Wisdom: "Your Happiness is Your Responsibility"

[iMorningstarParticipant 59]

If you are in a monogamous relationship (or: are considering getting into one), you need to sit down and have this conversation with your partner. You need to make it clear to your partner that their happiness is not your responsibility. They need to work at making themselves happy. They can’t syphon their happiness from you. If they try, it will be a recipe for disaster (see: divorce).

How many women blame their men for their unhappiness?

How many women engage in vindictive and immature behavior (see: cheating) because they feel that their man is responsible for making them happy?

How many times have you heard some woman-child inform some guy to ‘man up’?

Will Smith tells Jada Pinkett Smith that her happiness is her responsibility:

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

Yes and No.

Some guys just get dealt a bad hand from Birth.

For most of us though, I’d say yeah, don’t rely on others for anything that you don’t need to. People will f~~~ you over if they can make a profit or a conquest out of you.

As the old guy’s used to say when I was a youngster learning Life:

“No one’s your mate when it comes to Money or Women”

Sad but usually true.

It's Time to get Wise

[It’sallbsParticipant]

No one’s your mate when it comes to anything people are selfish that’s it and would sell you down the river if it benefitted them.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 42]

Some people are dismally miserable and will never find happiness, like Carnage for instance, just kidding!

If you can’t be happy by yourself, how can you ever be happy around anyone else?

Some people carry the light, while others only know darkness as they overindulge on the negative human emotions with their negative side effect attributes.

Otherwise TOXIC PEOPLE.

I have zero tolerance for people with vast mood swings like their minds are an emotional blender!

I also think all the artificial estrogen in the common western diet is also causing millions of men to become emotionally bipolar just like their naturally imbalanced female counterparts.(manginas)

If it’s laced in emotion I go into F~~~ OFF OVERDRIVE! I run on level rails!

F~~~ EMOTIONAL ROLLER-COASTERS! BURN THEM ALL DOWN!

[AttonParticipant]

That sums it all up perfectly.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 38]

I don’t know much but I do know this: living a full and ‘happy’ life takes b~~~~.

Having the b~~~~ to

do what’s right
risk hurting others
tell the truth
be honest with yourself
swallow your pride
stick to your guns
be ruthless
be outcast
be vulnerable (in certain situations)

A man needs courage for all these things.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

The other problem is that women confuse boredom with unhappiness, hence why they love drama and excitement. This is why they want to be with Chads, the being treated like s~~~ and excitement of never knowing what is going on gets the tingles going like nothing else.

When they get married to a wallet and get the big house in the suburbs, the two children, the not having to work and zero worries they get bored stupid. This they mistake for unhappiness which is obviously the wallets fault as they were always told they are princesses and deserve to be happy.

Guess what the instant cure for unhappiness is? That right bouncing up and down on chads c~~~. It is the wallets fault they were forced to do this so they feel justified about divorce raping him.

After all it is just payment for the years of sex with a beta they had to put up with, almost like payment.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Sandancer37Participant 61]

I get that all the time “aren’t you lonely?” “You’ve got so much to offer” “Are you happy?” blah blah from friend wives.

My reply is yes I’m happy as I get to do the following without any interference, hassle, nagging, having to speak/call/text to a woman, adhere to any rules (not set by me)

I cook what I fancy, I watch what I like on TV, I read my books, I can indulge in my hobbies when I want, I can go out with my mates when I want, I can get absolutely p~~~ drunk when I want and have a laugh with my mates when I want, I can smoke my cigarettes when I want, I can go to my football teams matches both home and away when I want, I can travel around my local area and go to the countryside when I want.

All of the above makes me happy, lonely? Never, happy? Yes

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Anthony de Mello
The Way to Love

pages 20-1

How does one drop unhappiness? Find out what is causing it and look at the cause unflinchingly. It will automatically drop.

All you have to do is see, but really see, the following truths. First truth: You are holding on to a false belief, namely, the belief that without this particular person or thing you will not be happy.

Second truth: If you just enjoy things, refusing to let yourself be attached to them, that is, refusing to hold the false belief that you will not be happy without them, you are spared all the struggle and emotional strain of protecting them and guarding them for yourself.

The third and final truth: If you learn to enjoy the scent of a thousand flowers you will not cling to one or suffer when you cannot get it [oneitis]. If you have a thousand favorite dishes, the loss of one will go unnoticed and leave your happiness unimpaired.

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