Two nights ago, my best friend and I were out and about for my birthday having some good conversation as we always do about society and stupidity in general.
He brought up a good point that has been bugging me for a while, but I couldn’t figure out why, and he said it in a way that made perfect sense.
Women have no boundaries. Now, we can all give a resounding “DUH” to that one.
But even when it comes to conversation, do you ever notice (or remember in a previous conversation with a woman) that men always have to appear to be walking on eggshells and always appearing either extremely well-behaved or doing just enough to get a girl’s attention without making it obvious, yet when a woman speaks in a conversation involving a man (or multiple men), they’re loud, grabby (in instances like food), say whatever they want, and a lot of the time it’s either sexual in nature or she’s pretending to understand/care about the conversation (especially when it’s not about her)?
Example: After we had that conversation, my friend and I hit up our local vape shop for some CBD (we don’t touch tobacco, but CBD helps relieve our anxiety and depression). As we told the cashier what we wanted, a couple of younger chicks couldn’t stop looking at us like we were royalty because we were spending a decent amount while they had their cheap tobacco. It’s like it ringed in their head “hey, they have money!” Almost as soon as we got what we needed and were ready to have a seat elsewhere, they kept looking at us like we were either extremely attractive or extremely odd…couldn’t tell which. They left soon after.
In that same place that night, there was a girl at the vape bar on the other side of the store with her cuck-looking boyfriend sitting in her lap. EVERYTHING she said was so loud, and she would say things that none of the guys would dare say to her, such as her bathroom habits vs. the guys that worked there and other nasty crap like that. It was like she WANTED the guys to know she ran off to the restroom and forgot to put the seat back up, or anything like that. Who CARES?
Then, the last annoying woman that night, some landwhale with a huge rack (that doesn’t count) walks in and is obviously well known by the guys in there. She has a seat at the vape bar and makes a comment about how her boobs are too big to sit at the bar and how she has to place them on the counter. I’ve learned that women don’t say things by accident or for no reason, and that HAD to be her way of saying to those guys “hey, now that I said something about my boobs, you’re going to be THINKING of them!” How often will you hear a guy say (with a woman around) “oh man, I have to make sure not to get nut-checked because I’m so well-endowed!”
Ever since that night, I’ve been quietly observing those around me for the same behavior, and it’s pretty universal. I don’t get out much lately so I don’t notice, but I definitely see it online too. An example of that could be any social media site. Girl posts a picture of herself showing just the slightest bit of cleavage because she wants EVERY guy thinking about her breasts. They do these things and deny, deny. Whatever they do, they do it to get the thought of themselves in a man’s head.
Funny thing, I’ve finally tried this whole “not caring what they think” thing and it’s drawn in more positive reactions from them than negative. I still may keep boundaries up that I have and I’d recommend it to any man because of #MeToo nonsense, but it’s interesting to see how much further not caring gets you.
Ranger One 8 months, 2 weeks ago.
