Wish me luck.

[WeakManParticipant 91]

Captain’s Log, I find myself today constantly being pulled in different directions by several women. Of course I know this is all figurative and they really can’t pull me any direction if I choose to not let them. I know all too well that the current girl whom I have given the #1 spot on the roster is not good for me. She has some redeeming qualities but definitely not worth the amount of time and attention I give to her.

I HAVE TO DO ME.

I give her so much time and attention (which she doesn’t deserve) because she is actually quite a depressed girl.

SOMETIMES SHE MAKES IT EASY ON ME TO LET HER LOOSE.

Perhaps if all signs point toward the exit what am I so scared of touching that door?

I think it’s my nature not to

LEAVE ANYONE BEHIND.

However, maybe it is for her better good to leave her in that room. I think she needs to reach for that door herself and enter through it when she has realized where that door is.

MAYBE I AM PROLONGING HER EVOLUTION BY HOLDING HER HAND IN THIS ROOM I DON’T BELONG.

When I look at this way, I know what I must do. MGTOW I beg of you to hold me accountable.

THIS WILL HURT THE MARTYR IN ME, I AM VERY SELFLESS BY NATURE BUT THIS IS FOR HER AND UNDOUBTEDLY MY OWN GOOD.

Life will go on for the both of us. Sometimes I am too dramatic. I like to see the Romance in all things.

I can see the image in front of me, I get off work tonight at 9pm, I will go over her house, I will tell her that I cannot do this any longer, she will ask why why why, I will tell her I have done thinking, she will cry OR get extremely angry. I will leave, probably crying as well, I will receive texts or calls from her, lengthy ones either degrading me or telling me she knew it or perhaps sad ones, saying she’s depressed or suicidal, I will receive calls later and voicemails about how she needs me.

I MUST PASS THROUGH THAT DOOR TO THE ROOM I BELONG, I HAVE TO HOPE SHE IS STRONG ENOUGH TO GET THROUGH THAT DOOR.

If she fails, and doesn’t, my heart will be heavy, deep down I route for everyone, damn this heart of mine.

No one will fault me for moving on and leaving her alone. She is clever and witty and I am sure she can charm some other guy to hold her hand and I must bank on that. She doesn’t need me. I must stand strong.

OFF I GO, ON MY OWN WAY AGAIN.

[Anonymous 3]

your own mental health is at risk. Let go and Let God

[MutineerParticipant 1467]

Good luck bro. You know what you have to do. Let us know how it goes.

"The secret to happiness is freedom... And the secret to freedom is courage." - Thucydides

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

If you save a lady in distress all you get is a distressed lady.

Remember that.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

WeakMan wrote:

I give her so much time and attention (which she doesn’t deserve) because she is actually quite a depressed girl.

Rhetorical question…. but how can you like (or love) anyone who doesn’t like THEMSELVES? It’s a requirement.

You can maintain a personal policy that no relationship is worth having if she isn’t any FUN and enjoyable to be around. And you don’t need to feel bad about that either. That’s a MINIMUM requirement.

WeakMan wrote:

I think it’s my nature not to
LEAVE ANYONE BEHIND.

That sounds very noble and all…. but she’ll exploit that if you let her. So don’t let your manly compassion get the better of you.

WeakMan wrote:

I like to see the Romance in all things.

To your own detriment, you can be sure.
Does a WOMAN see the “romance” in all things?

When a woman is in love with a man, she moves to Paris and he buys a plane ticket to visit her….. he is now “the most romantic man in the world”. If she’s NOT in love with him, POOF!! she’ll think he’s a “STALKER”.

In both situations, the man has does nothing different or even wrong! Her merely wants to be with her. So the line between “complete romantic” and “total stalker” is purely imagined in her head. There is not even any equitable middle ground.

This should be enough to make you reconsider any “romantic” stunts to please and appease her.

WeakMan wrote:

she will cry

So what.

WeakMan wrote:

OR get extremely angry

So what. Nether of them are the kind of relationship you want with ANYONE. See point number 1 at top again.

WeakMan wrote:

I will receive texts or calls from her, lengthy ones either degrading me or telling me she knew it or perhaps sad ones, saying she’s depressed or suicidal. I will receive calls later and voicemails about how she needs me.

You can refuse to discuss anything like this except in person. Texting is for “parking, be there in 5” or “car exploded, send help”….. not lengthy melodramatic paragraphs.

Holding herself hostage in attempt to get you to like her more, is dumb as s~~~.
She already has plenty of work to do on herself.

WeakMan wrote:

Wish me luck.

I would.. but “luck” is not a factor here.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[UntamedParticipant]

If you listen to your heart you’re f~~~ed! You already lost the war even before you engage in any battle and believe me, there is a war on your masculinity and they’re winning because of compassion and understanding. They like to play depressed and distressed so they get the attention they need and any man fool enough to fall for it is in a world of hurt.
I used to be compassionate and helpful. Now I want to kick myself in the arse for every act of compassion I ever did towards any of them.
They don’t deserve compassion, they don’t deserve boyfriends or husbands. ALL they deserve is to be dissed and shunned.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

How many men have lived your route. It is the dreaded breakup.

Your words expressed the resolve it will take within you.

Carpe Diem my brother…

Peace brothers

[JVBParticipant]

Is that really what you look like ?

Peace is > piece.

[WeakManParticipant 91]

It is done.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

WeakMan wrote:

I think it’s my nature not to
LEAVE ANYONE BEHIND.

It’s not like she is wounded the battle field. She is hardly alone the whole hive has her back.

Weakman?

Just calling yourself weakman sets you up for failure. Fix that first.

WeakMan wrote:

THIS WILL HURT THE MARTYR IN ME, I AM VERY SELFLESS BY NATURE BUT THIS IS FOR HER AND UNDOUBTEDLY MY OWN GOOD.

That’s very dramatic. Romance and Drama won’t serve you well. Their mental traps we spring on ourselves and lead us to blupill hell.

WeakMan wrote:

, I HAVE TO HOPE SHE IS STRONG ENOUGH TO GET THROUGH THAT DOOR.

I bet she is stronger than you think.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[MonkParticipant 16995]

WeakMan wrote:

It is done.

Let it STAY DONE.

Face the front. The future beckons.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I had a Vietnamese-born gf I broke up with; I did so on a walk. She texted me later about how she cried, but the funny thing is, I didn’t see much emotion on the walk when I was breaking up with her.

I kind of felt like I was watching some mass of computer circuits calculating.

The key to breaking up with a woman, is to realize that you never should have felt anything for her, because everything you felt for is based on the false image that women present.

Now that I know female nature, and how society works, I am incapable of “falling in love” with a woman.

When I got home, I watched “Full Metal Jacket” scene with the hooker: “me so hawny, me love you long time”, “15 dollah” scenes and laughed.

Most relations~~~s with most women are just legal variations of prostitution. Its why “real” prostitution is illegal most places: it would probably start outcompeting “relations~~~s”.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

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