Woman as a status symbol

[GeraldParticipant 3620]

This was brought up in another thread anf is stuck in my gourd. Perhaps it is a sign of immaturity but yes, i have thought of woman as a status symbol.

When i was a teen, wanting a girlfriend and a hot one at that, i saw these Chads with the cheerleaders, the hot girls, hell all of the girls and i wanted that.

Later, in college, after some experience with women and learning i was no chad, i still had this glorified notion that the hot women were with the best men. So i tried to be a better man

I settled, multiple times in relationships and got with whomever i felt was ‘in my league’.

It wasnt until MGTOW that i realized this is all s~~~. All women have over-inflated egos and senses of their value.

A woman is not a status symbol. A car or a house are not symbols of success.

Peace, quiet, food on your plate, the ability to rest, tje ability to do what you want when you want….these are status symbols.

I wish i could go tell 16 year old me this…

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Been there done that brother! I know exactly what you mean.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Well said. The wise man needs no verification of his passions and virtues save for that of his own satisfaction. Women may seek to impress the hive but that path leads nowhere.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

“No fault divorce” destroyed the concept of the “trophy wife”.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Faust For Science wrote:

“No fault divorce” destroyed the concept of the “trophy wife”.

The concept of a “trophy” wife is ridiculous. What? So you’re proud to have a wife who is basically useless, married you for your money, spends her days spending your money, and contributes nothing but being a f~~~ hole? What’s so special about that? What is there to be proud of? That you married the most useless woman you could find?

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

When I was 16 I believed the same garbage. I felt that not having a girlfriend at all (let alone a hot one) made me look bad and I tried to improve myself by obtaining material things in an attempt to “market” myself better all to get a girlfriend.
Jesus I was a f~~~ing moron! I remember being used for rides, money, work and thinking that it made me look good because girls were seen talking to me. Now I realize how much of a manginal simp I was.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Our culture and society saturates us with those false beliefs.

“When we were young, we were programmed to unhappiness. They taught us that in order to be happy you need money, success, a beautiful or handsome partner in life, a good job, friendship, spirituality, God—you name it. Unless you get these things, you’re not going to be happy, we were told. Now, that is what I call an attachment. An attachment is a belief that without something you are not going to be happy. Once you get convinced of that—and it gets into our subconscious, it gets stamped into the roots of our being—you are finished.”

Anthony de Mello, Awareness

[Anonymous 42]

I had plenty of “status symbols”, my friends use to hold their dicks in awe!

Every one of them bankrupted my status with myself! Each one had her own form and style of trickery!

Now my status is SINGLE! It’s my badge of honor given to me by me!

I’m not the one that created pump’n’dump status! Women are the gate keepers of sex and the gates are rusted off their hinges! They’re no different than f~~~ing a public toilet if you ask me! Someone’s c~~~ has been there already and someone else will help you add to her thousand c~~~ stare when all is said and done!

It’s only your turn in the public toilet…

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

Interesting. I have a 12 year old son just entering puberty and I was talking to him recently about girls and laid some red pills on him. Told him if I had it to do over I’d never have waisted so much time and energy on girls. Told him to focus on himself and remember in his life he always comes first; never put what a female wants ahead of what he wants.

Also I’ve started to drop red pills that marriage is a bad idea but I’ll try to drive that home more as my boys get older.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Gerald wrote:

Peace, quiet, food on your plate, the ability to rest, tje ability to do what you want when you want….these are status symbols.

I wish i could go tell 16 year old me this…

Mr. Spock wrote:

I was a f~~~ing moron! I remember being used for rides, money, work and thinking that it made me look good because girls were seen talking to me. Now I realize how much of a manginal simp I was.

Maybe, we could all get in the same time machine. and go back for a do-over.

I often IMAGINE if I could take back my current Red Pill mind and level of experience and plant it in my 13 year old body just how DRAMATICALLY BETTER MY LIFE WOULD HAVE TO BE not only THEN, but FOR the REST of MY Years.

As they say, Youth is wasted on the young.

Jack Harper wrote:

Also I’ve started to drop red pills that marriage is a bad idea but I’ll try to drive that home more as my boys get older.

Oh yeah, I dropped some today. I’ve been laying off on the direct carpet bombing method, and trying to strategically drop them when hopefully they will have some form of short and long term growth potential.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[QuellParticipant 2538]

I’ve been with both very attractive and average women before in my life. I’ve had an ex girlfriend who my buddies would say was “hot”.

I’ll tell you how my life changed…

I really didn’t. Both men and women looked at me with a TAD bit more value when I had an attractive girlfriend but really nothing great came of it. I didn’t get a better job, I didn’t get more money or respect.

Nobody was looking up to me for my wisdom or wanting to hang out more because of my attractive girlfriend. Nobody cared who I was f~~~ing.

Personally, having an attractive girlfriend is more about your own internal self-confidence. You feel like you won some kind of prize and it makes you feel like a bit of a rockstar.

However, what goes up must come down. Maintaining that relationship was awful and I grew more paranoid and stressed out having to put up with her attitude. When she dumped me after 3 years I was back to being just me. Emotionally, I felt awful for a long time because I based my own self worth on this attractive woman dating me. Still when she left nobody cared and nobody looked at me any less.

The lesson is people really don’t care who you are dating or married to. Don’t be with someone to impress the Jones. Ultimately, the wise decision is to not get involved with them in the first place.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

Faust For Science wrote:

“No fault divorce” destroyed the concept of the “trophy wife”.

And it created the concept of “trophy divorce” among women: many women have such concept.

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[Prophet MicahParticipant 1972]

Gerald wrote:

A woman is not a status symbol. A car or a house are not symbols of success.

A woman is much like a car note or house mortgage lol. And what is a car note or a house mortgage? Debt: Debt = Enslavement. The MGTOW sees something he wants and is patient to save up his own money in order to get it instead of digging himself into a hole. Women, being the demanding and miserable creature they are, want it NOW. It is the job of the blue-pilled simpleton to provide her with that instant material satisfaction in trade for the golden vagina.

No Wife - No Strife

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

I’m not well enough informed to say wether or not the no-fault divorce contributed to the concept of ‘trophy wife’. But I am well enough informed to point out that it most definitely contributed to the concept of ‘starter husband’.

As for women being a status symbol? Signing a marriage contract with a woman is an outward indicator that you are either unaware or unconcerned of the risks, or that you have so much money that you can afford to be taken for half + lawyer fees. Advertising either will likely make you a target…

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[Handsome VicParticipant 1613]

Anonymous wrote:

I had plenty of “status symbols”, my friends use to hold their dicks in awe!

Every one of them bankrupted my status with myself! Each one had her own form and style of trickery!

Now my status is SINGLE! It’s my badge of honor given to me by me!

I’m not the one that created pump’n’dump status! Women are the gate keepers of sex and the gates are rusted off their hinges! They’re no different than f~~~ing a public toilet if you ask me! Someone’s c~~~ has been there already and someone else will help you add to her thousand c~~~ stare when all is said and done!

It’s only your turn in the public toilet…

LOL Thanks for making me laugh coffee out my nose, MGTower. You have a way with words! Good post

I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

[Anonymous 12]

I used to be this was too. The problem is whether you are the young dorky guy with the hot woman or the older guy with the hot woman, anyone watching you will be thinking the same thing….

He’s paying her.

[xanthineParticipant 4903]

Women are not status symbols. When i see a powerful man with a woman, i think to myself, she owns that man. She owns his wallet, his house, most of his financial assets, and a sizeable chunk of his income depending on how long they’ve been married and how old the kids are.

That is not status, but slavery. It’s the opposite of status.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

It took me one hot girlfriend to realize…

And the older they get, the longer that list of guys becomes.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Yes, I remember the blue pill days. I gathered and displayed hot women as status symbols. But I quickly found that the hot women required a lot of time, money and attention. Hot women proved to be a nuisance and not worth the hassle.

I then tried “nice” girls. They were worse than the hot girls.

“No girls” works well.

[DarkRyuParticipant 2354]

I dunno. I think having a hot f~~~toy signals to others that you’re either hot yourself, or you’ve got money. Personally? I have money but I certainly don’t want anyone to know it. And I couldn’t care less about what I look like. For all I know I’m a f~~~ing 1. I don’t give a s~~~. Looking “hot” is only good for attracting a woman, and I do everything I can to AVOID their attention. Personally? I think I’m about a 7. But I would have no f~~~ing clue. I’ve never been in a relationship and I never plan to be so what does it matter?

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