Women and Chameleons

[I_Walk_AloneParticipant 582]

DeepInThought wrote:

The fake it til you make it behavior of women described above is also typical of the female sociopath. The 3 stages: Idealize, Devalue & Discard. Idealize stage is the total interest in your life and they adapt. I know I have been through this and though “Where have you been all my life, you are like my soul mate and we are totally on the same page on everything.” It’s nothing but a mirage and part of the first stage bombardment. Trust me, if you havent dated one of these women, read up on it and become aware because I can tell you the Devalue and Discard Stages are not fun and they emotionally hurt alot!

When I realised that my ex was a chameleon, my heart sank. Like truly into the pit of my stomach. She never knew me, she never made any any effort to know me. She just pretended, lied, defrauded, moulded herself around my personality and interests in order to fulfil whatever her needs were. She was no more than an over-familar, pushy salesperson.

My heart sank when I realised that this is the best there is – women merely pretending to love you and pretending to know you solely for the purpose of you motivating yourself to fulfil their needs, needs which are based on a false pretense.

It’s all a lie.

[SnakeyXTParticipant 12]

lol, i have two sisters who you have described perfectly.  it was fascinating seeing them actually become different personalities … … and when the relationship went south …. …. they would say that ‘the boyfriend’ made them change.   never their fault … … as we all know

it is true, women are insane

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

I_Walk_Alone wrote:

When I realised that my ex was a chameleon, my heart sank. Like truly into the pit of my stomach. She never knew me, she never made any any effort to know me. She just pretended, lied, defrauded, moulded herself around my personality and interests in order to fulfil whatever her needs were. She was no more than an over-familar, pushy salesperson. My heart sank when I realised that this is the best there is – women merely pretending to love you and pretending to know you solely for the purpose of you motivating yourself to fulfil their needs, needs which are based on a false pretense. It’s all a lie.

Sorry to read, that and yep it stings like a bitch. They seem to move on like it’s nothing while the man is expected to “suck it up” and get over it. And they wonder why male suicide and addiction are at pandemic limits?

SnakeyXT wrote:

lol, i have two sisters who you have described perfectly.  it was fascinating seeing them actually become different personalities … … and when the relationship went south …. …. they would say that ‘the boyfriend’ made them change.   never their fault … … as we all know it is true, women are insane

Yep, like I have mentioned it just hammers the last nail into the coffin when you see your own siblings doing this. I have just recently witnessed my sister say after getting out of a 10 year relationship “I don’t want to meet anyone else, I am happy to stay single.” Gentleman, if you ever hear this from a woman it is a f~~~ing lie. Because my sister not 2 weeks later was riding a new c~~~, and it didn’t happen overnight she met this guy the branch was being secured ages ago and this was a smoke screen excuse. My ex said EXACTLY the same things and sure enough 3 weeks later. So if you hear this, your a MGTOW, call them out on it and watch the reaction. Go on light that powder keg before you exit the room.

But they are sneaky chameleons and one of the traits i loathe more than anything is when an ex has shafted you, I mean really done you over and they come back years later or by chance meeting with others around and they act as nothing has happened and you are still friends and if you don’t comply in front of others they make out you have the problem and third parties think you are just a scorned ex without knowing the truth. Most people esp manginas are really f~~~ing dumb, i mean it, they are f~~~ing dumber than a box of hammers.

I don’t budge from my stance and if they see me that way, fine, because aint no ex gonna shaft me and think she can attach a new mask years later and all is okay. I have recently seen a mate goes through this and everyone, except me, turned on him and he was the one who got done over. I got him straight out of the situation, took him for a beer and told him I knew what was happening and I understood The Game that these chameleon’s play. He was greatful. If you see this happen guys, help a brother out…

[Sky-☣️Participant 19661]

 

I hooked up at one point with an ex girlfriend that I had not been with in over a decade.

Now, realistically, she couldn’t pull off liking everything that I did, etc and have expected me to believe that while we were living separate lives for over ten years that she magically had the same interests.

However: With that being said, after we were back together, and despite her actually not having the same interests (music, literature, hobbies). . . . . . . . . . .

Once she knew what mine were, she almost instantly began an almost addict like interest in anything and everything that I liked.

Bands that she had never heard of that I liked: She bought all of their albums and started listening to them.

Economic and political theory: She instantly wiped her brain clean like it was a dry erase board and claimed to also adhere to the same principles and ideology.

She noticed I had a large library of Ayn Rand books (fiction and non-fiction). Next thing I know, the bitch is lying in bed reading Atlas Shrugged. WTF right?

It all stemmed from the fact that she really didn’t know who she was as a person to begin with. Her personality structure was a mix of her own narcissistic false self, what others wanted her to be and a small dose of her own perception of what she could and/or should be.

Emotionally, psychologically and even spiritually, the slut had the ability to morph into whatever she needed to be at any point in time in order to secure more attention and ‘love’ from the current male/c~~~ that she was immersed in a relationship with.

Must be a tragic and confused existence. . . . .

 

Sky-O

[Sam RavenParticipant 181]

You can tell when the chameleon behavior starts, usually when their lack of interest and bored voice suddenly picks up in a conversation, like the woman realizes she has found something that the man likes that she can latch on to to pretend to be the loyal woman.

Usually her eyes widen and her smile broadens a bit too quick and her voice gets all happy in an ‘artificial way’

If she realizes she does it too quickly she giggles and apologizes in a fake ass attempt to look cute.

I saw this happening too many times to realize something was going on and I would roll my eyes in response or ‘I am not amused at your f~~~~~ry’ look.

‘Men who tried to figure women out, got electrocuted!’ – MG Tower. Because insanity rules the cumdumpster.

And the mainstream still can’t figure out why going our own way is a necessary response to the insane half of the human species?

[Sam FisherParticipant 206]

I noticed this at 18 when this girl who liked me was all of a sudden into football (American Football). It was beyond me (at the time) how suddenly into it she was.

I also notice this tactic used on social media, like with one particular music community I am a part of, the men in it literally THROW their attention to the females like dollar bills in a strip club. It’s pathetic. The moment they post a selfie with band merch like 2Pac leggings, or a Wu-Tang shirt, they all drool over it and go on about how much they’d wish she’d be their queen, or there’s nothing more attractive than a girl who likes X or Y…

I mean for me, it’s all the same s~~~. A chick likes video games? Cool. A chick likes a particular type of music? Cool. It’s nothing amazing, heck, I like music and video games – I don’t go patting myself on the back or asking for a gold medal for that s~~~, now do I.

[FitzBonesParticipant 304]

I agree wholeheartedly with the above statements; my experience is my ex who took up computer gaming to mesh in with me. She played all the same games as me and learned about them in order to match me. Same with my conspiracy theories, books etc.

But I’ll also throw a hen in with the foxes and say that I’ve seen Men do the same thing. Guys I once knew who changed for their partner, forgot about their prior passions and just went with whatever their girl was doing and got really into it. Disappointing really.

"If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run,"

[BONEParticipant 448]

Had a broad claim to be a comic book fan, asked her who was her favorite MARVEL character, her response: “I really like Batman”.

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

BONE wrote:

Had a broad claim to be a comic book fan, asked her who was her favorite MARVEL character, her response: “I really like Batman”.

As a Marvel fan, I just cringed.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

They change their opinions as often as they change their makeup style, and it’s always to conform to trends.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

KingOfTheSea wrote:

ShortbyNature wrote:

Had a broad claim to be a comic book fan, asked her who was her favorite MARVEL character, her response: “I really like Batman”.

As a Marvel fan, I just cringed.

I did, too.  (I see you went from Aquaman to Namor! :P)

My favorite thing is when I ask women WHY they like Batman or even Nightwing…and they say, “he’s really cute/hawt, teehee!”  I say to them: “Correction:  You like Batman because he’s loaded with money, and Nightwing because he has connections to Batman, who’s loaded with money.”

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

Governor Megachris% wrote:

I did, too. (I see you went from Aquaman to Namor! :P) My favorite thing is when I ask women WHY they like Batman or even Nightwing…and they say, “he’s really cute/hawt, teehee!” I say to them: “Correction: You like Batman because he’s loaded with money, and Nightwing because he has connections to Batman, who’s loaded with money.”

Reppin’ the King of the Sea theme. The funny thing is that they’d HATE Batman because he always has a plan. S~~~, Talia had his kid and she still hasn’t seen a cent.

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