Women, Chads, and Holidays

[Johnny84Participant 192]

Yesterday on the 4th an ex who left me high and dry because she “needed space” contacted me and said she was “sorry” and she made a mistake. This always happens on holidays it seems. Of course “needing space” means monkey branching to Chad. She insisted I was the last man she was with. I then told her I had a new girlfriend, which her response was “well let’s be friends and let me know if anything happens”. What I am gathering is that Chad didnt work out. Chads always lose on holidays. It’s when they get found out because their phones are blowing up with lonely female orbiters. Who they’re with will obviously find out when his phone is ringing off the hook.
Also, I landed a successful job, but not sure if she knows about it.
Nonetheless, what’s your take on all of this.
And what’s your take with exs calling you back on holidays and how Chads always lose these times of year? I’d love to hear what you have to say.

[TBL225Participant 168]

I would have just ignored her. I’ve recently learned not to give into their need for attention. I think her possibly getting tossed by a chad coupled with you ignoring her would have been much more powerful. Seems she was hoping to find a cuck in you. Good thing you avoided that mess.

Personally, I haven’t had any exes contact me during the holidays. I think I made myself pretty clear with them the last time we spoke where we stood.

[Anonymous 5]

Holidays are weird because people assume they should be surrounded by loved ones and bursting with happiness because of past memories.
Xmas would have to be the most depressing day of the year for single Blue Pillers.
Same with Thanksgiving and 14th February (International MGTOW day)

Hamsters without a slave get a stark vision of their future on these days. It’s never good.
She’s monkey branching alright and she’ll keep doing it till she snares a performing monkey.
Don’t be that monkey.

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

Anonymous wrote:

Xmas would have to be the most depressing day of the year for single Blue Pillers.

I rejoice being alone on the holidays. No bitch’s mouth running. No pressure to do things I don’t want. (Like visit someone else’s family.) Aint it great?

Don't care

[BlakeGuyParticipant 287]

Her friends are all with family. including her last Chad. She wakes up with no where to go, nobody to buy her diner or eat whatever s~~~ food she cooks. I have a way back ex that i stay in touch with mildly and she is always on me when it is time to plan Christmas. They feel like losers when they have holidays alone.

Let the good times roll

[Anonymous 13]

One chance per woman per lifetime.

No exceptions. (@keymaster)

This is universal.

If she dumped you for ANY reason, Chad or not.

It doesn’t matter, it’s over and PROOF she never loved you, only your utility.

Don’t be too sure about the job. These c~~~s have a 6th sense over that s~~~ and a very extensive HIVE which THRIVE on every bit of s~~~ gossip.

She KNOWS you got a good job.

She KNOWS.

Tell her to go f~~~ herself.

And that’s being nice.

[WhackerGuy2030Participant 999]

OneTrueMisfit wrote:

Trail428 wrote:

Xmas would have to be the most depressing day of the year for single Blue Pillers.

I rejoice being alone on the holidays. No bitch’s mouth running. No pressure to do things I don’t want. (Like visit someone else’s family.) Aint it great?

I couldn’t agree more. I remember doing the four Christmases hustle for years. I’ve finally got my life dialed in where sometimes, I don’t even participate in holidays. If everyone is running high on stupidity, I just stay away and don’t even bother covering up why. I just simply say, “I’m not coming over to participate in that stupidity.”
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I have used holidays like thanksgiving to go to my hunting land and work in the woods for 2-3 days alone. It is the most peaceful and enjoyable time of the year because the bugs are gone, the forest is free of people, and the leaves are off. It’s a perfect time to do tree thinning and put brush on the ground to help deer and other critters through winter.

[narwhalParticipant]

I wouldn’t say Chad’s lose on holidays in general, just the family related holidays. But not even really then.

So if it’s NYE, Halloween, St. Patrick’s day, even V-day…Chad wins because there is a woman out there who wants to slut it up for one night with him. It’s a pretend night for her. She doesn’t want Chad for Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter, and bbq holidays…because she doesn’t want the family to meet Chad. He’s her dirty little secret.

I don’t know that Chad’s really bothered with that arrangement either. It’s not like he wants his own family to meet the little slut either. He may much prefer to just hang out with family and friends as opposed to his latest conquest.

I don’t have a lot of experience with ex’s trying to reconnect at the holidays. I effectively agree with the ‘once chance per lifetime’ rule. I say effectively because I don’t want to every give up on forgiveness and a person’s ability to change. That takes time and effort, and then still have the desire to get back together. So much harder then just finding a new guy, or continuing to live in denial. So possible, but never seen it done before.

Ok. Then do it.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

narwhal wrote:

I wouldn’t say Chad’s lose on holidays in general, just the family related holidays. But not even really then.

So if it’s NYE, Halloween, St. Patrick’s day, even V-day…Chad wins because there is a woman out there who wants to slut it up for one night with him. It’s a pretend night for her. She doesn’t want Chad for Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter, and bbq holidays…because she doesn’t want the family to meet Chad. He’s her dirty little secret.

I don’t know that Chad’s really bothered with that arrangement either. It’s not like he wants his own family to meet the little slut either. He may much prefer to just hang out with family and friends as opposed to his latest conquest.

I don’t have a lot of experience with ex’s trying to reconnect at the holidays. I effectively agree with the ‘once chance per lifetime’ rule. I say effectively because I don’t want to every give up on forgiveness and a person’s ability to change. That takes time and effort, and then still have the desire to get back together. So much harder then just finding a new guy, or continuing to live in denial. So possible, but never seen it done before.

Chad is never a loser. If he really wants someone to be around his family during holidays, he’ll simply make a call to any number of girls on his phone and they will bite the bait. Even if it’s just for the night. The family will fawn and tell him how pretty his “date” is, and what a cute couple they make (which she will eat up). Perhaps if he’s feeling generous, he’ll throw in a f~~~ at the end of the night. The woman on the other hand will make some excuse to sneak away, or avoid her simp for the holiday entirely. “honey, I have to work today”. She didn’t really have to work. Her office is closed. But simpy boy don’t know it. He’s not in tune to the bulls~~~.

[Sky-OParticipant 18933]

During my blue pill era, Valentine’s Day was always interesting.

It was always the day I found out that all of the women I was f~~~ing had boyfriends.

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