Women are c~~~s in divorce.

[Anonymous 13]

I don’t care who you are, barely making ends meet or doing well and driving a super car.

YOUR woman will be a total C~~~ in divorce.

No matter what you think, whatever you ‘agreed’ she’s gonna be a c~~~ and take you down.

Please for the of God, lose the bitch.

Whatever it takes.

With me it cost everything materially.

If I had waited the cost would have been my SOUL.

FOR LOVE OF GOD,

UNC~~~.

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

Question for guys gone through divorce: how do you not go homicidal??

As I read about OTHER men’s divorces I get homicidal!!

Serious question. How do you guys deal with the emotions?? I’d go f~~~ing loco

[Anonymous 3]

Women are c~~~s in divorce.

Fixed.

[Anonymous 42]

Women are c~~~s in divorce.

^^^Fixed!^^^

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22539]

Not the only time they are.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

surfdude12 wrote:

Question for guys gone through divorce: how do you not go homicidal??

As I read about OTHER men’s divorces I get homicidal!!

Serious question. How do you guys deal with the emotions?? I’d go f~~~ing loco

My ex knew I would go scorched earth if she f~~~ed me over in the divorce, so we came up with an equitable division of stuff (50/50 net worth, split custody of the kids)

Had she tried to reneg on the mediated (we used a lawyer-mediator) separation agreement, I would have bought over $80,000 in gold with credit cards, melted it down into wire and made coat hangers from the wire to disguise the gold to get it through the airport, and then smuggled the gold out of the country to Vietnam, and set up there. (no extradition treaty)

Its never a good idea to back me into a corner. I think outside the box. I value my freedom and I have no fear. Also no moral constraints sufficiently p~~~ed off and it is real hard to p~~~ me off.

I have the philosophy of “better dead than red”. I like in the Bible how Samson had nothing to lose and pulled the Phillistine temple’s pillar down on everyone when his hair grew back and collapsed the building on everyone. That’s how I roll.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[SESQUI ano estParticipant 2535]

When my wife decided she wanted a divorce and the conversation turned to spousal support she would pull out that classic trope:
It’s the law!
And I loved hearing about what her divorced friends got in their settlements.

surfdude12 wrote:

Question for guys gone through divorce: how do you not go homicidal??

Some must go homicidal. When I hear those words “It’s the law” there is a small part of my brain that screams murder. Unfortunately that is bad form and she is the mother of my children. I’ll simply reiterate what others on this forum already know…
Don’t get f~~~ing married!!
Unless you enjoy knowing where you’ll be the day before you die…
at the office.
Avoid the plantation lurkers.

Everyday above ground is a good one. Everyday above ground while single...better still.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Anonymous wrote:

YOUR woman will be a total C~~~ in divorce.

She was always that c~~~. She just stops dissembling once she decides to cash in in the divorce.

You only meet a woman for real for the very first time when she divorces you. Before then you only know a false persona she projects to lock you down.

[GeraldParticipant 3630]

sidecar wrote:

MATRIX wrote:

YOUR woman will be a total C~~~ in divorce.

She was always that c~~~. She just stops dissembling once she decides to cash in in the divorce.

You only meet a woman for real for the very first time when she divorces you. Before then you only know a false persona she projects to lock you down.

^^^ THIS IS TRUTH ^^^

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[Sky-OParticipant 18945]

C – Calculating
U – Untruthful
N – Narcissistic
T – Tyrannical
S – Sociopaths

[Deadly RaverParticipant]

No marriage, no divorce. Of course, you have to watch out for the other ways they’ll try to get you to swallow the hook, like common law marriage, simply living in your house for too long, etc. Just keep ’em as far out of your life as possible and you should be fine.

Learn from the past, Control the present, and you will know the Future.

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

Sky-O wrote:

C – Calculating
U – Untruthful
N – Narcissistic
T – Tyrannical
S – Sociopaths

going to have to remember that

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[DocParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Women are c~~~s in divorce.

Fixed.

Said it all right there.

The headline should read

Women are c~~~s in…..

Let’s start a list.

1. Divorce
2. Bed
3. The kitchen

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

surfdude12 wrote:

Serious question. How do you guys deal with the emotions?? I’d go f~~~ing loco

For me, it was somewhat easy because it was a slow process. The last few years of marriage were a gradual awakening to the toxic personality she possessed. Over a year of marriage counseling, where after I filed for divorce, said, “yeah, I didn’t think I was going to get her to change.” It was gradual wearing away of my emotions, so that when I made the decision to file for divorce, I knew it was right and it lifted a weight from my shoulders.

Currently, I am in the process of divorcing. I deal with her words and actions by repeatedly telling myself that she will have to reckon for them when our kid is much older and begins to ask questions. I have recordings and a journal, so that if my memory fades, these events will be pristinely preserved. It’s not revenge. It’s accepting that she can no longer hurt me and anything she attempts is only going to hurt her.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[Anonymous 4]

When I went through the sewer vortex of divorce a deep sense of shame settled on me. I didn’t become homicidal but I ended up putting my Winchester 1200 shotgun under my chin. That’s the closest I have ever come to ending it all. To all that read these forums don’t marry it’s that simple really.

[ghostParticipant]

She will never be able to take YOUR daughter away from you.

You did not know this would happen. It is not your fault.

I admire your persistence in helping other men avoid the pain of divorce.

[AttonParticipant]

C~~~ery may cause cancer.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[From The AshesParticipant 149]

I’ve had a side by side 12g under my chin a few times, and I’m not dealing with divorce yet.

THAT’S MARRIAGE LURKERS…

I’m still typing, and since I’ve been lurking and a member here, I’ve never felt steel again.

I am waiting for the hammer to fall, but I will preservere for my sons. Should the pin be pulled from this grenade before my boys are adults, I will do what I must to be involved enough to train them in the ways of the world to ensure that they do not follow in the footsteps of their father.

This is all I can do, and I will do it with all my willpower. Should this charade continue on, I will use my time to raise my children to be men with eyes wide open.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

surfdude12 wrote:

Question for guys gone through divorce: how do you not go homicidal??

As I read about OTHER men’s divorces I get homicidal!!

Serious question. How do you guys deal with the emotions?? I’d go f~~~ing loco

Well, you already have the biggest advantage that you’re ever going to have if you are reading this website. For me it wasn’t losing her, it was not being with my kids every day. I still hate that part, but we still see each other multiple times per week so I know it could be worse.

I take a Buddhist view of it: That my ex taught me a valuable lesson that I needed to learn. I needed to learn that I COME FIRST! I needed to learn to not put other people ahead of me. And holy crap did she ever teach me that lesson. I just wish I hadn’t been so hard headed and could have learned it earlier. But that part is on me.

Buddhists believe that your enemies are there to teach you something. Whether that is really true or not doesn’t matter, what does matter is that I learned the lesson. And I’m a better person for learning it.

Order the good wine

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