Women are Chameleons

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3763]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

By the third date I was pounding her like a cheap steak …hahahahah!

Hahaha ! Nice.

But anyway, inside every chameleon is a bunch of c~~~roaches operating tiny hydraulic levers to make it move around. Two roaches on each eye too, they’re pretty big. hehe

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

I stopped at the part about her:

‘moved on’

It took me awhile to realize it and alot of stories in this forum confirmed what I already suspected in my situation which was similar.

Here’s the deal:

The next guy is always secured on some level prior to a woman leaving the current relationship.

That guy was already orbiting and being vetted by her for a transition.

He was just waiting. And the same thing will happen to him. The new guy or next guy is never special or ‘the one’. It’s just his turn. As it was your turn and the many guys to follow:

Until she hits the wall and is out of options. Then the guy she is stuck with is essentially stuck with her. And stuck with her when she is no longer wanted by any guys anymore.

Be grateful you don’t have to be the guy she winded up with in the end.

Because her final option after the wall results in a guy having to live within the parameters of a charade and a lie that he is unable to figure out.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

TheDude wrote:

So my ex left nearly a year ago now, and I’ve recently found out she’s moved onto her next victim.

What I find unusual is the type of guy she’s chosen to be with. He’s basically the type of dude she’d have scoffed at whilst we were together, and the polar opposite of what I believed she liked. He’s a total sports nut (something she hates) and a bit of a poser (lots of bling/well preened). I don’t know him personally, but just based on those two things alone, It’s clear she is able to fake the early days of a relationship to get a guy hooked. She now supports a football team and helps him out with his sports business.

She did the exact same thing to me… Total sex nut for the first year, then turned off the “lovin tap” when I was well and truly snagged.

This type of fakery should be seen as fraud.

All Women do this to bond with you and once they get bored they do the same thing to somebody else. It happened to me. Its happened to my friends. Its going to happen to everybody. Its their f~~~ed up nature.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[Jim01Participant 6678]

FrostByte wrote:

TheDude wrote:

It’s clear she is able to fake the early days of a relationship to get a guy hooked. She now supports a football team and helps him out with his sports business.

Days? A woman can boil a toad for years.
It’s like a superpower. It has a progression.
1. Chameleon
First she just likes the same music or sports as you. Those are obvious. Laughs at your jokes. Tells you all kinds of compliments. Then she learns a little bit more about you. Your favorite beer is in her fridge. She learns a little more what you like, and she is wearing her hair longer. You like dresses or jeans?
Boots or pumps? She will figure it out and start wearing the cloths you like. One degree at a time. The heat goes up. Until toad thinks he’s got himself a unicorn.
2. Tests
Then the s~~~ tests start. I miss you when you’re away. We should spend more time together. My sink has a leak. She starts playing house. Does your dishes. Starts to close the gap. Up goes the heat a little more.

3. Brinkmanship
Then the brinkmanship starts. You friends don’t like me you need to choose them or me. This relationship is stalled we need to decide our future. Your family doesn’t like me. (unless there is a mother or sister that will side with her, and the hive starts to gather).

4. False Ultimatum
Marry me or lose me. I’m pregnant, you need to do the right thing.
If you want it put a ring on it.

exactly – couldn’t have put it better myself

[SOLI2DEParticipant 746]

Thanks for this. I too fell for all of these and now it makes perfect sense. Shields! (In Michael Keaton 1989 Batman voice)

“Do not give your strength to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.” -Proverbs 31:3-

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