Women and their lack of respect for you or your work

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  • #112553
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    Jackinov
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    So I’ve been noticing something my whole life. I’m not sure if it’s spoken about in detail, but to clarify, here’s an actual example.

    I’ve been taking this bit of summer to enjoy myself and do things I wanted to perfect for myself, things like web-site design, animation, coding, etc.
    So my mother, who is an endless stream of entertainment, stops every so often and asks “Did that computer absorb you yet”. Now I’ve ceased even responding to that bulls~~~.

    Now aside from this, anytime I get something done quickly and efficiently, she picks some bulls~~~ “wrong” with it, and then says, “YOU JUST WANT TO GET BACK TO THAT COMPUTER”. Mhmm.

    Now in times of extreme anger, she has LITERALLY said, “YOU”RE NOT GOING TO BE GOOD TO SERVE ANY WOMAN!!”. That is NOT paraphrasing or bulls~~~ting.

    So, I was wondering if this…phenomenon is gone over explicitly in any MGTOW writings/books, and if this is part of the overall narcissism they are taught to exhibit. It is true that mainstream idiots look down on “nerds” although “nerds” run the world, and will continue to do so. However, “nerd shaming” is caused by WOMEN. So there’s that.

    Please share your experiences with this.

    are you a chia pet in man drag

    #112568
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    ChilledToZero
    ChilledToZero
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    178

    I’m not sure there is much nerd shaming of Bill Gates that isn’t followed rather swiftly by jealousy of envy

    It must be pretty frustrating having a mother that doesn’t even respect your hard work and probably doesn’t even think your craft even worthy

    You have to ask yourself though, objectively, what craft has your mother achieved, what could she be good for to “Serve any business”

    When you make something for yourself, and carve out your own path, devoid of her incessant ramblings and dissaproval
    When you make more money than she could ever dream of
    When she sees how truly happy you are, and makes a last ditch attempt to get you married

    Just remember, that when you achieve success, don’t give her a single dime of it
    If she didn’t support and believe in you, if she wasn’t your biggest shareholder
    She doesn’t deserve any of your dividend’s

    #112572
    +11
    Soldier-Medic
    Soldier-Medic
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    2566

    First a comment.
    Mega nerds invented the first computers. S~~~, they put men of the moon with computers that make a watch look like a cray super computer. The majority of women are less rational and more emotional (duh I know medic). The want their emotional need to feel secure and taken care of through your hard work and toil. An obvious product, such as a alarm clocks, is easily seen as a product that can be exchanged for value. Money. Software design, animation, web design have no physical property outside of the images they display on a computer screen and as bits of data on a hard drive. These things don’t inspire security, because they are not easily seen as revenue. Even if you are doing something for your own pleasure you are still wasting your time because it isn’t something as productive as folding laundry or cooking dinner. “See. This is tangible!” The things they refuse to realize is that software and software design is a multi-billion industry in the movie making business alone. What is more, if it’s a hobby, you are not accomplishing something for the collective good of the relationship. AKA her. Lastly, people that have abilities such as your tend to be more intelligent. Today’s women know intelligence when they see it and feel inadequate. Feelings of inadequacy tend to inspire derisive comments aimed at making you FEEL less than intelligent or less than practical in the application of your IQ.

    “YOU”RE NOT GOING TO BE GOOD TO SERVE ANY WOMAN!!”

    Exclamations such this are true or rooted in truth as a woman sees it. Take it as a vote of confidence that any woman would tell a MGHOW this.

    I enjoy woodworking. I would get similar responses from my ex wife when designing my next project. I am self taught, and normally have no problem applying what I have learned to the design and construction of a new project. The fact that I could do this would freak my wife out on some level. Probably because she completely and utterly lacked the ability to do this herself. She was also less intelligent than I. It took her ten years to get a bachelor’s degree. Not piddling around, but going to school full time. TEN YEARS full time to college for a bachelor’s. They resent the man being smarter.

    Women have the expectation that any efforts that you make are on the behalf of her and the children, if any. They resent you doing your own thing unless there is more money at the other end of it. And you better not be enjoying yourself. Because, if you are, then you are f~~~ing off. See previous about you better be making me something or earning a paycheck you slacker piece of s~~~.

    Lastly attitude. This is an important concept and one that I have been exploring lately.

    We are programmed from an early age that if you are being scolded or yelled at by a parent, especially our mothers, then we are doing something wrong or doing something at the inappropriate time.

    As adults, we have a visceral response to being scolded by a mature woman. Why would we be yelled at if we weren’t doing something wrong, and if we were being yelled at then we are doing something wrong. This established behavioral software is used by women use to manipulate us to get something they want. You not responding to, or changing your behavior after being scolded by your mother has de facto demonstrated that she has no hold over you, and you can not be manipulated. This brings about panic in women because their entire base of power has been pulled out from their feet and can’t understand how to proceed from there.

    Edit

    Sorry for the long rant but this is what you get from a man that has a degree in psychology that is not rooted in gynocentrism.

    "I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

    #112582
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    Jackinov
    Jackinov
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    5229

    First a comment.Mega nerds invented the first computers. S~~~, they put men of the moon with computers that make a watch look like a cray super computer. The majority of women are less rational and more emotional (duh I know medic). The want their emotional need to feel secure and taken care of through your hard work and toil. An obvious product, such as a alarm clocks, is easily seen as a product that can be exchanged for value. Money. Software design, animation, web design have no physical property outside of the images they display on a computer screen and as bits of data on a hard drive. These things don’t inspire security, because they are not easily seen as revenue. Even if you are doing something for your own pleasure you are still wasting your time because it isn’t something as productive as folding laundry or cooking dinner. “See. This is tangible!” The things they refuse to realize is that software and software design is a multi-billion industry in the movie making business alone. What is more, if it’s a hobby, you are not accomplishing something for the collective good of the relationship. AKA her. Lastly, people that have abilities such as your tend to be more intelligent. Today’s women know intelligence when they see it and feel inadequate. Feelings of inadequacy tend to inspire derisive comments aimed at making you FEEL less than intelligent or less than practical in the application of your IQ.

    “YOU”RE NOT GOING TO BE GOOD TO SERVE ANY WOMAN!!”

    Exclamations such this are true or rooted in truth as a woman sees it. Take it as a vote of confidence that any woman would tell a MGHOW this.
    I enjoy woodworking. I would get similar responses from my ex wife when designing my next project. I am self taught, and normally have no problem applying what I have learned to the design and construction of a new project. The fact that I could do this would freak my wife out on some level. Probably because she completely and utterly lacked the ability to do this herself. She was also less intelligent than I. It took her ten years to get a bachelor’s degree. Not piddling around, but going to school full time. TEN YEARS full time to college for a bachelor’s. They resent the man being smarter.
    Women have the expectation that any efforts that you make are on the behalf of her and the children, if any. They resent you doing your own thing unless there is more money at the other end of it. And you better not be enjoying yourself. Because, if you are, then you are f~~~ing off. See previous about you better be making me something or earning a paycheck you slacker piece of s~~~.
    Lastly attitude. This is an important concept and one that I have been exploring lately.
    We are programmed from an early age that if you are being scolded or yelled at by a parent, especially our mothers, then we are doing something wrong or doing something at the inappropriate time.
    As adults, we have a visceral response to being scolded by a mature woman. Why would we be yelled at if we weren’t doing something wrong, and if we were being yelled at then we are doing something wrong. This established behavioral software is used by women use to manipulate us to get something they want. You not responding to, or changing your behavior after being scolded by your mother has de facto demonstrated that she has no hold over you, and you can not be manipulated. This brings about panic in women because their entire base of power has been pulled out from their feet and can’t understand how to proceed from there.
    Edit
    Sorry for the long rant but this is what you get from a man that has a degree in psychology that is not rooted in gynocentrism.

    Thank-you! And no need to apologize for the “long rant”, this is exactly the type of stuff I “feed upon” as it were.

    are you a chia pet in man drag

    #112587
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    Stopmockingman
    stopmockingman
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    441

    In a “nutshell” the nuts being women- what they require of you is work related- what man requires is a true life.
    WITH RESPECT.

    #112592
    +4
    Phantom
    Phantom
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    “YOU”RE NOT GOING TO BE GOOD TO SERVE ANY WOMAN!!”.

    What audacity!
    It isn’t even a lack of respect…
    It’s NOT just out and out utter disrespect, but is one of the most (or most!) monumental absurdities that can be declared!

    So sorry to hear that it is your mother on top of it.
    I would rather be a nerd, homeless again, or almost anything before being a f~~~ing slave again!
    So glad my life is no longer a horror show.

    Just bloody hell & f~~~ing damn!

    #112595
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    Stopmockingman
    stopmockingman
    Participant
    441

    It’s a woman thing, don’t worry about it.
    Move on/move on/move on. (from blade runner).

    #112606
    +4
    K
    Hitman
    Participant

    Try to ignore her and move out soon as possible!

    #112608
    +17
    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    Dude I can tell you 100% this is not in your imagination.

    My mom was EXACTLY like yours. “You need to get away from your computer” or “stop PLAYING with that computer” like it’s a f~~~ing toy. That was the most upsetting, when she said “stop playing on your computer”. Girlfriends have told me “to get a life”….. and “you work too hard you need to get a life”…… while she is sitting on her f~~~ing lazy ass watching American Idol and the bachelor. F~~~ing losers every last one of them.

    I made a women CRY over this. She was such a c~~~ about it too. “You play on your computer too much”. 4 years later , I was on business in another city for 8 months, and she was in town for a visit. The company I was working for paid for my accommodations, and leased me a car and furnished the place. She was driven around by me in a convertible paid for by someone else and she thought it was just awesome.

    “Are you regretting telling me to GET A LIFE yet???

    “WHAT??” she says.

    “You used to call me a loser with no life for playing on my computer and now you are being carted around in a convertible and throwing your head back in luxury. Are you eating your own words, because I will never forget them, and you should be ashamed of yourself.”

    “OMG”

    “Oh yeah, You were a real bitch about it. You remember now, don’t cha. And now you’re financé dumped you at the altar the day before your wedding – and I know exactly why. I would too.” (true story)

    She balled her f~~~ing eyes out and I enjoyed rubbing that salt in her wound.
    I knew her since childhood, so I could say that s~~~ to her like she was my sister. And I smiled the whole time.

    Don’t ever forget what these women are telling you. Remember it well. Especially remember it when they want you to celebrate their life choices when they get pregnant. Women want parties, congratulations, celebrations and gifts thrown at them for simply spreading their legs and having unprotected sex. That’s her big *accomplishment* : f~~~ing without a condom. And she expects everyone to drive in from the city to shower her with the Bellini Baby basket and celebrate her. But she will NEVER throw a f~~~ing party for you and what YOU accomplish.

    •••••••••

    A woman will NEVER look at you with admiration or respect for what you do. But they have no problem BENEFITING from what it earns you. Remember that all women born in the last 50 years have been raised in the toxic , corrosive, negative world of feminism. They will twist all of your POSITIVE attributes into a negative. They can’t help but think like a feminist and view the world like a feminist. So they have learned to always emphasize the negative things about men, never the positive. In any given opportunity…

    • instead of saying “he’s protective” they’ll say “he’s oppressive”

    • instead of saying “he’s smart” they’ll complain “he demeans my intelligence”

    • instead of saying “he’s hard-working” they’ll say “he’s obsessed with work”

    • instead of saying “he’s confident” they’ll say “he’s an ego-monster”

    The bottom line…every one of your qualities will be spun as a NEGATIVE, not a positive.

    I remember the first time I ever registered a DOT COM. It was so cool. Im a DOT COM!!! This f~~~ing c~~~ started laughing. “OMG A DOT COM?? WHY??? LOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!” and just a few years later, her husband wanted me to make a website for his business. They invited me over to their house for dinner to try and butter me up to say yes. I said “no” because of the way his wife laughed at me that time.

    “Oh my, look at the time. Thanks for dinner. Gotta run. “

    Don’t ever forget.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #112612
    +4
    Foolsgold
    foolsgold
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    5703

    Lately, my ex has said things like ” I thought you would do better”. She shut her mouth quickly when I answered by saying “who asked you? Do you realize that your opinion hasn’t counted for almost 10 years”? Do you also realize that the only opinion that matters is what I think of myself? She hasn’t gotten back to me on that one.

    #112614
    +2
    Soldier-Medic
    Soldier-Medic
    Participant
    2566

    But she will NEVER throw a f~~~ing party for you and what YOU accomplish.

    Damned right!

    "I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

    #112618
    +4
    Stopmockingman
    stopmockingman
    Participant
    441

    Started my company, it went nowhere, timing all wrong, it is what it is, she was so jealous of the time I put in it, but court time comes, she wants money part of it, yeah, Bros, yeah, I could build a website for you too, all into it you know, a pioneer of the Internet, it just went all Pete Tong, but I don’t drugs.

    It’s not us gentlemen, it’s them, it is their problem completely. The woman, the empty shell, who needs proof that you are a MAN, with VALUE.

    I have value, God made me an entity living proof, I refuse woman’s acknowledgement of my worth.
    Stay true to the one path, that is YOU. My friends. Believe in YOU.

    #112624
    +9
    Chir
    chir
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    Texting…
    Internet…
    Email…
    MySpace…
    Facebook…
    Smartphones..
    Twitter…
    All internet social media..
    All created by men.
    By the Patriarchy.
    Put that in your “Grass Hut” and smoke it.
    Now you know why feminists are always so p~~~ed off. Without men pushing the boundaries humanity would still be living in grass huts with a lifespan of 30 years.

    It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

    #112626
    +5
    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    “YOU”RE NOT GOING TO BE GOOD TO SERVE ANY WOMAN!!”

    “Gosh thanks! That’s the BEST compliment you ever paid me!”

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #112630
    +2
    Stopmockingman
    stopmockingman
    Participant
    441

    The question now is this- what have we MEN done here to better our life?
    Have we strayed too far from the true path?
    What were we supposed to do here?
    Did we fail in ourselves?
    What is the core truth?
    Questions.

    #112635
    +2
    Jackinov
    Jackinov
    Participant
    5229

    “YOU”RE NOT GOING TO BE GOOD TO SERVE ANY WOMAN!!”

    “Gosh thanks! That’s the BEST compliment you ever paid me!”

    LOL Gotta remember that one.

    Ever since I took this website, I really can’t remember a time when I felt so content and happy with myself. Stopmockingman, that is a VERY good question.

    are you a chia pet in man drag

    #112643
    +3
    K
    Hitman
    Participant

    Key..that was brilliant. .you inspire me beyond words. .please consider a feature allowing your posts to be viewed in a category like “key master’s best “‘..thanks for the insight you bring, constantly and consistently !

    #112644
    +2
    Chir
    chir
    Participant

    The question now is this- what have we MEN done here to better our life?Have we strayed too far from the true path?What were we supposed to do here?Did we fail in ourselves?What is the core truth?Questions.

    How do men:
    Better our lives
    Find our true path
    what do we do
    whats the core truth

    I would say that for men its about staying curious while pushing forward at boundaries.

    The most exciting phrase to hear in science, the one that heralds new discoveries, is not ‘Eureka!’ but ‘That’s funny…’ – Isaac Asimov

    It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

    #112648
    +10
    Swen August
    Swen August
    Participant
    373

    to thine own self be true.
    my mom is feminista maximus – one day my dad was going in for a heart procedure and suddenly this big strapping man looked forlorn and said, ” son- after 56 years with your mom I am ready to die”

    #112676
    +2
    Phantom
    Phantom
    Participant
    3328

    The question now is this- what have we MEN done here to better our life?

    Draw off of each other’s wisdom and save lives & fortunes & continue to forge ahead each going our own way & being there for our fellow comrades along the way.

    It’s not really a question to me, more like the answer

    This IS what we MEN are doing here that better all our lives.

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