Women and loans

[GwalchmaiParticipant 43]

Drove my buddy to a pay day loan place so he could cash his check and i saw about 10 people going in and out of there all but one was a women. And i dont think they were cashing a check. Moral of the story, cant trust women with money.

Gwal

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

It is reaching a point where about as many women are trying to entrap men into marriage as a way to get out of debt as to entrap men by having children to get child-support payments and alimony.

Worse, it is hard to tell if a person is deeply in debt.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Faust For Science wrote:

Worse, it is hard to tell if a person is deeply in debt.

I just assume everyone is in debt, especially younger people. Most of the time you’ll be correct. I know among millennials just not having any student loans makes you an outlier.

[Anonymous 11]

The last woman I had a date with was the Mariana Trench of debt. I only know of one female who hates debt.

You’re right Faust. 100K in debt for Gender Studies so they are out aggressively looking for a simp to pay it off for them. I once had a friend who helped a woman pay down 40k in credit card debt. She dumped him when the debt was cleared. His ex wife busted his chops with 15K in debt on credit cards sent to a PO Box unknown to him. He just paid that off too.

Never loan anyone money. That goes ten fold for a woman. Never get married for it will legally chain you to her debts.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Faust For Science wrote:

It is reaching a point where about as many women are trying to entrap men into marriage as a way to get out of debt

I have had this “7th sense” in recent years when a single Mom I have known for more than 25 years just got divorced a few years ago. We knew each other WAY back and she was more of a sister in a way….. but all of a sudden she starts pushing a romantic interest and suggests we start dating(!). there was no NOTHING for 20+ years. Not even “Merry Christmas”, or “how are you?”

• First she’s talking to me about a guy she had been seeing.
• Then it fell apart and then she “jokingly” suggested we go out and I reacted with an uncomfortable “oh.. YOU”
• Then she IMMEDIATELY starts internet dating some guy who is “the one”.
• Then she asks me for advice on him – to which I replied “if you want to know what HE is thinking, don’t ask ME. Ask –>> HIM.”
• Then they breaks up and she starts pushing ME again.

Is that the weirdest s~~~ or what!?

Then I realized she is a part time yoga instructor and has no money! Are you f~~~ing kidding me? She’s totally “looking for a wallet” and not even discreet about it. She’s just totally indirect about it and just talks about mounting bills. I keep seeing this over and over again. NOTHING….. and then “Hey how are you? What are you doing this weekend?” and then she talks about all the bills.

Also met another one who started talking about how she only pays for things with cash because the bank won’t give her a checking account, she f~~~ed up her credit and doesn’t use any cards. For anything!

Who the f~~~ “can’t” get a checking account?
And why would you tell anyone that like it’s “funny”?
Would you even admit to that in a 3rd conversation with someone?

Bizarre stuff.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[LastManStandingParticipant 638]

I can hardly feel sorry for any cuck that bails a woman out of debt only to get shafted soon after. Wake the f~~~ up pussies.

[Sky-OParticipant 18934]

I’ve got a check cashing / loan place story from a few years ago that still makes me laugh.

My cousin was living at my house at one point because he was paying alot in child support for his kid and I only charged him $300 a month as a way to help out.

Anyway, he got his kid every other weekend and he was over hanging with us. My cousin was immersed in an XBox game and had about 11 beers already so he asked me to take his kid to the grocery store to get some stuff the kid wanted.

When we got out of the car, I noticed a Money Tree in the same shopping center and the kid looked at it too and said:

‘Thats my mom’s bank.’

I didn’t have the heart to break it to him.

Got back home and mentioned it to my cousin and he said the mom lives at her parents house, uses the child support to make her car payment, pay her cell phone bill and go out with her girlfriends.

He said she destroyed her credit with a ton of debt. Like getting a loan via a lender that does loans through a plastic surgeon. So all she had to do was sign to get $6k in new/larger breasts. A bunch of credit card debt. Previous car repo. Writing bad checks on prior checking accounts, etc.

Her latest thing has been $3,000 in tattoo work creating a full sleeve on her left arm. But she paid for that by just banging the tattoo guy every time she had more work done on it.

[CataphractParticipant 2656]

Maybe the reason so many women have debt problems is that they are banking on the idea that somewhere down the line, they will find a guy to pay off their debts for them.

Marriage: About as appealing as wood-chipper diving.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Cataphract wrote:

they are banking on the idea that somewhere down the line

Cataphract wrote:

Maybe

You are probably more right than you think. They certainly get more desperate as time goes on. When the free trips, attention, drinks & dinners, dry up that’s when they sign up to dating websites with their stupid demanding “lists” of “you musts”.

No more “maybe”. It’s now:

“MUST LOVE DOGS!
MUST LOVE MY KIDS I HAD WITH 3 DADS!!
MUST KNOW HOW TO TREAT A WOMAN!!!
DON’T WASTE MY TIME!!!!
AND DON’T EMAIL ME UNLESS!!!!!!”

Thats’ a mountain of credit card debt right there.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Anonymous wrote:

Never loan anyone money. That goes ten fold for a woman. Never get married for it will legally chain you to her debts.

Yeah its f~~~ing disgusting. I had a gf for a while that had 70k in student loans + a car payment + who knows wtf she had on credit cards. I was making 40k a year at the time, which was more than her. It didn’t take a whole hell of a lot for me to realize that if I ever got real serious with her to the point we started sharing finances at all…her debt was going to impact my standard of living. I was just about done with my own school at that time and excited to not have to pay tuition anymore…the last thing I wanted was to have to deal with someone else’s mountain of debt after I worked so hard to avoid my own. Even if I wasn’t directly paying off her debt for her, I know I would have ended up paying more than half of the shared bills…which really if I just pay her debts for her or support her so she could pay her debts…whats the difference? Marriage would have only made it worse.

The worst part about it is she just acted like it was no big deal. Like yeah…I know my debt load is almost equal to 3 years worth of your take home pay but hey…I’m worth it, right? HAHAHAHAHA NOPE!

LastManStanding wrote:

I can hardly feel sorry for any cuck that bails a woman out of debt only to get shafted soon after. Wake the f~~~ up pussies.

Most definitely. I’ve seen it happen countless times, and the sad part is you can even tell these idiots they should be a little more careful with what they spend on her and they get mad at you, like you are questioning the morals of their princess or questioning their manhood or something. They’re too stupid to realize she’s already taken a dozen or more c~~~s before them…the odds of them being the last are slim to none. It is funny though how the break up always comes right after an expensive birthday, Christmas, or a vacation lol.

Cataphract wrote:

Maybe the reason so many women have debt problems is that they are banking on the idea that somewhere down the line, they will find a guy to pay off their debts for them.

Definitely…I have noticed women have a different outlook on debt then men. I know plenty of men that are just awful with money, but they know they won’t get bailed out. A lot of them will say s~~~ like “I’m never going to retire.” Its really just like they prioritize today over tomorrow, but they know in the end they’ll have to work harder to pay for it. I don’t know any that think they are going to stumble upon some well off chick that will bail them out.

Women on the other hand…they just don’t give a f~~~. The girl I talked about with the 70k in student loans…do you think she ever picked up extra hours at work or picked up a part time job to make double payments for a few years to unbury herself? F~~~ no. She just sat around bitching about being broke, and if things got too tight because something unexpected popped up, she’d go whining to her parents. WTF was her ultimate plan? To me it just seemed like pay the bare minimum for as long as possible until you find a sucker, because 70k split between two people isn’t nearly as bad as 70k for one person…especially if that other person makes more than you. I’m also guessing that plan will backfire miserable for many women when they find out a lot of guys with no debt are going to run from hers, or that a lot of guys have debts of their own.

[Chris1234Participant 353]

Broke up with a girl several years ago. Was very attractive from another country and seemed nice enough. After a while I found out about her financial situation. She was in her early 30’s and had only finished studying a couple of years earlier (chopped and changed her course many times). She told me how she didn’t like her job which was in the industry she eventually got a degree for. She then told me how she threw everything at her student loan in her previous year of work and it didn’t even cover the interest on the loan for that year. As soon as I heard that the alarm bells went off. Who in the hell study’s for that long accumulating massive debts along the way to end up qualified for a job that you don’t like.
It dawned on me that she knew she was just going to find a male to take care of them for her. Gave it a couple of weeks before moving on.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

I have exactly zero f~~~s to spare in regards to debts situation of strong independent women. I agree with everything said, they have no concept of personal finance responsibility and will gladly screw you over. There is a guy around here that was told after marriage by his wife that upsss, did i tell you already about that 200k debt ? No ? Slipped my mind. F~~~kkk.

What women are not able to do is to build slowly accumulating assets/wealht. They know how to score from husbands, from state, from inheritance, from their slut “singer” “instagram” career, or similar, but have no concept of saving. For them saving is like admiting to yourself that your smv is not 10. And today, with instagram and tinder and s~~~ even fat 4s think they are at least 9.

Yes, women and debts, reason number 1 why marriage is just insane for man. Even if you somehow get a clean unicorn without debts she can one day wake up, starts f~~~ing around, accumulting debts, and at the end state will treat you like a criminal and you will be paying her debts and alimony and she will be living and f~~~ing your replacement in your house. No, thank you, not for me.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

There is a reason why so much of the marketing out there is geared towards the woman consumer.

[BoarParticipant]

Whimyn and loans. Separately, they are b~~~~ and chains. Together, they are hell on earth. Avoid them at all costs.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[FaxmodemParticipant 1415]

Keymaster wrote:

Then I realized she is a part time yoga instructor

Is that even a Job? That’s Lazy half ass job, I guess she only be working when she feels like it?

Kinda sounds like my Ex. Would work every now and then, doing babysitting jobs, finding out that most of her money came from mom and dad. Didn’t take long to realize what she was looking for, A wallet nothing else.

Us men didn't start the battle of the sexes, but we're clearly going to win it via the simple tactic of just leaving the battlefield in contempt."

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Faxmodem wrote:

Keymaster wrote:

Then I realized she is a part time yoga instructor

Is that even a Job? That’s Lazy half ass job, I guess she only be working when she feels like it?

Kinda sounds like my Ex. Would work every now and then, doing babysitting jobs, finding out that most of her money came from mom and dad. Didn’t take long to realize what she was looking for, A wallet nothing else.

I know a guy falling for this trap. She’s a part time yoga instructor and part time student who at 27 still gets an allowance from her well off dad. He’s a hard working guy with a good salary, moved in with her, and although he won’t admit it I suspect he pays the bulk of the bills and for all their dates and travel while she just banks all her daddy money. If he gets off easy it will be because she monkey branches…otherwise I suspect that sometime within the next 10 years he’ll be divorced raped and she’ll be collecting an allowance from him. She’s just got to make sure the divorce rape is finalized before her dad dies…she wouldn’t want to have to share her inheritance lol.

You can’t talk to these idiots though…like I tried to tell him when he first met her he should prioritize paying off his debts and maxing his 401k for his future before he spends so much on her and he just got all p~~~ed off at me because he thinks this is the one and I’m just jealous or something. He’s just too stupid to realize that even if he found a unicorn and she is the one and they spend the rest of their lives together, debt and retirement savings are something they’ll have to tackle together down the road, so what is the harm in tackling those things now if they’ll benefit both of them later, vs spending money on s~~~ now that if they break up he gets no benefit from?

[AttonParticipant]

I am pretty sure that women hold the lion share of the worlds debt.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Atton wrote:

I am pretty sure that women hold the lion share of the worlds debt.

They are probably responsible for creating it, but thanks to divorce laws they probably aren’t responsible for paying for most of it.

[xenonParticipant 2007]

The quote I remember most from the last whorefriend was, ” buy me ______ and I will pay you back later”. Anyone care to guess how much was paid back or if in the end I had to count the blowjobs and do a little division to come to a figure of what I received for my money?

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