “pet wallet” in the next two years.

[HitmanParticipant]

yep, first money making man she can get , she will try to get him to marry her .
typical stuff, hot sex until they tie the knot.
the knot on the NOOSE around his NECK !

[Jeremiah JohnsonParticipant 2219]

Hey brother, If she is able to abstain from all men until they leave, that would be pretty nice…I do not know her, so I cannot have an opinion one way or another…I can say that is is really rare for women to even bother with saying these kinds of things and probably twice as rare that she pulls it off successfully…That said…

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Men improve themselves. We achieve, we work, we build. Females not so much.

Jan said my feelings exactly, men grow and improve themselves, hell I am disabled, and trying to learn guitar, learning new languages, studying a vast variety of subject online, and also trying to oil paint…That is just a few of the things I am trying this year. I know that is only myself, but I honestly believe most men are driven to be this way, where I know NOT ONE women who even bothers attempting to learn something new, or improve their intellectual understandings…Men age better than most women, I mean look around you, women begin to sag pretty early on, from there it is all down hill…Men do age also, and I must say, there are a lot of really obese men and women in this country right now, but sadly, I do not think any of them will make it passed 50 something, ask yourself this, how many old really obese people do you see in the world? Not many, due to heart disease, and a plethora of other health complications…Just my two cents though, take it or leave it…

Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

Even if there isn’t the looks part with the wall, there is the baggage of a life I wasn’t part of, that adds complexities. I hear someone say to me, “but you also have baggage”. I have personal emotional, etc… issues. What I don’t have is a kid or kids, and other things like that, that I would bring in. I know of one woman who has all these complexities also, with kids, etc… that ends up really in the way. I don’t have that. I just have my own issues I am dealing with, but it isn’t kids.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[WhackerGuy2030Participant 999]

She probably believes what she said. Then there will be a lone event that will toss all that out the window:

*Fawning over something she can’t afford at Walmart
*Noticing things beginning to sag
*When something breaks around the house
*When she doesn’t want her kids anymore

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

L.E.O.M wrote:

A girl I work with (single mom). Told me that she is not going to get married or cohabitate with a man, or bring men around her children until her children are 18.

I give it less than a year before she breaks that vow.

[Anonymous 12]

My mother said something similar after she divorced my dad. She did go on a couple of dates but she didn’t like the men. Long story short, this woman, like my mother just aren’t interested in dating so it is an easy thing for them to say. And if she doesn’t mean it and goes back on her word, well no one expects a woman to be honorable anyway, right?

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

Rennie wrote:

Sometime around 22-25 I reckon. That’s when all the girls from my time started going downhill.

Yeah, I assume that as well. If things weren’t so f~~~ed up in the western world, I’d probably end up f~~~ing women who are 22-25. A lot of them still look good around those ages. It’s when they turn a little past 25 that they start to go down hill.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Bulls~~~, as has been said she will be looking for a man to fund her life and improve it, Western women love to speak these type of lies.

She will be asking guys “what job do you do ” within weeks, the lies are insulting.

[Anonymous 3]

It’s one of those things women say but holds absolutely no value and truth. Like when they say “I’m not the type of girls who sleep with guys on the first date” but they all jump on it when THAT guy comes along, or “I prefer to take things slow in a relationship” but proceed to rape you when you actually take things slow.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

I wish her all the luck in the World. If she can hold true to her plan it will save a man that she doesn’t actually want but needs for financial and emotional support while the kids grow up from being divorced by her later, then I fully support her decision.

If on the other hand she noticed you aren’t married and said what she said to try to seem like a good girl and bury the first hook in you, then may she rot in whatever hell she believes in.

For the man that does engage with her there is only one out come. Bottom of the list and paying 90 percent of his income to for the pleasure of her company.

Facing the Wall would first require acknowledging it exists… and women won’t even do that publicly. Let’s say she’s successful, who’s going to volunteer to be the guy to crack open that vault for the first time in over 11 years. Come on MGTOWs, this girl is going to be 40 and fabulous in 2027. She can send you her list of expectations for a potential boyfriend upon request.

I’ll be the first to bow out. Pass.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

I was just in a situation a few days ago where a woman, who clearly had not come to terms with the fact that she hit the wall years ago got upset with me because I did not lift something for her. Now, this was a 50 something year old lady who had hit the wall long ago who was loading something into her car

So did I. It was a couple of years ago in the workplace – a hive of mostly women, basically.

This +45(min) year old tall woman in a pant suit, heels and a dykey haircut liked to “strut” around her authority. I never previously interacted with her because her department had nothing to do with mine…. but I was the first strong-looking “real man” she eyed that morning.

12 of us in a working wing, and she says “Are there any strong men who can help carry something to my car?”

I am looking at my screen as if she wasn’t even standing there and I heard nothing. My body language said I am a blind/deaf/mute, and I remained intent on what I was doing… but my thoughts said “if you ask me, you will be sorry. MGTOW bitch. Don’t even think about it.”

A few uncomfortable seconds went by and I could “feel” others looking at me as if I was the obvious utility of choice. Then she singled me out….

” I’m sorry were you speaking to me?” ( Just completely obtuse )

“I need a big strong man to help carry a box down to my car.”.
(she didn’t even ask)

So I dialed it up and tease her: “Certainly! But I would need to see the box first.”

“You’ll manage just fine.”

What a c~~~.

She walked me around the corner where it’s sitting in the foyer and it’s like a blue-ray player. MAXIMUM 5-7 pounds. Are you f~~~ing kidding me? She didn’t need “help”, she just didn’t want to be seen carrying it herself… and just wanted a man to do her “heavy lifting”.

ME: “Oh that’s nothing. It’s not even 5 pounds! With those linebacker shoulders? You’ll manage just fine“.

Then I gently tapped her on her upper back “like a bro” and went back to my desk. Her face…. BEAT RED, embarrassed and FURIOUS because I used her own line against her. Inside, I can’t stop laughing.

Pretty sure if I was an employee, I would have been fired by end of day, but I was a contractor and she couldn’t do s~~~. She just wanted to jingle her keys and strut through the halls, to be seen getting some idiot to carry s~~~ for her. You know the type.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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